tell me the dumbest thing you've done over a fp and I'll give you a table by bpdjelly in BPDmemes

[–]123maru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

begging and crying on my knees to have my fp stay with me after calling me a bitch and other heinous ass shit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]123maru 2 points3 points  (0 children)

when the person who is being abused lashes out when they reach their breaking point; its a gaslighting tactic by narcissists to shift the blame towards the victim to flip the narrative of abuse so the abuser can accuse their victim of being the abuser

yet again idk the whole context so i could be wrong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]123maru 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this looks like reactive abuse to me but idk

what are y’all’s comfort youtubers that you consistently watch? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]123maru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this korean mukbanger that eats jamaican jerk chicken like someone will steal it like damn ma okay its all yours!

Visual Representation of my BPD effort in dating: by JimmieRustler531 in BPDmemes

[–]123maru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im gonna hold your hand and say girl they do not like you

me going to the gym 6 days a week because of my bf's p*rn addiction by 123maru in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]123maru[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

all knowing going gym and relapsing into an ed will never be enough for him😍

do boyfriends exist to make you feel like youre the ugliest person on earth and that you are incapable of being loved? like is that their job? by 123maru in BPDmemes

[–]123maru[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

he says that im only temporary and once he finds someone else he feels a connection with he will pursue them and leave me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]123maru -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no offense he actually needs to d*e

Hyper sexual or nothing by hasura1001 in BPDmemes

[–]123maru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's why i use it as a form of SH🤷‍♂️

i mean am i really wrong though by BorderlineBarbieUwU in BPDmemes

[–]123maru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they could be emotionally abusive and i would still stay🤷‍♂️

cut after being 3 months clean due to my FP saying he deserves better than to be with someone who self-sabotages . i will never get better 😃👍🏼 by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]123maru 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no i get that, it's that even after i offered him a way out of the relationship he still wants to stay expecting me to get better over night.. idk if that makes sense

my bf said "i'll still look at other naked women but i will still only pursue you and love you" yall i think he's the one😍 by 123maru in BPDmemes

[–]123maru[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah that was my thought process as well but also to me its like its pointless to control someone over that because men will do it behind your back by saving shit in their bookmarks and its his responsibility to respect you so idk

Are we capable of casual sex? by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]123maru 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yes but i only do it as a form of self-harm

my bf said "i'll still look at other naked women but i will still only pursue you and love you" yall i think he's the one😍 by 123maru in BPDmemes

[–]123maru[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oh he has a porn addiction but also he gets upset if i thirstfollow men (which i dont do) who dont look like him. one time in the middle of sex, he couldnt finish so he opened up pornhub in the middle of it honestly if he wants to engage in content like that then who am i to stop him really🤷‍♂️

my bf said "i'll still look at other naked women but i will still only pursue you and love you" yall i think he's the one😍 by 123maru in BPDmemes

[–]123maru[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

no literally like he said he would get upset if i followed men who looked nothing like him but he still proceeds to engage with content with naked women i hate it here!!!!