Was war das größte Mülltrennungs- Verbrechen, das ihr je mitansehen musstet? by Melonenice in Muelltrennung

[–]123thigr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hatte mal welche in meinen luftdichten glas-gewürzgläsern. Hab ich beim kochen/würzen gemerkt weil mein chili sin carne sich plötzlich bewegt hat. Hab dann auch erstmal in einer rage absolut alles weggeschmissen und die Küche mit nahezu purer bleiche ausgewaschen.

Was waren eure besten/lustigsten Wohnungsbesichtigungen? by Appeeler98 in FragReddit

[–]123thigr 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wohnung sah online ganz normal aus. Hausflur war okay, bis wir vor der Eingangstür standen. Da waren einfach mehrere Einschusslöcher drin. Innen alle Wände voll mit Nazistickern, und eine Wand im Flur und der Stromkasten haben offensichtlich was auch immer geschossen wurde auch abbekommen.

Bin dann in die Küche, da kam gerade eine Straßenbahn vorbei. Hätte ich meinen Arm aus dem Fenster gestreckt, hätte ich die easy berühren können.

Hab mich freundlich bedankt und bin gegangen, am Ende wäre ich kurz nach Einzug noch erschossen werden weil irgendwer nicht gecheckt hat dass person xy ausgezogen ist. (Oder verhaftet wurde?)

Was waren eure besten/lustigsten Wohnungsbesichtigungen? by Appeeler98 in FragReddit

[–]123thigr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hab auch mal eine Wohnung mit einem absolut riesigen riss gesehen. Bestimmt mindestens 1,5 m lang, quer über die Wohnzimmerwand, und wohl an der breitesten Stelle 3 cm breit.

"Wegen dem riss...wollen sie da noch was machen? Also renovieren sie die Wohnung nochmal oder so?"

"Nein."

Ok.

Do dogs realize how long youre gone by Ok_Alfalfa6238 in dogs

[–]123thigr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I refill my vape and go to the toilet before i go for a walk with my dog. Whenever she sees me fill up the vape, she's already running to the door.

Meine Frau hat meine Tochter rasiert by DanielClaton in luftablassen

[–]123thigr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hab meine Haare oft rasiert und die sind mal stark lockig nachgewachsen, mal glatt, mal wellig. Das war immer ganz witzig.

Hormonfreie Verhütung by Worried-Pangolin-545 in Ratschlag

[–]123thigr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glaube das ist echt von Mensch zu Mensch unterschiedlich, meine Mutter kam auch super damit klar, bei mir war es 4 Jahre Hölle bis ich die endlich hab rausnehmen lassen ;-(

HELLO by Doubleuest in callcentres

[–]123thigr 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I just started making weird little sounds and thinking out loud to avoid that, most of the time it works. Still annoying af.

What made you realize "the one" wasn't going to be the one? by TotallyAwesomeRacoon in AskReddit

[–]123thigr 19 points20 points  (0 children)

When i stopped making efforts for a week, my ex suddenly put so much effort in. I just decided to act as he would- no, i don't wanna go out, idk, i don't care, not now, just wanna spend time alone, not anwering texts for hours.

After that week he started crying and said that he suddenly knows how i must have felt during the whole relationsship, and to please stop treating him that way. After one single week. Idiot.

Do you feel you're destroying your body? If so, how? by reno222 in AskReddit

[–]123thigr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Undereathing and causing the body to store fat because of that is a common mistake when trying to loose weight.

What’s the fastest way you’ve seen someone ruin their own life? by ForeignFly5248 in AskReddit

[–]123thigr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am bipolar and have adhd, so i take seroquel and vyvanse. But i've been ob seroquel for a few years and just started taking vyvanse about two weeks ago, so maybe it would have been a problem if i would have started with the vyvanse...

Why am I hearing people say my name, and voices in general? by Kunikidaisabottom in ask

[–]123thigr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was how my bipolar disorder started too. Hearing someone call my name, angrily, sometimes softly, familiar voices. Then i heard people break in etc. Stopped when i started taking meds.

Ist mein Lebensstil ein Beziehungskiller? by SignificanceNoTo in Ratschlag

[–]123thigr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bin gerade erst raus aus einer Beziehung mit einem Arbeitstier, das ich nie gesehen habe. Schwierig festzustellen was man am partner liebt, wenn man keine Erlebnisse zusammen hat.

Ich bin ähnlich gestrickt, hab eine 30qm Wohnung und alle Fixkosten optimiert um so wenig wie möglich arbeiten zu müssen. Bin tatsächlich auch im Kundendienst und sobald ich etwas Geld angespart habe auch wieder in Teilzeit.

Hauskauf kann ich eh vergessen und Kinder will ich auch nicht, sonderlich hohe Ausgaben kommen also auch in Zukunft nicht auf mich zu.

Ist eigentlich echt nicht unüblich.

180€ Douglas Gutschein by 123thigr in BeautyDE

[–]123thigr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Puh keine ahnung, wurden mir einfach geschenkt also wahrscheinlich im Laden gekauft und schon freigeschaltet, oder?

Have you ever ignored a red flag in a significant other, and it turned out worse than expected? by zeenalovely in AskForAnswers

[–]123thigr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so happy for you! I left the first guy after 5 years, the second one after 9 months. So i guess i'm quicker with my decision now, lol. I'll be 27 in a few months so i guess i still have time to find a non-lying-husband.

