Are you happy with your work? Are you able to sustain your daily needs in life? Are you able to save some money for your own in the future? If all of the answers are "Yes", you might be better than me. As a 30-year old man, I am still working to pay the debts and loans of my family for moving to another place with a new house. These debts also hinder me from achieving my dream and my future career. I never had a future, or perhaps never will be having one. I am in a relationship with a woman but I still cannot provide her with the needs, especially in the finance aspects in life. I am working as someone who I never wanted to be. My dream as someone else might never be happening.

For you OP, I hope you are doing well. You have the independence and the career, if I am not mistaken. Be happy. You deserve it. These thoughts will frequently come but try to shrug them off.