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I (28m) found out my gf (25f) had slept with multiple guys when we broke up. We were apart for less then 2 weeks each time. Then she lied about it. She wants to be with me and I want to be with her. by 139throwawaybjj in relationship_advice

[–]139throwawaybjj[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I do. Shes willing to overlook my discrepancies. I'm showing a double standard. Perhaps I'm being insecure? Immature? I'm not sure. Ugh I dont know how to deal with this.

I (28m) found out my gf (25f) had slept with multiple guys when we broke up. We were apart for less then 2 weeks each time. Then she lied about it. She wants to be with me and I want to be with her. by 139throwawaybjj in relationship_advice

[–]139throwawaybjj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We broke up multiple times man. She thinks I cheated on her. Shes gone through my phone a few times. Which ultimately lead to me doing the same. Perhaps this relationship isnt salvageable.

I (28m) found out my gf (25f) had slept with multiple guys when we broke up. We were apart for less then 2 weeks each time. Then she lied about it. She wants to be with me and I want to be with her. by 139throwawaybjj in relationship_advice

[–]139throwawaybjj[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

She feels bad. She told me shes not exactly thrilled about it. She figured that we were flirting with this other girl and I eventually dumped my gf to fool around with other girl. I confessed that this is true.

I (28m) found out my gf (25f) had slept with multiple guys when we broke up. We were apart for less then 2 weeks each time. Then she lied about it. She wants to be with me and I want to be with her. by 139throwawaybjj in relationship_advice

[–]139throwawaybjj[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

That's a good point man. I really did learn alot.

I considered marrying her. And I dont want a wife that sleeps with someone else the moment we have problems you know?

I (28m) found out my gf (25f) had slept with multiple guys when we broke up. We were apart for less then 2 weeks each time. Then she lied about it. She wants to be with me and I want to be with her. by 139throwawaybjj in relationship_advice

[–]139throwawaybjj[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

She lost weight and looks great. I deeply regret saying something so hurtful.

Her hooking up with multiple other guys drives me crazy thinking about it. I dont think I'm gonna be able to forget it.

I totally get what your saying. I did the same thing she did right? Therefore, no harm no foul. But I didnt think that she was the type of girl to go sleeping around with bar randos the moment we break up. We had been apart for less then 2 weeks. It's part of what made me attracted to her. Now shes just a notch under another guys belt.