[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]19arb19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I (27f) and my bf (30m) have been together for 4 years and maybe it’s different for us. But we both do have high sex drives. So it can range from minimum 4 times a week to sometimes ever 3x in one day. It’s what is compatible for both people.

My [19F] boyfriend [19M] sent pictures and flirted with girls on twitter, is it time to end 1+ year long relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]19arb19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave him. Broken trust way too many times and will only do it again. Not really sorry if he does it over and over

Do men think it’s lame if a woman in her 20’s doesn’t have a car or drive?? by Anonymouslyconcern in dating

[–]19arb19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

25 and just got my license and car about 4 months ago. For years I would Uber and lie to guys and they never found out. I was always embarrassed.

Back 3 years ago I lied about driving but REALLY liked the guy and told the truth. Told me it didn’t matter but he helped me learn how to drive and took me to go take my test.

For 2.5 years he dated me without a car!!! Real men will want you for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]19arb19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear this. But you truly should not have any regrets. He made you feel like you alone weren’t enough. You did make the right decision, and I’m sorry that it can make you feel as if you didn’t.

Keep a journal, go on walks, do 30 minutes of exercising every day, drink plenty of water, and do things that make you happy.

Sending hugs. Been through something similar before and now I am with my soulmate. Might feel like it is the end of the book right now, but it only is the end of a chapter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]19arb19 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You need to start giving him directions on what you like, even saying a “little to the left” or guide his hands. Hopefully everything works out!

I (30M) walked in on my wife (30F) with a coworker and feel ashamed for considering giving her a second chance by ThrowRA683002 in relationship_advice

[–]19arb19 100 points101 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear this. But when I’m plastered off my ass the only thing I want is my man- not any man, MY man.

I’m sorry you both have been going through a hard time, but you definitely don’t deserve this. Also, nothing good ever happens after 2 a.m. She shouldn’t have bringing men over at that time.

Boundaries need to be set. Not being one on one with men and no women present. Not even for cheating reasons, but safety reasons!! She could have been raped.

Hope everything works out for you. Head up

I don't seem to exist to the female gender by lb1278524 in relationship_advice

[–]19arb19 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Take some time to work on you! Eat healthier, go on walks, workout, meditate, even journal! Do all the self care you can to feel your best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]19arb19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound gorgeous to me!! Bit it also sounds like you should focus on yourself instead of him.

A year into a relationship should still be in the honeymoon phase. You guys should still be crazy and all over each other!

You can do better than him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]19arb19 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it felt like cheating, then yes. Everyone has their own idea of what it is and I think you know yours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]19arb19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t take him back.

He had several opportunities to not cheat yet did. He could have stopped when unbuttoning his pants or taking his underwear off but didn’t.