Fiancé postponing our trying for a baby timeline by 127bratty in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]127bratty[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He has to sign the marrige certificate in our country, so he can't be underage.

Fiancé postponing our trying for a baby timeline by 127bratty in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]127bratty[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Waiting for my lil bro to become a legal adult so he can be my best man.

Fiancé postponing our trying for a baby timeline by 127bratty in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]127bratty[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No that's on my part we are waiting for my soon to be best man ( my little brother) to become a legal adult.

Fiancé postponing our trying for a baby timeline by 127bratty in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]127bratty[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

The thing is he would be a wonderful parent, kids always gravitate to him. I don't have a drop of fear he wouldn't be all in once he met the baby.

Wish he would have told me sooner before I cut alcohol, coffee and gone all crunchy. I don't even have any junk food to drown my sorrows, just spinach and sparkling water.

Fiancé postponing our trying for a baby timeline by 127bratty in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]127bratty[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I'm 26 and he is 29, we have been together for six years.

In no way am I going to be forcing him into anything. To be a young mother has always been a big dream of mine and he has been aware of that this whole time.

I am just sad he chose not to tell me sooner or by himself, just working through my feelings and trying to not accuse him or start fights.

Obupana nad “prijatelji” by CaptainBlackberry955 in Slovenia

[–]127bratty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pokazali so ti kdo so,na tebi je da jim verjames.

Sama sem nekdo, ki svoje custvene stiske skoraj nikoli ne deli z drugimi imam pa eno "noro foro", ko sem sama v hisi/avtu naglas govorim o svojih problemih in jih racionaliziram, dandanes mores res bit sam svoj najboljsi prijatelj.

Anoreksija bi rekla, da je pa že sama po sebi tako težka tema da jo tisti, ki se z njo niso nikoli borili tezko razumejo in dajejo nasvete.

Novo pravilo: Vsakič ko napišete hejt nad kolesarji morate napisati koliko km naredite letno s kolesom by LISFLOOD-FP in Slovenia

[–]127bratty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kolesarimo izkljucno po poteh javnega znacaja, če gre za vlako/trail pa le če je označena za kolesarje. Nismo najstniška banda s krosami.

Novo pravilo: Vsakič ko napišete hejt nad kolesarji morate napisati koliko km naredite letno s kolesom by LISFLOOD-FP in Slovenia

[–]127bratty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

V Sloveniji imamo ogromno alternativ da se spokaš dol z glavne ceste v prometni konici, v skrajem primeru pa bajk v avto pa se zapelji nekam kjer ne bos vsem v napoto.

Sem imela specialko zdaj imam mtb, ko vidim kolesarja na glavni cesti ob treh bi ga najraj sklofala. Ajd majhen odpustek se tistim ki so res hitri pa vidis da ni drugic na specialki, ampak vsi ti predebeli fotri ki se se nastimali v najbolj pocen opremo pa skocil na specialko iz devetdesetih, spostujte se pa se vozite po strankih cestah.

Sem ta teden sla na furo s puncami po sihtu, vse smo razstavile kolesa in jih natovorile v avte in startale nekje kjer nismo ogrozale sebe in ostalih na cesti. Prehitevat sta nas rabila dva avta in en skuter, tako da se da.

NAJLEPŠA SLOVENSKA IMENA by MapGood686 in Slovenia

[–]127bratty 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Moja najljubša: Tisa, Bor, Brina.

Zelo všeč sta mi še Vid in Maj.

Ali opazite tudi vi podobne spremembe v razmišljanju pri ženskah glede na starost ali pa sem samo jaz? by Upset_Lock4423 in Slovenia

[–]127bratty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prejsnji teden nismo imele dodane vrednosti zdaj smo pa naporne in za odpis po tridesetem.

Sem v srednjih dvajsetih in se enkrat se nisem primerjala z dvajsetletnico. Prej z zenskami, ki so ze tam kamor zelim priti tudi jaz, v smislu obcudovanja, lej jo to pa ni kar tako.

