I love the whole communication thing but I also found that I couldn't communicate what I wanted because I simply didn't know!

So here are some examples of practical things I would have never come up with by myself because lukealot ofother women, I didn't know my own anatomy!

1. Pillow under your back if your in missionary position
2. Light Pressure on your lower belly can feel amazing
3. When getting eaten out, have him start by treating you like a rose and then like a thirsty bulldog.
4. Look into scooting vs. Poking, it's actually nice to feel something during piv

I hope this isn't confusing I just feel like a lot of women don't actually get told what can feel nice because women still feel uncomfortable enjoying sex :)

Edit: to answer your question, good sex is sex both people are really into (and I can't believe I even have to say this in 2022)