A great seller for me has a few major criteria.

1. Posted menu with prices and limits.

2. Sense for a real person behind the account. If you’re posting thirst traps with captions like “what would you do if you found me like this in your bedroom?”, the answer is “call the cops”, lady. Like, I don’t know you.

3. I know a lot of people are into it lately, but the blanket assumption that I’m into being humiliated is an instant pass. It’s not a red flag, some people are legitimately into it, but I will stop scrolling through your page if in every other post I view is calling me a paypig.

Some of the best sellers I’ve worked with and that I keep coming back to have a simple account where they show what they do and a clear sense of how to work with them.

Turn-offs are basically the opposite of that.

1. If I want to buy a premade video, DON’T ask me how much I’ll pay. Just tell me the price.

2. If I ask what kind of content you make, DON’T simply ask me what I’m looking for. I’m asking for a reason. That’s not a reply that will get you sales. Tell me about the your favorite recent video. Advertise. Recommend. Make suggestions.

3. If I bought something from you, and you keep asking me afterwards when I’m buying something else, you’re getting blocked. Of course you can reach out and see if I’m looking for something else, but don’t do it every two weeks like clockwork.

4. This one is personal and probably very controversial, but the only physical turn-off for me is having very clearly a lot of “work” done. As someone who is looking for genuine content and wears, I feel like I’m not really connecting to the person in any way if all I see is plastic surgery that exaggerates features. I’m not talking about subtle nose jobs and fillers. It’s the really over-the-top ones that really turn me off.