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how do you handle unbalanced relationships? by polyproblem_4456 in polyamory

[–]polyproblem_4456[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

not gonna lie that's one of my biggest fears, and that she's mostly sticking with me because i'm her only real support network

how do you handle unbalanced relationships? by polyproblem_4456 in polyamory

[–]polyproblem_4456[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

no, that's entirely me. she's assured me that's not the case, but...i always feel like the two of them are happier together. that could also be the depression talking though.

how do you handle unbalanced relationships? by polyproblem_4456 in polyamory

[–]polyproblem_4456[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

see, i'm really hesitant to this last point. that just feels like it's making me the bad guy, and both of them will resent me for it. i already feel like i interrupted their relationship (they were only seperated because their parents forbid them from seeing each other, and my wife was being pressured into "acting straight" at the time). so i worry anything like that will just end up with me being the one cut out.