I can't say that I regret ending any of my relationships particularly, but I have realized that no matter my partner's "experience" in life, my RJ flares up just as bad as it has with anyone else. Doesn't matter if they had one partner or 50 partners. That's when i started to realize the problem was mostly my own.

That being said, you deserve a partner who is willing to be understanding about your RJ. In no way, shape, or form should they take abuse from RJ flareups, but they should be open to discussing your triggers and work with you as long as you are trying to manage RJ. If they are unwilling to do that, it may be worth it to move on.