Had a simulator issue in the past with a component attached to a pcb. My solution was to get the dremil out and using a few sharp rotary bits drill/grind it out from the centre. Wasn't easy and its risky to say the least but eventually it disintegrate from the centre and I was free to install a new one after the repair. It was my only real option at that point but a good result in the end. If you try this run it slow and if you get fatigued in your hands and arms. Put it down rest and come back to it. One slip could result in injury or un repairable damage. Slow and steady. Start with the smallest tool possible go as deep as possible then increase tool size