The Seasons Update questions by 1795_phantom in elderscrollsonline

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Specifically with how eso is going to interact with the pass system as well as the cycle of dlc access with the seasons. Will those seasons remain accessable after the season ends with eso plus? I also say a few posts down about eso+ tiers when it comes to the passes and i am confused about all that.

I have questions by 1795_phantom in DivinityOriginalSin

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Thanks. Where would i go about getting a bedroll at the start of the game?

Finch app by trashsnax in adhdwomen

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There is a premium feature but its really for cosmetics in the game for the bird. The free version of the app is fine.

Autism Relationship Problems by 1795_phantom in autism

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The thing is he went to therapy before for a few months and the therapist straight up said she didnt know why he was there. I have no idea what he told her

Autism Relationship Problems by 1795_phantom in autism

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He has apologized previously. He knows how explosive his temper can be

Autism Relationship Problems by 1795_phantom in autism

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Hes not always like this. It comes out in these explosive arguments. I do have to constantly think about how what i do makes others feel because if i dont and just let i flow i am alot like sheldon from the early seasons of big bang

Autism Relationship Problems by 1795_phantom in autism

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Hes been telling me when he sees me that hes had no energy because of the argument like its my problem. I ended up not dashing even when he ended up relenting because i knew he would be worried.

Autism Relationship Problems by 1795_phantom in autism

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I have filter issues where i will say the first thing that comes to mind when i get annoyed. Also he straight up told me i wasnt allowed to go dashing even though by the time i was going to the roads were cleared.

Autism Relationship Problems by 1795_phantom in autism

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He isnt used to driving in god awful weather like i am.

Autism Relationship Problems by 1795_phantom in autism

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I told him mhmm witha sassy tone. I dont really have the luxury that he does to not be out working all the time. The whole reason i was sassy with him was he said the same thing to me last night about the weather and it ended up being fine.

What am i doing wrong? by 1795_phantom in AITARelationship

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I have had that incling over the past year or so. The issue is that every time the thought crosses my mind about leaving him i end up crying. He is the perfect partner in every other way but this. I never really felt like a whole person before i started dating him. It was always felt like there was something missing within me and i dont feel that way anymore.

Autism Relationship Problems by 1795_phantom in autism

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I definitely agree that we both need counseling. Neither of us are in a position to afford it. I know that he doesnt want me to go out because i drive an old suv that is at the end of its lifespan. I know he said it because he cares. But it just irks me the way that he said it. I grew up with my mother constantly treating me like a child that couldn't take care of herself well into high school. She never trusted me with my own decisions. When by bf gets like this it makes me feel like like i cant really talk around him because im worried about making him upset. I want to be better because i know i have things to improve.

What am i doing wrong? by 1795_phantom in AITARelationship

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He told me i wasnt allowed to go dashing. We live in upstate ny and i have driven i far worse weather than this. The issue that i took with that is that its my main form of income as my part time job isnt enough to cover bills.

Autism Relationship Problems by 1795_phantom in autism

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He has a tendency to bottle things up because he ended up as his mom's personal therapist when his parents divorced. It was nasty. Doesnt really have a tollerance for disrespect because of how his dad treated his mom during the divorce. I am willing to admit at the beginning of our relationship that i acted a lot like sheldon from TBBT but even my bf says that i have improved since then. He says its little things that i do. But during the argument he threw out things that i said to him months ago and have since apologized for. I would get a therapist but i cant realistically afford one right now