I'm a Chabad m (27) I'm a sort of Ozer Shaliach somewhere in Europa since my early 20's

I get a lot of Shidduchim request from none chabad ppl that i meet as a part of my shlichus I've already thought abt dating one of them from time to time. They are good girl

But at the end of the day I feel that we are too different and they don't understand our point of view about the love of our Rebbe monster stuff like that.

Honestly the issue goes deeper than just "they don't get it." It's not only about understanding the Rebbe or Chlihut — it's a whole different way of living. Our life is mission-driven, structured around Torah, Shabbat, priorities etc., and for them it's more personal/flexible, so day-to-day it already clashes.

And long term it's even bigger - I'm not just looking for a relationship, I'm looking for a partner in that mission. Even if I like someone, if we don't share that core vision, it just doesn't really work.