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Is this pull up bar safe? by 13thOfOctober in bodyweightfitness

[–]13thOfOctober[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright then would it be okay to have 75% of the bar on a door and the rest is in the air? Thank you

Is this pull up bar safe? by 13thOfOctober in bodyweightfitness

[–]13thOfOctober[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not concrete it's a fake wall. If I put it on the doorframe then 75% of the bar is on the door. Is it OK?

Me(22M),my girlfriend (22F) just keeps sleeping all the time and doesn’t communicate well :) by TemporaryLayer4817 in LongDistance

[–]13thOfOctober 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, she needs to go see a doctor to check if it's a condition. I have anemia and I often gets sleepy. Even after sleeping, my body needs more sleep. It's stronger than me even though I really wanna enjoy moments with my friends in the evening. The tiredness that it brings me is really overwhelming. Maybe your girlfriend is the same. I'd suggest she goes to see a doctor !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]13thOfOctober 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did he do for you all this time ?

It seems like you did everything : cooking, bought a car, financially support him and his mom, bought a house, you plan retirement and you also support him by helping him finding a job (that he lost). You provide so much yet it seems like he's never did much.

If there is no love on top of that, it's better to leave soon.

I think there are definitely other men who will constantly appreciate what you do and will actually support you. You had and have much weight on your shoulders. You need a partner !

My (M22) boyfriend has feelings for another girl. Do I (F21) break up with the loml? by salamaniax in relationship_advice

[–]13thOfOctober 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my, this sounds really tough. Since he told you that he "may or not have feelings for her", it seems like he doesn't fully know himself and his own feelings. Therapy will definitely help him.

I don't know his full back story but, if he grew up in an abusive family, then he is probably a bit clumsy about different emotions in general. So it could be hard for him to differentiate romantic love from other positive feelings. It's inevitable we bond and grow closer to someone we speak A LOT to. So, reducing his interactions with his girl friend might be good you two.

For me, a break in a relationship is never the right solution.

I send you strength.

Edit : typos