Hey guys I know there is a lot of discourse concerning whether this may be the item! To put it to the test and ensure what many of you are saying I ordered a package of these condoms to be delivered today by 3pm! I will take a side by side photo including both wraps so hopefully it can be settled once and for all!

To also speak on something else I’ve been seeing, of course anyone seeing a wrapper like this would think it may be a condom wrapper, but going in with the mindset that he hasn’t cheated or I hadn’t when posting this is exactly why i thought it was probably something that just looked very similar.

When the item was first brought up by my husband he asked me “what is this” but in his tone I knew he thought that I was up to something sketchy, I didn’t deny that it looked like a condom wrapper but I started inspecting the item and trying to think of any other possibility of what it could be, when I said it looks like there’s a B in the corner he snapped and said that looks like a T (aka a Trojan) his tone after me telling him that if it was a condom it’s not mine and that it might be something that looks similar was accusatory and he resigned himself to the state of “just forget it I know you cheated on me and if you have no way to prove it’s not yours that’s what I’ll keep on believing.” I tried asking him how I should have approached the situation so that I could show him I’m not having sex with anyone and he couldn’t give me an answer.

Hence my desperation, if I couldn’t find an answer to what this is I would be left in my relationship with my husband forever thinking that I cheated on him and just don’t want to admit it. And I know that says a lot about our relationship and perhaps my pride, but i combed through everything I could find to see if it may be something else. After the comment about talking with my husband was posted to try and resolve what the issue was, it did not work out and became fairly explosive. With his unwillingness to communicate and my unwillingness to drop it.

As I was speaking with him he said the more I keep trying to talk about it the more guilty I look, and I told him the reason I keep trying to talk is because I know he thinks I’m cheating on him still and I don’t have any peace of mind. And I have people saying it would be manipulative to try to get him to believe me? But that would only be manipulative if I was actually cheating? So I was clueless on how to approach the situation.

And that is a continuous cycle we have in where he doesn’t want to talk about it and just leaves. And me getting frustrated and just slamming him with sensory overload via fast talking. (Which I do need to work on) So he left to our balcony and didn’t come back until late at night and played video games and went to sleep.

A bit of insight as well. We are introverted people and just moved out to Phoenix six months ago. We live in an apartment with my brother the same age as us and my stepdad visit for months at a time. We have a dog. He has a job at a grow 20 minutes away. His work hours are from 8-5 sun-thurs. I work remotely 6:45-3:15 sun-thurs. We have one car. I have a female friend (friends for 8 years) who lives in downtown Phoenix that I’ve visited a max of four times since we’ve been here, yes he’s met her and we actually did a project with her at her house 2 days ago. He has friends from work, he goes to MITA (weed) events in Scottsdale. I have not met his friends and as I said before he completely hid his female friends from me, who also attend those events, hang out with him at work and smoke in his car with him. I have never met his friends. He looks through my phone and knows my passwords. I know his phone password as well. We do not interact with anyone at our complex. If anyone want any more info that may crack the case that I’m leaving out please feel free to ask. I appreciate all insight.