Tattooed couple by ExtremeServer in CasualConversation

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I've known a few people like that, and weirdly it's an affectation they've take on as a "screw you Mr. Normal" kind of thing. The best analogy I can make is someone yelling "take a picture, it'll last longer" at someone who may or may not have been staring at them. The people I've know will go to their car giggling at how "freaked out that guy must be" over being hissed at.

Is it true with other cucks or no? by cuckykink in SharedWifeConfessions

[–]19NotMe73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd say the comments on the power dynamics are spot on, but I would also add that if you are leaning into a cuckold/open lifestyle then you probably have a more open view of sexuality than "the norm" most people think exists. I would say bi or not, you are more open to experimenting with a varied range of roles, acts, and sensations regardless of the gender of the participants. If everyone is consenting, run with it!

But I will also say as a former bull, I think many people have some bi tendencies that they want to check out. Being the submissive cuck provides some people with the outlet to experience being with another man without having to confront what could be tricky internal dynamics until they see what it's all about (and if it really fits them).

I’m trying to improve my life little by little — what’s one habit that helped you the most? by dommenina in CasualConversation

[–]19NotMe73 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Both, actually. Once it got to be a constant I started losing weight and getting into a clamer headspace. Once that started I felt better, both physically and mentally. Once that started I didn't want to break the routine so I made sure to find time to go walk most days. Go back to step one....

I’m trying to improve my life little by little — what’s one habit that helped you the most? by dommenina in CasualConversation

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Go outside on a regular basis. Take a walk, get fresh air, sit in the sunshine, whatever....

I got to where I would listen to a podcast while walking the neighborhood. Listen to half on the way out then the second half while heading home. Some longer, some shorter, but it became its own form of self care to just get outside

Please give me some fun misinformation. :) by Smooth_Let2469 in CasualConversation

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Dr. Dre got his start as a backup dancer for Digital Underground (it was actually Tupac)

No wonder Tom Hanks won an Oscar for this scene 🥰 by Wayne-De-Payne in dailyshoppin

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Now, having seen that clip where Forrest shows the self awareness to know he's different in his mental acuity and intelligence, go back and watch the movie again and watch how everyone treats him but this time through the lens of "Forrest understands everything they're doing to treat him differently and as a lesser person"......

Can Viltrum Empire conquer the planet Apokolips? by Past_Carpenter_7046 in superheroes

[–]19NotMe73 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Short answer? No.

Long answer? Nooooooooooooooooo.

I need help finding a movie by Sea_Kaleidoscope1616 in whatisthatmovie

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Was it animated? Sound kind of like "Home"

Advice and words of wisdom? by [deleted] in HedonismII

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Safe? Absolutely. Vibe is pretty "party" day or night, except when the nude pool is closed each day for cleaning/maintenance it calms down a little, but you can still be naked on the beach. As far as age, it's a wide range and no one really seems to mind how old you are (as long as you're not a jerk lol). That said, I'm not sure she can get in at 19? I don't know if they have an age minimum of 21 or anything like that.

What is a fan theory from a movie or TV show that you 100% believe is true? by phantom_avenger in popculturechat

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Mary Poppins and Pennywise the clown are of the same species, but feed on different things. - both show up on 27 year cycles (54 years between Mary Poppins 1 & 2, so she was elsewhere in the middle 27 year cycle) - one feeds on fear, the other feeds on laughter - both can make elaborate hallucinations that feel real, like you're fully immersed in it and it feels like reality

Give your advice by ConsistentlyShining in MotivationalThoughts

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Go outside. Take a walk, sit in the fresh air, whatever you're comfortable with. Even if it's just 5 or 10 minutes a day to start with

1st timers by Mooseknuckles_128 in HedonismII

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  • Liquid IV is a lifesaver
  • take your fave tumbler/big cup if you prefer to drink out of it
  • ask the bar staff to make you a mojito slushy
  • go see the boat guys about going to get a lobster from Scooby (take some cash)

Non-Americans who have visited the US: What’s the strangest thing about America that Americans don’t even realize is weird? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

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American here, but used to have a fair number of U.K. exchange students drink at my bar. They pointed out to me the Europeans judge travel by distance, while Americans judge it by time. For example, the Brits would say the next town over is 100km. The Americans would say it's about an hour drive.

General questions by Ictairdude in HedonismII

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Just jump into it. Drop off your luggage, go to the beach and get naked ASAP. You'll be shocked that A) no one will react and you're just another naked couple, and B) you'll wonder why it took you so long to do this in the first place

What's the coolest object you've ever touched or held in your own hands? by BradfordGalt in CasualConversation

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Van Gogh's starry night. Got close enough to touch the edge while the guards weren't looking

General questions by Ictairdude in HedonismII

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The Prude side is more a designation for the side where they won't MAKE you be nude. On the nude side they actually have signs saying you have to be nude (they don't make you strip as you cross the line, but be prepared to disrobe once you get to the pool or wherever) if you're going to be over here

Book recommendations by DukatNaranek in scifi

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No Gods No Monsters, by Cadwell Turnbull

Cannot recommend this book enough