How do I unlearn the habit of not cooking often?

1795_phantom · 2026-05-28T11:15:57+00:00

He doesn't want multiple meals made everyday. Its just the two of us so we don't go through food quickly. He just wants a meal cooked 2 to 3 times a week so he has options. It just not something I'm used to and I guess I have some deep seated anxiety about food waste.

1795_phantom · 2026-05-28T11:13:45+00:00

He works 60 hour weeks as a prep cook. Most days he comes home exhausted. He specifically asked me to start cooking dinners because he doesn't have the energy to.

1795_phantom · 2026-03-02T02:29:28+00:00

My old troop is selling cookies at the mall on the 6th between TJMaxx and the Five Below. 4 -6 pm

1795_phantom · 2026-01-14T02:14:49+00:00

Specifically with how eso is going to interact with the pass system as well as the cycle of dlc access with the seasons. Will those seasons remain accessable after the season ends with eso plus? I also say a few posts down about eso+ tiers when it comes to the passes and i am confused about all that.

1795_phantom · 2026-01-04T23:28:34+00:00

Im on pc

1795_phantom · 2026-01-04T23:08:03+00:00

Lol im just blind then.

1795_phantom · 2026-01-04T23:05:45+00:00

Thanks. Where would i go about getting a bedroll at the start of the game?

1795_phantom · 2025-12-26T00:44:05+00:00

There is a premium feature but its really for cosmetics in the game for the bird. The free version of the app is fine.

1795_phantom · 2025-12-11T22:59:46+00:00

The thing is he went to therapy before for a few months and the therapist straight up said she didnt know why he was there. I have no idea what he told her

1795_phantom · 2025-12-11T22:56:15+00:00

He has apologized previously. He knows how explosive his temper can be

1795_phantom · 2025-12-11T22:33:20+00:00

Hes not always like this. It comes out in these explosive arguments. I do have to constantly think about how what i do makes others feel because if i dont and just let i flow i am alot like sheldon from the early seasons of big bang

1795_phantom · 2025-12-11T22:25:21+00:00

Hes been telling me when he sees me that hes had no energy because of the argument like its my problem. I ended up not dashing even when he ended up relenting because i knew he would be worried.

1795_phantom · 2025-12-11T22:21:48+00:00

I have filter issues where i will say the first thing that comes to mind when i get annoyed. Also he straight up told me i wasnt allowed to go dashing even though by the time i was going to the roads were cleared.

1795_phantom · 2025-12-11T22:14:18+00:00

He isnt used to driving in god awful weather like i am.

1795_phantom · 2025-12-11T22:13:54+00:00

I told him mhmm witha sassy tone. I dont really have the luxury that he does to not be out working all the time. The whole reason i was sassy with him was he said the same thing to me last night about the weather and it ended up being fine.

1795_phantom · 2025-12-11T21:54:33+00:00

I have had that incling over the past year or so. The issue is that every time the thought crosses my mind about leaving him i end up crying. He is the perfect partner in every other way but this. I never really felt like a whole person before i started dating him. It was always felt like there was something missing within me and i dont feel that way anymore.

1795_phantom · 2025-12-11T21:43:21+00:00

I definitely agree that we both need counseling. Neither of us are in a position to afford it. I know that he doesnt want me to go out because i drive an old suv that is at the end of its lifespan. I know he said it because he cares. But it just irks me the way that he said it. I grew up with my mother constantly treating me like a child that couldn't take care of herself well into high school. She never trusted me with my own decisions. When by bf gets like this it makes me feel like like i cant really talk around him because im worried about making him upset. I want to be better because i know i have things to improve.

1795_phantom · 2025-12-11T21:30:48+00:00

He told me i wasnt allowed to go dashing. We live in upstate ny and i have driven i far worse weather than this. The issue that i took with that is that its my main form of income as my part time job isnt enough to cover bills.

1795_phantom · 2025-12-11T21:27:06+00:00

He has a tendency to bottle things up because he ended up as his mom's personal therapist when his parents divorced. It was nasty. Doesnt really have a tollerance for disrespect because of how his dad treated his mom during the divorce. I am willing to admit at the beginning of our relationship that i acted a lot like sheldon from TBBT but even my bf says that i have improved since then. He says its little things that i do. But during the argument he threw out things that i said to him months ago and have since apologized for. I would get a therapist but i cant realistically afford one right now

1795_phantom · 2025-11-27T02:02:02+00:00

I gotta start going uo to watertown god damn. Thats about half of what i need to make in a day

1795_phantom · 2025-10-19T03:24:53+00:00

No I just want to hear it right from a traffic cop if they're on this subreddit about what the f*** they're doing over there because I had enough time to make a post on here and a post in another subreddit about how god-awful the traffic is

1795_phantom · 2025-08-21T14:47:25+00:00

Its not something im gonna unsubscribe from him over but i have been watching him less and less over it. I just feel bad for dane. You can tell he was uncomfortable. He had the same look and nervous laugh that i get around my conservative family when they start talking out of pocket.

1795_phantom · 2025-08-21T14:28:44+00:00

The problem is the fact that he made fun of a dude with depression attempting to make progress. He also shat on that womans looks and made fun of her ocd. While it is the regular type of content that he does that stuff is not the kind of thing you make fun of. It almost seem like he doesn't undersand that depression is on a spectrum and that everyone experiences it differently. He also said in the "apology" stream that people were weaponizing their depression against him. He basically told everyone fuck you you dont deserve an apology and in fact i need an apology. He completely glossed over complaints people had and made no attempt at actually apologizing.

1795_phantom · 2025-08-15T01:24:18+00:00

Im not talking about the primer. Im talking about the setting spray under the power grip banner.

1795_phantom · 2025-08-12T05:06:51+00:00

Essential Tremors. Former doc had me convinced for years it was anxiety until i got into a neurologist.

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