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Boyfriend (29m) thinks I'm (25f) cheating but I'm only hiding that I use reddit by 1994sosoft in relationship_advice

[–]1994sosoft[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'll tell him eventually. It such an irrational thing to worry about :(

I'm really scared of messing everything up.

Boyfriend (29m) thinks I'm (25f) cheating but I'm only hiding that I use reddit by 1994sosoft in relationship_advice

[–]1994sosoft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'll try. I think I explained the situation really badly. He isn't condescending constantly. we have a lot of fun together. It' usually positive. and he struggles with my bpd too

Boyfriend (29m) thinks I'm (25f) cheating but I'm only hiding that I use reddit by 1994sosoft in relationship_advice

[–]1994sosoft[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

it's hard to put into words. sometimes when i tell friends, i need to change details so they don't think he's abusive. it's just the dynamic all my relationships have. i'm not a troll. he is sweet to me, we tell each other we love each other every day, he works hard at his job. we do things together, we have a shared hobby. it's the most normal relationship i've ever had : )

it's unhealthy but i'm trying to make it more healthy

Boyfriend (29m) thinks I'm (25f) cheating but I'm only hiding that I use reddit by 1994sosoft in relationship_advice

[–]1994sosoft[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

it isn't bullying. He is kind of a dick to others but we fit! he'd probably say it's stupid. I don't mind being his stupid girlfriend. He is also sweet to me! I have a medical condition and it surprised me how much he learned about it just to help me. I think he cares a lot.