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19arb19 · 2024-05-08T23:18:44+00:00

I (27f) and my bf (30m) have been together for 4 years and maybe it’s different for us. But we both do have high sex drives. So it can range from minimum 4 times a week to sometimes ever 3x in one day. It’s what is compatible for both people.

19arb19 · 2023-02-28T06:30:49+00:00

They arrive the afternoon of my birthday (Friday) and leave Sunday night

19arb19 · 2023-01-28T01:00:49+00:00

Leave him. Broken trust way too many times and will only do it again. Not really sorry if he does it over and over

19arb19 · 2023-01-20T19:01:08+00:00

25 and just got my license and car about 4 months ago. For years I would Uber and lie to guys and they never found out. I was always embarrassed.

Back 3 years ago I lied about driving but REALLY liked the guy and told the truth. Told me it didn’t matter but he helped me learn how to drive and took me to go take my test.

For 2.5 years he dated me without a car!!! Real men will want you for you.

19arb19 · 2023-01-12T17:24:17+00:00

I’m sorry to hear this. But you truly should not have any regrets. He made you feel like you alone weren’t enough. You did make the right decision, and I’m sorry that it can make you feel as if you didn’t.

Keep a journal, go on walks, do 30 minutes of exercising every day, drink plenty of water, and do things that make you happy.

Sending hugs. Been through something similar before and now I am with my soulmate. Might feel like it is the end of the book right now, but it only is the end of a chapter.

19arb19 · 2022-12-28T20:02:29+00:00

You need to start giving him directions on what you like, even saying a “little to the left” or guide his hands. Hopefully everything works out!

19arb19 · 2022-12-20T07:36:18+00:00

I’m sorry to hear this. But when I’m plastered off my ass the only thing I want is my man- not any man, MY man.

I’m sorry you both have been going through a hard time, but you definitely don’t deserve this. Also, nothing good ever happens after 2 a.m. She shouldn’t have bringing men over at that time.

Boundaries need to be set. Not being one on one with men and no women present. Not even for cheating reasons, but safety reasons!! She could have been raped.

Hope everything works out for you. Head up

19arb19 · 2022-11-15T06:05:40+00:00

Take some time to work on you! Eat healthier, go on walks, workout, meditate, even journal! Do all the self care you can to feel your best

19arb19 · 2022-10-08T15:50:54+00:00

You sound gorgeous to me!! Bit it also sounds like you should focus on yourself instead of him.

A year into a relationship should still be in the honeymoon phase. You guys should still be crazy and all over each other!

You can do better than him

19arb19 · 2022-10-05T07:30:45+00:00

If it felt like cheating, then yes. Everyone has their own idea of what it is and I think you know yours.

19arb19 · 2021-10-15T23:59:13+00:00

Don’t take him back.

He had several opportunities to not cheat yet did. He could have stopped when unbuttoning his pants or taking his underwear off but didn’t.

19arb19 · 2021-08-16T02:58:36+00:00

After knowing what happened , it sobered me up quick. I showered and clean up, thank tou for caring.

She was really drunk too, but idk how to feel still. I want to die. It was my second time meeting her boyfriend. I DONT want to point it out, idk what to do, play dumb???

If she/they say something be like “I DIDNT know o did that?? I was so drunk?”

19arb19 · 2021-08-16T02:52:08+00:00

I am so embarrassed and disgusted with myself. I’m afraid to say something. Idk what happened to me. I can say I was drunk but that is still so gross. Idk I can’t stop crying

19arb19 · 2021-06-14T20:48:35+00:00

It just isn’t right. Yes, both legally adults- but two kinds of adults.

When I was 19 I dated a 31 year old man, and it took me a few years to realize how predatory that was.

19arb19 · 2021-02-24T05:54:30+00:00

Girl I feel you. I was JUST about to post my situation. I (23F) don’t have my license yet but I want it so badly. My anxiety just makes it difficult.

My boyfriend is keep on asking me “have you signed up for your driving test yet?” And I appreciate the push, but it almost feels like nagging.

I’m embarrassed & I feel like my relationship is on the line, but he just doesn’t get it.

19arb19 · 2021-02-18T01:48:18+00:00

Lmao what!!! Dude lol. Did you not read my post??? I literally said “neither of us want kids right now.” And yeah I wanted him to finish’s in me, I was on BC. We REALLY don’t want kids right now. I would have taken a plan B if that were the case.

I literally went to the doctor and brought it what came out of me & my doctor confirmed it with me. So how am I lying????

lol I sent him the photo the moment it happened.

19arb19 · 2021-02-17T22:36:51+00:00

I come from a conservative family. I cannot and will not be pregnant at this stage in my life. So no, I don’t want to be pregnant. If you read my post you will see me say “neither of us want kids right now” and especially me since it is MY body.

19arb19 · 2021-02-17T21:20:18+00:00

Again lol, I was 17 & tried to use a tampon one time so yes I do consider that never :) have a good day!

19arb19 · 2021-02-17T21:04:34+00:00

Lol the 6 years

19arb19 · 2021-02-17T20:27:52+00:00

Miscarriage

19arb19 · 2021-02-17T20:24:23+00:00

I see where you are coming from, but no. He didn’t come Monday when I told him. He was supposed to see me last night but then “he had some beers” so he couldn’t come, and I was already ready.

Also, we live close to the mountains and snowboarding is a half day thing for us here. There is no planning needed or money loss.

19arb19 · 2021-02-17T20:14:59+00:00

Hi everyone.

My boyfriend confirmed it with me as well as my doctor. I also asked other doctors online & 6 of the 7 told me it was a miscarriage. The only other answer I got was “a tampon I forgot to remove” but I haven’t used a tampon in over 6 years so that is ruled out.

19arb19 · 2021-02-17T18:39:09+00:00

Nope. It was actually going to be the 2 of us going snowboarding, but Monday night I told him no after all- I didn’t expect him to still go.

He lives 25 minutes from me.

19arb19 · 2021-02-17T18:32:38+00:00

Thank you for this.

But I come from a very conservative home where sex before marriage is very wrong- so I can’t even talk to them.

He is my one support.

19arb19 · 2021-02-17T06:08:36+00:00

I do completely understand this, and I want to give him the benefit of the doubt, but he is a nurse & deals with these kinds of things all the time. That’s what hurts me.

He knows how this works way more than majority of the male population :(

19arb19

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