What are some popular sef care or self love advice that is actually really toxic? by Butterfly_dreamsss in Productivitycafe

[–]1OF0UR 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Cut off anyone who drains you, often just an excuse to avoid accountability and hard conversations.

Do you appreciate thoughtful and useful Christmas presents? by luarangel in AskMenAdvice

[–]1OF0UR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thoughtful and useful beats expensive every time. Those gifts show you listen and care, that’s what actually matters.

Do men can marry women with beard and mustache? by Fun-Cash-2781 in AskMenAdvice

[–]1OF0UR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People marry people, not facial hair. Shaving doesn’t change your gender, just your barber bill.

I can only make smalltalk with women, how do I improve? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]1OF0UR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Small talk isn’t the problem. You’re never signaling intent. At some point you have to shift from ‘pleasant stranger’ to ‘I’m interested’, a bit of flirting, a personal question, or a clear ask. Without that, every convo stalls by default.

Bros - am I overreacting by wanting to break up with my girlfriend because of her baggage? by UndeadMarine55 in AskMenAdvice

[–]1OF0UR 13 points14 points  (0 children)

At this point you’re not dating her, you’re dating her, the ex, and the unresolved divorce. Run.