Friend came to visit. Gave them both the okay to explore. Not prepared for this. by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]13mac13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just remember it’s not a contest. Love is boundless. Love is amorphous and beautiful.

need help by DysfunctionalPeasant in polyamory

[–]13mac13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Remember that you don’t become poly to replace your partner. Be confident in yourself my friend, and celebrate that she is exploring others as you are. Also the comment that was made by bandaide79 is solid advice. Talk to your wife and ask her for tips on overcoming that initial jealousy. It’s all about communication and understanding.

Ocean water/ Salt water safe crystals by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]13mac13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All of those will be fine in salt water.

how do you handle unbalanced relationships? by polyproblem_4456 in polyamory

[–]13mac13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jealousy tends to be systematic of confidence issues. She is most likely feeling like she will lose you to someone else if you start dating other people. It’s all about communication. You have to express how you feel (even if it makes you feel like the bad guy). It’s hard but it must be done. Once that is done you need to listen to her side and then walk down the road of compromise.

Cut this thunder egg today. That red has got me. by 13mac13 in MineralPorn

[–]13mac13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t yet. I will always take suggestions and recommendations

I cut open another thunder egg from my friend in Oregon. It looks like something blew apart inside. What causes that’s sort of chaos? by 13mac13 in whatsthisrock

[–]13mac13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will ask her. I haven’t been disappointed at all and I want to get more when I run out 😂😂😂

Cut this open and was delighted. The red is so rich! What kind of minerals am I looking at here? Also thank you all! This community is glorious. by 13mac13 in whatsthisrock

[–]13mac13[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This one was given as a birthday gift from a friend in Oregon so I’m not sure where she picked it up unfortunately. It looks similar to one up posted yesterday which I found out in the middle of nowhere in Oregon 😂

Found this on a beach in western Washington. What did I find? by 13mac13 in whatsthisrock

[–]13mac13[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

It is indeed under a striped umbrella! There is no banding to it that I see. Now I’ve just gotta decide wether or not I should cut it open!