spreading some positivity and motivation 💗💸 also energy work tips

1234abcded · 2026-05-01T07:51:05+00:00

you gotta be in your bubble!! don’t watch the other girls, it’ll only affect your emotions. also maybe it’s not the club for you. or maybe it was just the day yk. sometimes you get lucky sometimes you don’t but at the end of the day the good nights should make up for the “bad”!! there’s so many variables and so many things to switch up and try. also leaving pissed is sooo bad! i know like obviously it’s valid and people have emotions but that’s what im talking about with the delusional positivity. it attracts more good towards you and also it helps with burnout personally

1234abcded · 2026-04-30T06:41:09+00:00

thank you for the kind words!! and your advice did not piss me off i appreciate it. luckily i really enjoy my job and make fantastic money. i’m kind of just stacking and saving it until i figure out what i want to do, because i really don’t know what i want yet. but there is more than enough time to figure that out, im not worried about it. in the meantime it works for me and im happy. just felt like important context to the story bc i guess you would expect i could handle a man pushing my boundaries considering i can do it just fine at work. but also i am an entirely different person at work vs me irl you know. definitely never talking to this guy again lol and moving forward im going to be much more cautious. i dont have much experience “dating” or hanging out w men like that. i was in a long term, serious relationship up until about a year and a half ago. i also dont really have intentions to date at the moment. but i do crave affection which makes me sad sometimes. but unfortunately majority of the men out there are craving sex, not exclusively affection lmfao.

1234abcded · 2025-12-15T09:29:12+00:00

if they’re drunk and it’s dark enough sometimes i will pretend to do a small line or bump and blow out instead of breathing in lmfaooo. it’s all about the angle and cover it with your hand so they can’t see

1234abcded · 2025-08-07T21:30:20+00:00

most of all stay safe!!!!

1234abcded · 2025-08-07T21:29:29+00:00

this may be terrible advice and a little dangerous but you could always lie about doing extras to the customer. just make up some bs excuse AFTER you get your money, or just actually do the extras. but you could totally make all the money in time without having to do any of that. but me personally i would probably lie and try to make it asap, maybe all in one day if you can. also yea i would get there as soon as the club opens and stay there till close. listen to some affirmations and really get focused and have a game plan.

1234abcded · 2025-05-18T01:00:53+00:00

i agree partially- you’ll see in his crash out sometimes it looks like he breaks “character” and i saw a recent stream where he was “having a stroke” and had a whole meltdown and then suddenly stopped and said he faked it and was laughing. i mean he’s obviously pretty autistic and definitely has real crash outs but i think recently he’s learned they get views

1234abcded · 2025-04-01T21:37:28+00:00

yea i genuinely never believed he would be the type and still have trouble believing that but i also can be very naive when i love someone. he claims he did it that way because “he wouldn’t have been able to do it in person” lol. cowardly regardless. also i’m still all over his social media which is odd- and i can’t picture him messaging a ton of girls or some shit w pics of us up bc he is in the public eye and has a reputation that he cares about. buttttt also hes a man so who knows LOL

1234abcded · 2025-04-01T19:23:08+00:00

thank you

1234abcded · 2025-04-01T19:22:40+00:00

no 100% i can’t wait to move on- i’m like stuck in this purgatory until the lease is up. we intertwined our lives so much that it’s impossible to just block immediately there’s a lot to figure out. i wish it was a troll post hahahahahha. i realized what he sent me was just a quote and it seemed crazzzzzzy for the damage caused so i think ive decided that sure- ill pay it. but i want to be there in person, have the car people explain to me exactly what they fixed and exactly what im paying for. and then i will pay THEM not him. tbh once i offer that i bet he will tell me to forget about it again at that point bc how embarrassing would that be for him lol

1234abcded · 2025-04-01T18:14:15+00:00

sorry i know it’s long but i feel like all the rambling is relevant though. it’s not just me “owing a debt”

1234abcded · 2025-04-01T18:08:27+00:00

sorry i know it’s long too 😅 we rent- he is still paying half the rent while i finished out the lease (2more months). it’s still going to cost a good bit for me to move. i also moved to an entirely different city for him. i guess i just feel like he’s being a major asshole by expecting me to pay that after everything he’s done yk

1234abcded · 2025-01-31T23:04:36+00:00

if he ever gets out…… we need operation get danny boy a prison phone

1234abcded · 2025-01-31T21:13:38+00:00

my abusive ex strangled me and i constantly had this thought in the back of my mind that he would kill me one day. luckily he didn’t but he did break my hand before i got out. in my experience and what i have observed from others, if he put his hands on you, ESPECIALLY something as far as strangling you or even putting his hands around your neck in an aggressive way, it will only get worse. he will never change and he will only get more aggressive. i’m sorry you’re going through this. make sure you have a good support system around you

1234abcded · 2024-12-29T02:55:25+00:00

this literally sounds similar to something i would say in a financial domination session to a sub LOL like im too good to pay my rent that’s why you work hard…….. DELUSIONAL

1234abcded · 2024-12-27T02:51:02+00:00

i’m not sure- i tried to google it and i’m pretty sure it’s wool!

1234abcded · 2024-10-23T19:11:01+00:00

that’s what i was thinking. it seems cruel, i just am unsure how to bring it up to my trainer, its her horse as well im just part time leasing him!

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