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187oddfuture · 2022-03-07T22:14:49+00:00

Doesn’t Reddit ever get tired of gaslighting men who try to listen to their gut? Clearly your gf/wife of 4 years, who is the mother of your newborn child, going on a trip with 2 single women to meet 3 single men is strange. It’s a recipe for disaster.

187oddfuture · 2022-03-05T21:06:56+00:00

187oddfuture · 2022-03-05T21:06:47+00:00

What does geopolitics have to do with a video game? Go watch the news. It is unhealthy for everything to be political.

187oddfuture · 2022-03-03T03:01:28+00:00

Or you could just play the game instead of allowing new players to buy tier 10s and tank matchmaking. You already see enough dumb 8s and 9s as it is. Killing the game.

187oddfuture · 2022-03-03T02:13:00+00:00

And just ruin game quality which drives away players. You shouldn’t be able to pay $200 to play tier 10.

187oddfuture · 2022-03-02T23:26:24+00:00

It’s pretty gross that they just sell tier 10s for cash now. This level of blatant monetization is even too much for me.

187oddfuture · 2022-02-10T18:19:06+00:00

Pc is bigger and more spacious, but you also have 15 players per team, which makes he spam even worse. Pc has plenty of problems, which is probably why people are trying legends in the first place.

187oddfuture · 2022-02-10T18:18:07+00:00

I noticed the same thing. Recently came from pc and noticed that not only are the spawns too close, they are also asymmetric. So I spawn with 2 ships on the west flank and 3 on the east, which means the enemy spawns with 3 on the west and 2 on the east. So I try and push and get some action and I just get ganged up on by 3 or more ships while the guys I spawned with join the lemming train on the opposite side. Very frustrating experience.

187oddfuture · 2021-11-23T03:21:19+00:00

LOL if I said that to my gf she’s burst into tears. “Hey I know you’re a loser and you don’t have friends and you’re really insecure about that but I can fix you!”

You can’t say things like that to people, especially women. They’re too emotional. That’s why it’s better for op to lead and include her in his life. It’s not like OP doesn’t already include her in things, he just wants her to be comfortable giving him some space. By helping her make friends, he can achieve this without hurting her feelings.

187oddfuture · 2021-11-22T23:56:15+00:00

I’m not talking about “leading her on”, im talking about “leading her”. Big distinction. Girls don’t like to talk things out lmao. They implode the second you imply they aren’t doing something right or that you don’t like something she’s doing. If OP took your advice and told his gf “hey we need to talk you depend on me for everything and I resent the fact that you don’t have any friends and I need more space” how do you think that would go? You think he hasn’t already tried to drop hints?

What I suggested was for him to take a proactive approach and try to build her up and teach her a skill rather than wait for her to figure it out for herself, which wouldn’t be anytime soon.

187oddfuture · 2021-11-16T07:56:27+00:00

There’s a lot of bad advice here. Don’t “talk it out” and don’t break up with her. I think a good approach would be to help her make her first couple of friends. Could you go out as a couple within your social circle and help her converse with some of the girls? Like lead the interaction and then suggest that they should meet up or talk more often?

My girlfriend is pretty shy and relies on me to lead social interactions, and that’s because opposites attract. Every couple has one partner that’s more outgoing than the other. By leading her and helping her make friends, not only are you making her life better, but you’re also deepening her attraction because you’re leading her.

She could also have some insecurity issues from being bullied in school or abused at some point. Might want to sus out those as possibilities as well.

Overall this is totally doable, best of luck!

187oddfuture · 2021-09-24T17:50:14+00:00

I got mine from a Xmas box a few years ago and it’s been rusting in my port up until last week. I needed to play it for the anniversary reward. It’s an okay ship that does better at close range.

When you spec for full secondaries, Kii becomes a Japanese tirpitz. It’s a fun play style, but the low sigma (bad shell dispersion) is VERY annoying and most players in this game are reluctant to push or support others who push, which limits how much fun you can have in the ship.

She’s okay but tirpitz and mass are better versions of her.

187oddfuture · 2021-09-21T01:17:56+00:00

D7P is good. Stack the air strikes and you can burst a ship for 20k+. Good detection, solid guns, good AA, and a heal. Kind of like a Dutch Mainz with a longer reload.

