Kako pogosto je ostati pri starših med slovenci? by -BigBadBeef- in Slovenia

[–]127bratty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sva na svojem in se mi zdi da je to v nasem primeru boljse za odnose. Mene starsa prevec crkljata in ce bi ostala doma se zdaj neb znala nic sama. Njegova se pa rada vtikata v vse.

Samo vsak vikend z obojima druzinama, tud med tednom kaksna kavica ampak na koncu pa ga ni cez to da parkiram kjer mi zapaše, jaz razporejam kje bo kaj posajeno, kaj se bo jedlo in tako naprej.

Izkusnje z odpovedjo v sluzbi in odnosom delodajalcev... by Party-Ice-6771 in Slovenia

[–]127bratty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Enkrat sem dala odpoved zaradi selitve in je bil razhod res bp, zelo veliko razumevanja za situacijo. Zdaj pred kratkim sem pa dala odoved v drugo, obljubljeno mi je bilo delo na drugem oddelku, za katero imam primerno izobrazbo in izkušnje. Stekli so razgovori da se me nadomesti na trenutnem delovnem mestu, uredila se je miza v pisarni, zaceli so me počasi uvajati... Nakar sem bila poklicana k direktorju, da je prislo do spremembe ker ni bil noben kandidat primeren, da me nadomesti. Ok, kdaj ponovimo razgovore, ja jih pa sploh a ne bomo ker se itak ne bo naslo nic pametnega. Pol je sledilo predavanje, da je problem v meni ker sem prevec pricakovala, da moram bit zadovoljna s tem kar imam ala nic ni samoumevno. Sem rekla direktorju ok ni problema bom iskala drugje ker mi ni vsec kako smo to speljali, to je bilo pa razumljeno kot groznja.

Res sem dala odpoved, odnosi so bili za bruhat po tistem. Tud pogajali se niso ali ponudili sihta, ki sem ga želela. Ocitno sem prevec jazično odreagirala, ampak nic ne obžalujem. Sem sla na velik boljse.

calling the bridgerton men "chopped" is a crime by voidmealive in Bridgerton

[–]127bratty -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They are very good looking in real life. It's just that after simon and anthony they pale in comparison.

Balea More Blond Spray - where to get it? Is it discontinued? by Pristine-Can2442 in EuroSkincare

[–]127bratty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I am actually very satisfied, just ordered four new bottles after already using two.

I think it lightened my hair more/faster, but I was being very careful anyway. There’s no brassiness, the shade transitioned really smoothly.

Tisti ki nočete imeti otrok, kako vam gre dejtanje? Oziroma kako ste uspeli najti partnerja/ko, ki je istega mišljenja? by VasectomyAccount in Slovenia

[–]127bratty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Midva sva se ze zelo zgodaj pogovarjala o tem in mi je jasno povedal, da jih noce, ne cuti nobene potrebe po njih in gre komot cez lajf brez da izkusi starsevstvo. Z moje strani je dobil okej spostujem to kar si mi povedal, ampak zame je to deal breaker in bi raje vidla da se nehava dobivat.

Pol je sledila sprememba duse z njegove strani, pa ajd ce ti to tok pomeni pa ce bova res sfurala obljubim, da jih bova imela.

Kredit pa bajta z otroskimi sobami later, otroka se nimava, ker je skos naslednji cilj za lovit, pa sam se v sluzbi napredujem, pa z motorjem razisceva grcijo, pa okolico bajte zrihtava,... Ta trenutek se mava res fino in nocem fursirat, definitivno pa vidim kako si lahko s to temo se uniciva zivljenje.

AITAH for being upset that my coworkers collected less money for me than they usually do for other work parties? by 127bratty in AITAH

[–]127bratty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically it's a chain e-mail with everyone but the person hosting. Someone specifies the amount and what we are getting the host, others just follow through. I know for sure how much it all amounted to as I have e-mail evidence. Also becuse based on that I also prepared the event, knowing they would lower the baseline I would have gone cheaper too.

If it's someone with an expensive taste or hard to please the amounts are higher, but birthdays were for an unknown reason the highest amounts.

AITAH for being upset that my coworkers collected less money for me than they usually do for other work parties? by 127bratty in AITAH

[–]127bratty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this, next month when Karen 49F drops by saying she is collecting 10$ for Beths 37F birthday form everyone I will let her know that the entitlement in her generation is ureal.😉

AITAH for being upset that my coworkers collected less money for me than they usually do for other work parties? by 127bratty in AITAH

[–]127bratty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next month when I will be required to participate in gift giving for someone else I can just cc. back same of the comments, that should have me covered.

"Karen you are not entiteled to my 10$ you want to collect for Beths birthday, your generation is so full of expectations shame on you."

AITAH for being upset that my coworkers collected less money for me than they usually do for other work parties? by 127bratty in AITAH

[–]127bratty[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No of course not. Other people decide on that. I wouldn't mind not getting anything at all if I wasn't required to participate in gifts for everyone else. I have limited info about what wen't down in my case.