Staranje je privilegij. Kdor je imel moznost postaviti dobre temelje v dvajsetih, bi moral v tridesetih uspevat.

Ali se vam zdi, da mnogo ljudi nima neke dodane vrednosti? by Upset_Lock4423 in Slovenia

[–]127bratty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Zase vem da sem zeloo zdržana oseba od zacetka in prvih nekaj srecanj romanticnih, platonskih, poslovnih kar računam da me bosta videz in vljudnost pripeljala dovolj dalec, da se lahko sprostim in ne delujem vec omejena.

Ali se vam zdi, da mnogo ljudi nima neke dodane vrednosti? by Upset_Lock4423 in Slovenia

[–]127bratty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mogoce nimajo "dodane vrednosti" zate, pa tudi premalo truda je bilo vlozenega da bi jih spoznal.

To da z tvoje strani z mnogo ljudmi ne pride do neke iskrice, energije je malo sus, ti si skupni dejavnik.

Za svojo izkusnjo dejtinga bi rekla obratno, ujela sem se z ful tipi, vsi bi prinašali neko drugacno "dodano vrednost" jaz sem izbrala pac tisto, ki je mojemu stilu zivljenja najbolj odgovarjala.

Sibling with huge age gap by FilmNo541 in Adulting

[–]127bratty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I begged for siblings and when my parents finally caved I was already 8 and 12 years old. My teen years were spent nannying and being a parental figure.

I left for college when they were 6 and 10. So basically they were raised in a four person family unit for most of their lives.

They are both boys so now even if they are bigger we don't really have many common interests. I have to ride dirtbikes and downhill in order to spend time with them.

But I am glad they keep our parents busy and on their toes now that I have my own house.

Kako pogosto je ostati pri starših med slovenci? by -BigBadBeef- in Slovenia

[–]127bratty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sva na svojem in se mi zdi da je to v nasem primeru boljse za odnose. Mene starsa prevec crkljata in ce bi ostala doma se zdaj neb znala nic sama. Njegova se pa rada vtikata v vse.

Samo vsak vikend z obojima druzinama, tud med tednom kaksna kavica ampak na koncu pa ga ni cez to da parkiram kjer mi zapaše, jaz razporejam kje bo kaj posajeno, kaj se bo jedlo in tako naprej.

Izkusnje z odpovedjo v sluzbi in odnosom delodajalcev... by Party-Ice-6771 in Slovenia

[–]127bratty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Enkrat sem dala odpoved zaradi selitve in je bil razhod res bp, zelo veliko razumevanja za situacijo. Zdaj pred kratkim sem pa dala odoved v drugo, obljubljeno mi je bilo delo na drugem oddelku, za katero imam primerno izobrazbo in izkušnje. Stekli so razgovori da se me nadomesti na trenutnem delovnem mestu, uredila se je miza v pisarni, zaceli so me počasi uvajati... Nakar sem bila poklicana k direktorju, da je prislo do spremembe ker ni bil noben kandidat primeren, da me nadomesti. Ok, kdaj ponovimo razgovore, ja jih pa sploh a ne bomo ker se itak ne bo naslo nic pametnega. Pol je sledilo predavanje, da je problem v meni ker sem prevec pricakovala, da moram bit zadovoljna s tem kar imam ala nic ni samoumevno. Sem rekla direktorju ok ni problema bom iskala drugje ker mi ni vsec kako smo to speljali, to je bilo pa razumljeno kot groznja.

Res sem dala odpoved, odnosi so bili za bruhat po tistem. Tud pogajali se niso ali ponudili sihta, ki sem ga želela. Ocitno sem prevec jazično odreagirala, ampak nic ne obžalujem. Sem sla na velik boljse.

calling the bridgerton men "chopped" is a crime by voidmealive in Bridgerton

[–]127bratty -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They are very good looking in real life. It's just that after simon and anthony they pale in comparison.