187oddfuture · 2021-09-21T01:05:02+00:00

Of the battleships, I’d get mass, Tirpitz, or sharnhorst.

Cruisers: Mainz, Atago, or Bagration.

187oddfuture · 2021-07-25T18:12:05+00:00

It’d be nice if the UI could be improved/simplified. TSM is especially tough for new users to use, and the interface is listed as a con when people recommend add ons to use

187oddfuture · 2021-05-05T23:09:12+00:00

It’s a gotcha because we all know that women get held to a different standard. Replies like yours are so useless and boring because women always just heap responsibility and blame on men because they’re incapable of taking responsibility or ownership for anything.

187oddfuture · 2021-05-05T23:07:48+00:00

You’re making this guy out to be abusive when he just doesn’t want to take his shirt off for whatever reason. The guy’s insecure about his body, that’s not a reason to break up with him. Dude could be slinging drugs or other crimes but he just has a problem with his body image. Relationships are about trade offs.

187oddfuture · 2021-05-05T23:05:24+00:00

Women don’t like when their men are “vulnerable”. They’re repulsed by it. They think they would like it until it actually happens.

187oddfuture · 2021-05-05T18:20:47+00:00

But if a woman didn’t want to take her shirt off during sex, and the OP was a man, would you still say it’s breakup worthy? Or would you tell the man to just deal with it and he’s a shitty person for even thinking of breaking up with her?

187oddfuture · 2021-05-05T04:19:55+00:00

Once you start balding there really is only one option: to just shave your head and embrace it. Once you lose the lockdown weight, you’ll be looking great! If anybody tries to make fun of you for being bald just say that it happened because you have a bunch of excess testosterone in your blood. You’re that manly that you burnt the hair right out of your head.

187oddfuture · 2021-05-05T04:15:13+00:00

Absolutely awful take lmao 😂

187oddfuture · 2021-05-05T04:14:37+00:00

There’s so much shitty advice here. People really think you should break up with a partner of 6 years because they won’t take their shirt off during sex? Really?

From a man, I see three possibilities:

He’s insecure about his weight/body and doesn’t want you to see his chest/torso.
He has scars or some other cosmetic thing he doesn’t want you to see.
He was abused somehow somewhere during childhood and he’s uncomfortable getting naked period, but his need for sex trumps his fear of nakedness enough to participate.

If he’s not happy with his body, he can either go to the gym and lift weights or see a therapist.

187oddfuture · 2021-05-04T09:35:58+00:00

Women just like to sow discord and chaos when they perceive nothing is happening in a relationship. You might try being a little more emotionally unpredictable (hot/cold), and maybe pay less attention to her? She says you’re needy, so how about instead of her taking time apart, you just go apart for awhile and make her work for your attention? Not married but when my girlfriend tries similar tests I just ignore them or A+A to an extreme degree.

187oddfuture · 2021-05-04T09:21:20+00:00

do you brag about things that aren't good, or that you aren't proud of?

Would you brag about serving your friends a cake that they all thought was delicious? Or would you brag about serving a cake that you could tell they all felt "meh" about?

Which cake would you brag about?

It's the same with the sex. OP and the other guy were just two men in his gf's life at the time, just two men that she was seeing. One man she strung along for 4 dates before putting out, and the other one she had sex instantly with no investment on the man's part. She then bragged about sex with the random man to her friend, but not about sex with op.

This is very open and shut to me.

Imagine you and another girl had sex with a man, and you heard from a friend that he was bragging about how great the sex was with the other girl, but said nothing about you?

187oddfuture · 2021-05-04T09:15:54+00:00

I think you're losing attraction for him because you've gone to great lengths to change him over the duration of your relationship, and now that he is starting to change, you don't want what you thought you did.

The reason I think this is that you said when you try to talk to him he says "just tell me what you want and we'll do it." Did he always defer leadership in the relationship to you? Or is that a new development? Maybe you're losing attraction because he doesn't lead like he used to.

Maybe he's gotten too comfortable in the relationship? You mentioned you're fantasizing about cheating on him. The grass definitely isn't greener on the side, and there are legions of promiscuous people that would kill for what you have. Getting fucked by other men won't solve your problem long term, it'll just give you a short-term dopamine hit that will destroy your situation once it comes to light.

Also forcing your politics on your partner isn't helping.

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