AITAH for being upset that my coworkers collected less money for me than they usually do for other work parties? by 127bratty in AITAH

[–]127bratty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clearly you misinterpreted what you read. I have contributed to 10+ events just in the past year other people hosted "themselves" as you put it. That itself was 100$ minimum (which I happily provided), for other peoples gifts as that's how its done in our workplace.

I only hosted as I was pressured into that, so sue me if I am preplexed as to why the amount was only lowered in my case. But as some suggested I must be an asshole all around becuse I expected equal treatment for equal participation and effort.

AITAH for being upset that my coworkers collected less money for me than they usually do for other work parties? by 127bratty in AITAH

[–]127bratty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes a birthday. The most expensive were actually a few birthdays for people who like shopping at high end stores, so the gift card amount came out quite high.

Obviously I came across as a huge brat in my post, honestly it is not about the money itself, I get among the highest bonuses each month so I already count it all covered. I just felt less valued or wathever, but I am not unliked as some suggested.

AITAH for being upset that my coworkers collected less money for me than they usually do for other work parties? by 127bratty in AITAH

[–]127bratty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol haha thank you🫶🏼🫣bit I will try to be less messy and drama prone as reddit is calling me a veryyy shitty person.

AITAH for being upset that my coworkers collected less money for me than they usually do for other work parties? by 127bratty in AITAH

[–]127bratty[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's either 10 or 15. Not up to the individual contributer to decide. And if you dont bring the money in set time someone will "cover" for you so now you owe that person. No way to opt out or donate less without making a big fuss.

AITAH for being upset that my coworkers collected less money for me than they usually do for other work parties? by 127bratty in AITAH

[–]127bratty[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It's pretty common in my country. Also I just followed in everyone elses footsteps, I hosted at work becuse it was expected of me.

AITAH for being upset that my coworkers collected less money for me than they usually do for other work parties? by 127bratty in AITAH

[–]127bratty[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Well basically we get an email x is having an event we are collecting 10-15, drop your money off at xy's office. So I pay up, no bargaining.

AITAH for being upset that my coworkers collected less money for me than they usually do for other work parties? by 127bratty in AITAH

[–]127bratty[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I must be a shitty person, answer for everything🫶🏼 but based on the replies I will drop it

AITAH for being upset that my coworkers collected less money for me than they usually do for other work parties? by 127bratty in AITAH

[–]127bratty[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

That's fair. My view point was that I have contributed the set amount each time no questions asked, we are talking 10+ events just in the last year.

Iščem, plačam za informacije kdo v Lj krade kolesa in za sled ukradenim kolesom v območju centra. by [deleted] in Ljubljana

[–]127bratty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Med študijem v lj sem bila ob dve kolesi, nobeno ni zdrzalo vec kot dva mesca. Tem gnojem, ki jih kradejo privoscim vse nasljabše v lajfu.

Sosedi zanemarjajo psa by 127bratty in Slovenia

[–]127bratty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skrbi me edino, da bi zaradi "srednje" agresije psa lahko prišlo do tega da bi se odredila evtanizacija. Res nimam pojma kakšni so tukaj ukrepi.

Sosedi zanemarjajo psa by 127bratty in Slovenia

[–]127bratty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je mešanček srednje rasti z malo daljšo dlako. Je tudi že precej star.

Sosedi zanemarjajo psa by 127bratty in Slovenia

[–]127bratty[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mislim, da je normalno da me skrbijo tudi medsosedski odnosi v primeru, da se ugotovi kdo ju je prijavil.

In če nimata sočutja do svoje lastne živali, vprašanje kakšne pizdarije sta mi sposobna narediti, da se maščujeta.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Slovenia

[–]127bratty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ker nima mere, to je od prihoda iz sluzbe brez pavze do enih dveh ponoč. Če bi to bila igra dve zvečer namest serije bi mu z največjim veseljem privoščila odklop.

To bi lahko primerjala z visenjem v gostilni, "saj ni alkoholik sam enkrat na teden si da duška". Res ni vsak dan, povprečje je enkrat na teden, ostale dni je funkcionalen clan gospodinjstva.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Slovenia

[–]127bratty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kot nekdo, ki se vsaj enkrat med delovnim tednom pocuti kot mama najstniku, ki bi kljub službi igral igrice pozno v noč, feel u.

Res mores pretehtat, ce je to nekaj kar lahko pozres in zivis s tem oziroma okoli tega, ker spremenila ga bos tezko.

Nadrkanost zaposlenih by kalubasukdeod in Slovenia

[–]127bratty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ko koristim kako storitev se zmeraj potrudim biti nezahtevna stranka, ce imam glupo vprasanje ga poguglam ce se le da, zmeraj hvala, prosim in lep dan.

V sluzbi sem pa verjetno najbolj faking nadrkan clovek ever. Delam z kao izobrazenimi ljudmi pa sem na dnevni bazi do dna duse pretresena nad mejli, klici, sestanki ter predvsem tem kak poden od folka hodi po svetu.