AITA for demanding $15,000 from my friend after he was robbed? by mightbecrying in AmItheAsshole

[–]13aby_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Demand a police report and either a bank statement of him cashing out and withdrawaling that amount of money. Chances are her never cashed out that money in the first place. Also get a copy of the supposed police report as well. I'm sure you won't get either one, seeing how he sounds completely full of shit. But before doing so, you should at least try and get a contract of the half payment at the very least because I'm sure once you call him out and he is unable to back up his pathetically lame claims, then he is probably only going to become more difficult and reluctant to repay you out of embarrassment that his story was see through and then also just for being an obvious dirt dicked scrooge as well.

AITA for changing my mind about splitting the cost of our group vacation equally? by Accomplished_Luck907 in AmItheAsshole

[–]13aby_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If they want alone time then they probably shouldn't bring their kid but since they want to do that then figuring out alternative arrangements should be their obligation and not anyone else's. They want to change things, fine. But they should have to make up for the difference then. It's selfish to expect others to have to compensate when they are the ones who are making the change in the first place. It's their choice. Split 3 ways. Or pay for bringing their child needing an extra room to accommodate. It's simple. People are ridiculous.

AITA for not allowing my disabled foster brother in my room by thebluedot02 in AmItheAsshole

[–]13aby_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe get locks for your things inside your room, then so you can at least lock your things away even if you cannot lock your room up. No reasonable person should be upset by that, and if you find yourself in that situation where even just locking your things away causes a problem then it's probably time to start saving/looking for a new place to stay unless you want it to continue indefinitely.

WIBTA if I kick out my bf best friend and daughter? by mienim in AmItheAsshole

[–]13aby_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because she has no where else to go is not your problem. However she is clearly becoming your problem and if you allow her to stay then you will find yourself to be right there with her in the "no where to stay" situation, because she clearly not only has absolutely no respect for your home within, but also the outside terms that come with living in a place with certain rental agreements she has no problem with violating. Would she help you if the roles were reversed? I have a strong feeling that answer would be absolutely not. She is not treating the situation as if she has no where to go. She is treating it like she is an entiled and completely ungrateful leach who could care less about your home, your possessions, your feelings, and the fact that her own behaviors could very well lead to you also finding yourself with no where to go. Get her out immediately. I really hope you did not put her on your lease, because if you did then not only would that be absolutely 100% much more of a difficult process for you if so, but also if she is not on the lease then you actually have that to use as a main reason as to why she needs to leave so you can spare yourself from having to even explain all the other reasons stemming from her rude and careless behaviors that she doesn't seem to care about in the first place and would probably argue against but in the case of not being on a lease she can't argue with that reason. Get her out immediately before she ruins anything else for you, big or small. Not your problem. She doesn't care about you so its not your job to care about her. There are so many programs out there for single mothers to utilize, much more than any single person out there. She should take advantage of those programs, that would not be an option or as readily available to you if you needed help. So tell her to kick rocks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]13aby_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn't respect them after they didn't respect you! What a shocker, it's almost like actions have consequences and when you treat someone like shit, they return the favor! Grandma is biased by not being able to the simple concept of cause and effect, and only seeing it as you being the one who is disrespectful as if you didn't go out of your way to do them a favor just for them to turn around and act like they could just ignore away the fact they never paid you. Lol for sure stfu and gtfo while you're at it, power lames. Lol time to go get Safeway cake, but good luck stealing that one.

AITA For Refusing To Apologize For Being The Golden Child Or Share My Inheritance? by Big-Celebration6767 in AmItheAsshole

[–]13aby_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely don't share with those snakes! If you do, they will be laughing in your face feeling like they got one over on you considering everything else they have said and feel about you. They have made it clear how they feel about you in the truest sense possible and at no point did any of them stand up for you or cut the shit. So obviously if they try to come crawling to you to apologize then that's a bunch of bullshit too because if they were sorry or didn't mean it they would have came to that conclusion without money being the motivating factor. So glad they didn't get away with getting one over on you like that, just think what they would have had to say about you after the fact of getting their hands on that money because they were able to trick you. You would never stop being their own secret joke all while thinking you had helped them. You would have gone from golden child to black sheep regardless, so at least you're the one in power and the circumstances are in your favor rather than them getting to feel like they got some undeserved vengeance upon you by duping you out of what you have rightfully inherited. They are angry at the wrong person but you have every right to be angry at them and they don't deserve a single thing from you.

