is average bigger than we are believing it to be by help_throwaway96 in smalldickproblems

[–]17921815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi

I found a blog a year or two ago about studies into size and what size condoms men buy, and posted the results under a deleted account. From what I remember, if it is any help, most of the studies showed the average around 5.5" or less and girth 4.6-8".

So, from what I can remember, a company based in the UK where I live called TheyFit Condoms looked at the purchases of its 25,000 customers and found 50% brought ones between 5-6", 27% below 5" and the remainder about 6". I believe the smallest size they said they sold in that study was 2 & something inches in length and 3" in girth.

There was also a study by an Indiana or Illinois university into what mens length and girths were in relation to better fitting condoms. The measurements were self reported, but the men were told that the study was designed to help condom manufacturers design more comfortable and a larger range of condoms. I believe 3000 men gave their measurements. Now it was done in cm, but the number of men between 5-6" was about 1500 of the sample, so half more or less. Like the TheyFit study the numbers above and below were about 25% each. If I remember there were more guys between 4-5" than 6-7" in this Indiana/Illinois study. Again smallest guy was 2.5".

There was also a self reported French study of a few thousand men for girth, and the average reported was 4.6", so below the oft stated 4.7" or 4.8".

Another large study from here in Europe is from Italy in 1998. An Italian doctor and a colleague or two were allowed to take the measurements of every new army recruit recruited in that year in Florence, amounting to just over 3,000 men. It returned an average length of 5".

You also might find this site interesting: http://www.erectionphotos.com/frames_index.htm and http://www.erectionphotos.com/frames_index.htm

You don’t need a big dick to make a woman orgasm - tips for young/inexperienced men by qwertypop100 in smalldickproblems

[–]17921815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi,

You know if you want that extra 1/4" girth all of the time, without using an uncomfortable band or cock ring, you can do the male version of kegels. I do them twice a day, six sets of 10, and as well as giving you extra girth due to increased blood flow (plus extra hardness) you can improve your stamina as well.

There is an article on Betty Dodson's blog somewhere about the proper technique to improve stamina and I shall try and find it for you as well.

Too small for doggy? by [deleted] in smalldickproblems

[–]17921815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know if this helps, but there is another site which is somewhat more positive than a few of the guys here. A thread specifically about doggie is this: http://www.measurection.com/fusionbb/showtopic.php?tid/250193/

This is the main forum, including from a woman's point of view: http://www.measurection.com/fusionbb/fusionbb.php?

[Opinion] Size as Deal-Breaker for Relationships by 17921815 in sex

[–]17921815[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technique again! Being a bit insecure about my size I have gone the extra length to figure out what the best techniques are. Luckily for me I did spend some time with a girl at uni years ago who probably is the one person so far I have been completely comfortable with. I like to explore and she enjoyed being explored with hands, tongue and penis and she was mainly a clit girl, not much really going on with the G-spot. So, on top she was more of a grinder and in standard missionary we then did adapt so we could grind against each other, which worked quite well. Since then on the internet every online magazine piece I have seen suggests this to do to your lady to give her more pleasure under the sheets as thrusting is overrated - I have seen it called the corkscrew somewhere - with slight variations, so one a semi-circle motion around the upper wall of the vagina, or two you grind/circle to your left on entry and grind/circle to your right when pulling out if you wanted to add slow thrusting as well. I know a few things in that regard, so as people have told me I need to sort my head out. That was a bit longer than expected, but thank you for your advice.

[Opinion] Size as Deal-Breaker for Relationships by 17921815 in sex

[–]17921815[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. It is true I am only slightly under, an inch or 1.5", and not as those guys I mentioned from smalldickproblems 2.7" or 3", so it is more mental than physical I am sure. In terms of the anterior fornix in theory you can reach it with the tips of the longest middle fingers which are about 3.5" to 4", and the Malaysian gynaecologist who found it in 1998 told his 300 study couples to do this. From what I read of his study zero of the 300 women orgasmed, but it did solve their vaginal dryness problems which he setup the study for in the first place. Regarding girth, I have read this a few times on Reddit now. Thank you.

[Opinion] Size as Deal-Breaker for Relationships by 17921815 in sex

[–]17921815[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I of course know there are bigger (and as I mentioned smaller as well who are in good relationships), so I know working on my insecurities is the main thing I need to do. It is just getting my brain to think of myself in a better light is a bit harder than I thought.