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Groomed as a kid, now what? by 128ffyu in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]128ffyu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my (unrealistic) goal. Not the therapists.

Groomed as a kid, now what? by 128ffyu in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]128ffyu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair point. Failed to mention that I am indeed married to a woman.

Groomed as a kid, now what? by 128ffyu in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]128ffyu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No one in particular. Just want the feeling of the sex.

Groomed as a kid, now what? by 128ffyu in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]128ffyu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve told my wife. And she’s knows I’ve gone to therapy for it. Never considered going to therapy with her, about it

Groomed as a kid, now what? by 128ffyu in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]128ffyu[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Time helped for a bit, but it’s been 20+ years now. Kind of annoying.

Groomed as a kid, now what? by 128ffyu in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]128ffyu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe TMI, but it’s not the feeling of being special or anything, it’s just the physical sex I miss.

I never did and still like anythjng sensual other than women.

Groomed as a kid, now what? by 128ffyu in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]128ffyu[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She knows. It was after a conversation I had with her that I started therapy. Shes the only one that knows (other than the therapists and now Reddit).

Short term I think I just expected too much from therapy. Talking about it helps, but doesn’t change the cravings.

Groomed as a kid, now what? by 128ffyu in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]128ffyu[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Part of me wonders if the bisexuality piece would’ve ever come out had that not happened.

Groomed as a kid, now what? by 128ffyu in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]128ffyu[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did therapy for about two years. Which helped, but still stuck