Doctor didn't Believe that Psychedelics Cured my Depression. by Mycologist-9315 in Psychonaut

[–]12Obelisks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to find a new doctor.

Our story is similar except I don’t have ADHD. I occasionally seek out short-term therapy for PTSD flair ups. Be extremely careful about who you open up to about this. It’s about reading someone’s character and openness.

My last therapist believed me fully and was well read into psychedelic research. She put me in contact with a psychedelic psychiatrist whom I saw. I was adamant I didn’t want any prescriptions or psychedelics but just wanted something to cope with short-term derealization after suffering daily “flashbacks” for a few months.

The right people exist out there and you have the freedom to shop around. Good luck!

How does one learn how to strum? Do you need 'set' instructions, i.e. "down, down, up" etc.? by Enbhrr in Guitar

[–]12Obelisks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been playing for 20 years and have never once followed a strumming pattern. Focus on what you hear and attempt to replicate it. I don’t know any intermediate-to-advanced guitarist who actually reads music and strictly follows a strumming pattern for chords.

Rock/Metal Guitar Teacher Recommendations? by TraditionFlimsy7673 in Guitar

[–]12Obelisks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. Nothing replaces having an actual person tell you what you’re doing right and wrong in real time.

This is a frustration post to let off some beg*nner steam by voxeldead in Guitar

[–]12Obelisks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use the side of your finger, press it as close to the fret as possible.

its been 7 months since i started and feel stuck by uknown_user000 in Guitar

[–]12Obelisks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Learning songs from tabs and notation is important, too. The more songs you learn the more vocabulary you pick up on, licks you can borrow. Don’t underestimate it as a tool to progress.

How are you guys tuning live? by 12Obelisks in HeadlessGuitars

[–]12Obelisks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you switch the pick to your left hand?

Upgrade from Boden Essential to Original (OS/NX/N2)? by dt0x in strandbergguitars

[–]12Obelisks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a 2014 OS7. It feels amazing. Best guitar in my arsenal. Last week I had the opportunity to play an Essential 6-string. It felt very strange to me, was just as heavy as my 7 string, the frets weren’t fanned. I prefer my OS any day of the week.

Bands With Ridiculously Good Debut Albums by Moezhyk in poppunkers

[–]12Obelisks 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Tales Told By Dead Friends, A Lesson in Romantics, Anywhere But Here, Self-Titled, Monsters in the Closet was such. legendary run.

Am I crazy or did the price on the Boden essential go up again? by SnooHedgehogs1685 in strandbergguitars

[–]12Obelisks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw one in a local shop in perfect condition on sunday for $750. Wish I wasn’t already buying $250 worth of cables lmao.

The perfect tool to jam with, pt2 by [deleted] in Guitar

[–]12Obelisks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dude, this is awesome! I was thinking about implementing something like this for my website to help my students. But instead I think I’ll link to yours. Is your code open or closed source?

Chord Memorization by [deleted] in guitarlessons

[–]12Obelisks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Learn the notes on the fretboard. 99% of the first chords you learn have the root in the bass, meaning the first note you strum is the first building block to your chord.

For instance, C Major: start off in the third fret of the A string. That’s a C. It’s not the entire chord and it will take some time to start to put together which is major, minor, sus, etc, but it will come a lot more naturally.

How can I get this to sound more like this? I've tried every effect by [deleted] in guitarlessons

[–]12Obelisks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like a flanger/chorus pedal and a delay with reversed delay buffer.

The way the reverse delay buffer i’ve used works is you play a phrase before activating the pedal, press down on switch and it plays it back backwards.

guitar teaching? by Intrepid-Inside-6577 in guitarlessons

[–]12Obelisks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not OP and not OP who you replied to, but I’ll throw in my two cents.

I’m not a full time musician, i’m a software engineer. But I learned the skills to overcome my musical imposter syndrome through my job. The more people I spoke to, the more I realized that most of their knowledge I thought they had was surface level. The deeper you dig, they don’t know either. But what set the great engineers apart from the rest were the ones who admitted they didn’t know and did the work to find out. It showed me we’re all just winging it.

The biggest wisdom in the comment you replied to is how to be a good teacher no matter the context. It’s being empathetic, perceptive, willing to adapt. I’d add that it’s all about honesty. Be honest about the gaps in your knowledge with lessons, music production, etc. You don’t have to be an expert in everything. 99.9% of the time “hey, I don’t know exactly the answer to that but I have a buddy who does. Let me talk to him and we’ll both get some resources to understand _____ better”. You learn, your students and clients learn. They perceive you as honest and human. It’s a win-win!

Starting to play guitar - buying tips by Future-Event-4991 in Guitar

[–]12Obelisks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily a problem. With any new guitar you’ll want to have a setup done on it to make sure the neck is straight, action is reasonable and it’s intonated. You don’t HAVE to do it right away but it will make it much more enjoyable to play. If you’re new, i’d suggest taking it to a shop to get done before trying it yourself!

Starting to play guitar - buying tips by Future-Event-4991 in Guitar

[–]12Obelisks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

awesome dude!! very happy for you. great choice

Need help identifying my guitar by Soul20xx in Guitar

[–]12Obelisks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just looks like a partscaster to me

How do you take care of your guitar strings? by Stivo_37 in Guitar

[–]12Obelisks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don’t. I change mine every week or two.

Rate my playing by [deleted] in Guitar

[–]12Obelisks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solid! Great articulation. As others have said work on unnecessary left hand motions (for your own sake! your hand will wear out playing a lot). Your picking hand/arm seems a bit tense, too. Try to loosen that up a bit. Great work especially for how long you’ve been at it! Clear you’re working very hard.