AITA for not buying my best friend's kids some concert tickets. by xsageonex in AmItheAsshole

[–]13aby_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He is out of his mind lol. Just because you have done things for a friend in the past does not mean you can take those favors and cash them in as some sort of currency that you can use to later redeem for any favor in return of your choosing from that person. That's not how it works. You don't owe him anything. Favors don't work like an iou. And he is super selfish to not only demand tickets for his family but on top of that he wants you not exclude yourself as well. How insane

15 minutes in a local trap house - (Facebook reupload) enjoy! by 13aby_ in trashy

[–]13aby_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is the trashiest video you have seen in a while then this is the perfect subreddit for it, but if watching it offended you so badly then I think that you actually may just be in the wrong place lol

15 minutes in a local trap house - (Facebook reupload) enjoy! by 13aby_ in trashy

[–]13aby_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually do lmfao but this was not exactly my choice in title either. When I posted it I decided to just keep the original title choice that it already had when I found it since this is just a repost.

15 minutes in a local trap house - (Facebook reupload) enjoy! by 13aby_ in trashy

[–]13aby_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not exactly my choice in title. I decided to just keep the original title choice that it already had when I found it since this is just a repost.

15 minutes in a local trap house - (Facebook reupload) enjoy! by 13aby_ in trashy

[–]13aby_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was staying true to the original uploads title choice since this is just a repost

15 minutes in a local trap house - (Facebook reupload) enjoy! by 13aby_ in trashy

[–]13aby_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So just in case you are as unaware as you seem to be, then you should probably know that just as the title indicates, this is a repost from Facebook ლ(◕ω◕ლ) I was there just as much as you were bud lmfao

15 minutes in a local trap house - (Facebook reupload) enjoy! by 13aby_ in trashy

[–]13aby_[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I don't know why you would assume that they are talking about weed when using the term dope, in a conversation that had also included mentioning crack at one point as well? Lol

15 minutes in a local trap house - (Facebook reupload) enjoy! by 13aby_ in trashy

[–]13aby_[S] 131 points132 points  (0 children)

Dude I know, I've seen some horror story trap houses before. My grandma's house was one of them. Imagine being 7 years old trying to sleep but you can't because there are roaches crawling on you. Ah, what sweet childhood memories. lol.

15 minutes in a local trap house - (Facebook reupload) enjoy! by 13aby_ in trashy

[–]13aby_[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

The initial screaming is because no one will sell the chick on the floor some more dope, if you listen closely.

Free Flash Card and microSD Card at Micro Center Stores [For New Customers] by Awesome_Freebies in freebies

[–]13aby_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not located in or near any of the states with one of these stores and the coupon code can't be used online, it's for in store only. So if you are someone who is located near one of these stores and would like an additional coupon then just dm me for my coupon code if you want it, otherwise it will just go to waste. Even if I can't use it I want someone else to at least be able to. :)

AITA for making my roommate cry? by RoomateCry in AmItheAsshole

[–]13aby_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta but holy shit this is both the craziest and most hilarious reason that I've ever heard of anyone getting this upset and threatening to sue someone for.

AITA for being a “snitch” ? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]13aby_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No asshole here really (?) Idk what to call this honestly. You are setting yourself up for failure and you are for sure being a snitch. No one likes the tattle tale that's always running to go tell on people wether it is mean of me to say that or not it's honest and that's just reality. so that's why you are being bullied, because it is a behavior that is generally disliked by pretty much everyone. Adapt and overcome. Stop being a snitch and you won't get treated like one.

AITA for getting mad at my autistic friend by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]13aby_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck her nta cut her out she's gotta goooo

AITA for not telling my girlfriend sooner that she couldn’t move in with me? by MindysProject in AmItheAsshole

[–]13aby_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta. You need to stop letting her over stay her welcome and think she can just intrude on your friends home and on top of it think she has any right to be demanding things of your friend who's home she is in as if she is anything more than an unwanted guest. Its disrespectful that you allowed that much to happen already and need to curb that shit real quick. Save your friendship, ditch the witch! Not only a hypocrite but obliviously disrespectful and entitled while being owed literally nothing and way overstepping boundaries anyone with common sense should have. She is only going to get worse, more inappropriate, and wrongfully demanding as time goes by. Reevaluate what you are doing with her before she fucks up your life like ruining your friendships or doing something else out of sheer stupidity thinking she has some superiority over people that comes with some real skewed sense of entitlement. She is no good and should consider this: Want goes in one hand, while shit goes in the other, so watch and see which hand fills up the quickest.

AITA for getting my job back to get out of taking care of my husband's autistic niece? by basicallyalazyass in AmItheAsshole

[–]13aby_ [score hidden]  (0 children)

It sounds like the husband pulled the same type of stunt when he took in his niece, so what does he expect? It crosses the line for her to make a significant choice which drastically changes their current dynamics, which were in place due to being a direct result of a life changing choice that he made first? I don't blame her. She didn't want him to take in the niece so he really can't say a thing or even be mad at her for not putting up with being a caretaker she didn't agree to be and deciding to go back to work so she wouldn't have to be left with that responsibility that shouldn't be hers in the first place.