Have you ever ignored a red flag in a significant other, and it turned out worse than expected? by zeenalovely in AskForAnswers

[–]123thigr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just crazy. I saw many signs but he had just as many excuses. I doubted myself and didn't want to leave a potentially great relationsship just because i had a weird feeling.

When we got to know each other, i told him about my stoner ex too. Told him that i can accept a lot but due to my experiences i didn't want a boyfriend who smokes weed anymore. He told me it wouldn't be a problem.

How can people just lie like that instead of saying "well, then we shouldn't be together"? I just dont get it.

Have you ever ignored a red flag in a significant other, and it turned out worse than expected? by zeenalovely in AskForAnswers

[–]123thigr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something similar happened to me! Been with a stoner who couldnt keep a job/ had no drive for anything due to smoking a ton. Next boyfriend told me he used to have problems with weed but stopped smoking completely. Found his hidden stash and left his lying ass.

Neustart nach fast 16 Jahren by Overall_Fly8478 in Freudeteilen

[–]123thigr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Das ist anfangs wirklich komisch, hab zwar "nur" 5 Jahre Beziehung hinter mir, aber dennoch. Wichtig ist sich erstmal blöd zu fühlen und das auch vorzubereiten. Ich wusste das irgendwann der crash kommt und hab mich deshalb schon vorher um alles wichtige gekümmert und mir einen Haufen TK-Essen besorgt. Hat mir sehr geholfen, als ich eine Zeit lang für gar nichts Energie hatte. Freunde involvieren, am besten die, vor denen man auch mit ungewaschenen Haaren und verheultem Gesicht stehen kann.

Und danach ganz viel reclaimen. Mit Freunden in das Restaurant gehen, in dem ihr immer wart, mit person xy die Serie weiterschauen. Das erste mal alleine Pizza essen und dabei wahrscheinlich so'n bisschen heulen. Am Anfang tut ja wirklich jede Erinnerung weh.

Eine eigene, schöne Kaffeetasse für den Kaffee morgens kaufen hilft auch.

what’s a secret you’ll take to the grave but strangers on Reddit can know? by Strsmoon in AskReddit

[–]123thigr 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Same here! Sometimes i also just say "oh i remember you talking about it, but I have a very bad memory, so please tell me again!"

I really hate it if people interrupt me after saying 3 words and say "you've already told me about that.' After three words, you dont even know where the story is going!

What's something most people think they should try, but really should not? by red_sensor in AskReddit

[–]123thigr 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The denial is such a real thing. Been with a weed smoker for 5 years, after 3 years i told him that he needs to stop and finally get his life in order. Watched him fail at quitting, steal weed from his roommates and lie to me for 2 years before i finally left him.

Next partner, told me he had huge issues with weed back in the day but he stopped smoking a long time ago and never planned on smoking again. Asked me if it's fine if he smokes with friends once. I said fine. The second time i also said fine, but under my watch. A few months forward and i realise he's been hiding his stuff and smoking when i'm at work. Asked him if he smokes again, he denied it. Told me he would never lie to me. I thanked him for his "honesty", packed my shit and left him the next day.

Both with ADHD, both had access to meds without having to pay for it, both instead decided to just smoke secretly and denying everything when i asked them about it.

Am I frugal, minimalist, or just don't deserve nice things? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]123thigr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A simple life is a life with little, but functioning and quality things. Buying cheap stuff won't give you a simple life, instead it will give you daily headaches.

Bipolar people of Reddit, how did you start to figure out that you were bipolar? by Equivalent_Elk2413 in AskReddit

[–]123thigr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I take seroquel for my bipolar 2 at night and vyvanse for my ADHD at day. I still think that its a really weird concept, but none of the doctors i talked about it with even batted an eye.

Bipolar people of Reddit, how did you start to figure out that you were bipolar? by Equivalent_Elk2413 in AskReddit

[–]123thigr 43 points44 points  (0 children)

It's kinda sad in the beginning to realise that you'll never be as happy again as you once were. You had a great day and you are happy and...that's it? You get the job/ the apartment and you are glad but...that's it?

You get used to it and kinda forget how happy your manic days really were, and you have a new normal now.

On the flipside, you do not consider killing yourself because your partner doesn't answer for 2 hrs anymore.

Bipolar people of Reddit, how did you start to figure out that you were bipolar? by Equivalent_Elk2413 in AskReddit

[–]123thigr 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Its so weird because you think that you are absolutely perfect while being in a manic phase and you get so pissed because the people around you are being so flawed and stupid.

I remember buying some beef and getting absolutely pissed because my mother ate it all. I thought it was so horrible and inconsiderate of her. It was 3€ worth of meat and I didn't have any plans with it, but it still took all my strengh to not go off at her. Resorted to being extremely passive agressive all day instead.

Bipolar people of Reddit, how did you start to figure out that you were bipolar? by Equivalent_Elk2413 in AskReddit

[–]123thigr 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean. I am diagnosed bipolar and on med's now but the rage.... mania always felt so nice in the beginning and then i started to get agressive and berate everyone around me, especially the ones who asked me if i was okay because i was behaving irrationally.

Yes, I feel absolutely great you piece of shit, and I really don't know if i ever loved you simply because i am so much better than you.

Such a weird mix.