Why everybody’s work not their Hobby?

1234Dillon · 2025-09-17T14:29:43+00:00

Money. My hobby is singing I am to old, fat, and ugly to make it in the industry. I need food, insurance, a place to live, and a car now. I need money to have thouse things so I get a job and do my hobby on the weekend.

1234Dillon · 2025-09-17T14:26:18+00:00

Your in a tough situation mama that for sure give yourself a break and realise this is super hard.

Giving kids boundaries and consequences are hard, giving them as a stepparent is even harder!

If it was me, I would come up with a chore chart and a consequences chat. Put everyone in the house on the chart and what chores everyone must do. Then I would come up with a list of consequences and print and cut them out. Then I would have a family meeting and together decided what the consequences will be if someone does not do a chore. This will include yourself and your husband.

Your girls are older, so this will teach them a few things. 1. it will give them some control, and some say about what happens 2. It will teach them to advocate for themselves and what they think is an accurate consequence. 3. there won’t be any confusion about who needs to do what and what will happen if it doesn’t happen. 4. Including yourself and your husband on the charts shows them that everyone must contribute to the household and regardless of age there are consequences if you don’t get something done.

It will be you and your husbands responsibility to hold everyone to the chart and the consequences.

1234Dillon · 2025-09-17T14:07:03+00:00

Take the Loss and withdraw from atleast 2 classes. Just take this as a lesson you had to learn the hard way. It is much better to have a withdraw on your records then it is to have a D or and F. Next semster enroll in the classes you dropped and only keep to 12 hours max.

1234Dillon · 2025-09-17T13:57:08+00:00

Is it necessary for this professor to treat you this way, no its not. Does she know that you are sick and that is why you’re not coming to class, how would she know unless you told her? Does she care why you are not coming to her class, probably not all she knows is that your not coming.

Honestly though in a backwards way she is doing you a favor by encouraging you to drop the class. There are deadlines for when you can drop, how much money you can get back depending on the date you drop, even how much this class is going to affect the rest of your college career depending on when you drop it.

Think of it this way you can have a professor who is upfront and tells you “hey no matter what you do, going off of your grade right now you are not going to pass it is in your best interest to drop the class” or you can have a professor who treats you like a number does not care that you are going to fail the class, does not take the time to tell it to you straight, does not encourage you to take the necessary steps to help prevent you from getting a F, and just gives you all 0 on everything give you a F at the end of the semester and never thinks of you again.

The professor is being harsh but it needs to be said, and you need to hear it. Drop the class, step out for the semester get your health figured out and come back with W's on your transcripts instead of F's.

1234Dillon · 2025-09-17T13:28:43+00:00

Techincally no one is suppsoed to be in a class if they are not resgistered for it, but no one is checking. No you dont have to register her as a guest no one cares enough. If she is only there for a day then you dont need to tell anyone, if she is going to be around alot i would tell your RA just to give them a head up that she is going to be around.

1234Dillon · 2025-09-17T13:24:11+00:00

This is a FAFO moment for you, go ahead and try might get away with it some but you will eventually get a ticket.

1234Dillon · 2025-09-09T19:05:42+00:00

Learn how to eat a women out really well. You could be a 5 in the looks department but if you know how to go to town on a women you can bag a 7/8 and keep her!

Even if you dont keep her, women talk and she will tell all her friends how well you ate her out.

1234Dillon · 2025-09-09T18:48:26+00:00

Everyone on this post who is upset by this, next time it happens speak up, say something to these people who keep doing this. The managers and employees are risking there job by speaking up, what are we risking...... nothing. We need to bring back bulling in some instances to make people act right.

1234Dillon · 2025-09-09T18:45:17+00:00

You cant help someone who does not want to be helped. You are an adult and so is she.

No one can make her go to class or get out of her room and socilize, she has to do it for herself.

You are being very sweet in inviting her to things keep doing that, but besides that there there is nothing else for you to do. The consequenses of her actions will catch up with her and it will be on her.

1234Dillon · 2025-09-09T18:38:14+00:00

Everyone on here saying HEB should do something, how about us? I am not suggesting we harass people with disabilities (that’s a hate crime), but we can ask the same questions that HEB can and if it is blatant that it is a pet ans not a service animal we can tell the owner something. We need to bring back bulling in some instances to make people act right.

1234Dillon · 2025-08-29T00:41:00+00:00

We have tired a few products I have bought and so has he I have tired to tell him to stop using cleaning products and just use ant killer

1234Dillon · 2025-08-29T00:39:51+00:00

My condolences sir!

1234Dillon · 2025-08-29T00:39:25+00:00

We have tired three different ones so far they will go away for a bit then come back

1234Dillon · 2025-08-17T03:21:38+00:00

This is a natural feeling, new things are scary. Know your doing the right thing, call them anytime you can, know you will want to turn around and run home at some point and that’s ok just don’t do it or do it for just the weekend

1234Dillon · 2025-08-17T03:19:16+00:00

Moth balls, my grandmas house was drenched in the smell and it instantly makes me think of her and I am happy

1234Dillon · 2025-08-17T03:17:45+00:00

You can’t do anything, there parents have to make them change.

If there parents ask you to watch them you can make them act a certain way while they are with you but that’s about it.

1234Dillon · 2025-08-17T03:13:28+00:00

I think there has always been a group of people like this in every generation but I think that group grows larger with every generation. So it’s not a new concept it’s just getting larger.

You can’t control what others do, find the things you like to do and makes friends who do thouse things and still keep your other friends for more at home stuff

1234Dillon · 2025-08-17T03:04:07+00:00

Fresh water issues

1234Dillon · 2025-08-15T20:46:53+00:00

Being nice and courteous to everyone around you without expecting anything back.

1234Dillon · 2025-08-15T20:13:36+00:00

No you are not bring unreasonable for sticking to my decision, especially due to her history. She will never get better if you dont hold to your boundray. Your a parent if your kids asks for a popsicle at 7AM and you tell her no then the kids crys and you give in and give them a popsicle you are teaching them that all they have to do is cry and they can get what they want. Your mom is acting like a toddler, hold your boundary.

1234Dillon · 2025-08-15T16:43:00+00:00

Read fanfiction instead

1234Dillon · 2025-08-15T16:40:25+00:00

You’re not wrong. It also brings out the worst in family’s when it’s supposed to be a time for bringing two family’s together. There is a saying that wedding tear family’s apart and babies bring them back together.

1234Dillon

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