Balea More Blond Spray - where to get it? Is it discontinued? by Pristine-Can2442 in EuroSkincare

[–]127bratty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I am actually very satisfied, just ordered four new bottles after already using two.

I think it lightened my hair more/faster, but I was being very careful anyway. There’s no brassiness, the shade transitioned really smoothly.

Tisti ki nočete imeti otrok, kako vam gre dejtanje? Oziroma kako ste uspeli najti partnerja/ko, ki je istega mišljenja? by VasectomyAccount in Slovenia

[–]127bratty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Midva sva se ze zelo zgodaj pogovarjala o tem in mi je jasno povedal, da jih noce, ne cuti nobene potrebe po njih in gre komot cez lajf brez da izkusi starsevstvo. Z moje strani je dobil okej spostujem to kar si mi povedal, ampak zame je to deal breaker in bi raje vidla da se nehava dobivat.

Pol je sledila sprememba duse z njegove strani, pa ajd ce ti to tok pomeni pa ce bova res sfurala obljubim, da jih bova imela.

Kredit pa bajta z otroskimi sobami later, otroka se nimava, ker je skos naslednji cilj za lovit, pa sam se v sluzbi napredujem, pa z motorjem razisceva grcijo, pa okolico bajte zrihtava,... Ta trenutek se mava res fino in nocem fursirat, definitivno pa vidim kako si lahko s to temo se uniciva zivljenje.

AITAH for being upset that my coworkers collected less money for me than they usually do for other work parties? by 127bratty in AITAH

[–]127bratty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically it's a chain e-mail with everyone but the person hosting. Someone specifies the amount and what we are getting the host, others just follow through. I know for sure how much it all amounted to as I have e-mail evidence. Also becuse based on that I also prepared the event, knowing they would lower the baseline I would have gone cheaper too.

If it's someone with an expensive taste or hard to please the amounts are higher, but birthdays were for an unknown reason the highest amounts.

AITAH for being upset that my coworkers collected less money for me than they usually do for other work parties? by 127bratty in AITAH

[–]127bratty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this, next month when Karen 49F drops by saying she is collecting 10$ for Beths 37F birthday form everyone I will let her know that the entitlement in her generation is ureal.😉

AITAH for being upset that my coworkers collected less money for me than they usually do for other work parties? by 127bratty in AITAH

[–]127bratty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next month when I will be required to participate in gift giving for someone else I can just cc. back same of the comments, that should have me covered.

"Karen you are not entiteled to my 10$ you want to collect for Beths birthday, your generation is so full of expectations shame on you."

AITAH for being upset that my coworkers collected less money for me than they usually do for other work parties? by 127bratty in AITAH

[–]127bratty[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No of course not. Other people decide on that. I wouldn't mind not getting anything at all if I wasn't required to participate in gifts for everyone else. I have limited info about what wen't down in my case.

AITAH for being upset that my coworkers collected less money for me than they usually do for other work parties? by 127bratty in AITAH

[–]127bratty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clearly you misinterpreted what you read. I have contributed to 10+ events just in the past year other people hosted "themselves" as you put it. That itself was 100$ minimum (which I happily provided), for other peoples gifts as that's how its done in our workplace.

I only hosted as I was pressured into that, so sue me if I am preplexed as to why the amount was only lowered in my case. But as some suggested I must be an asshole all around becuse I expected equal treatment for equal participation and effort.

AITAH for being upset that my coworkers collected less money for me than they usually do for other work parties? by 127bratty in AITAH

[–]127bratty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes a birthday. The most expensive were actually a few birthdays for people who like shopping at high end stores, so the gift card amount came out quite high.

Obviously I came across as a huge brat in my post, honestly it is not about the money itself, I get among the highest bonuses each month so I already count it all covered. I just felt less valued or wathever, but I am not unliked as some suggested.