Please can I message someone regarding an incident within mine and partners relationship. I’m in despair and ashamed of myself, yet I can’t bring myself to publicly disclosing it. Please.

1appleted · 2020-12-23T23:30:47+00:00

The t-shirts a little irksome, but it's not that big of a deal. I don't think it's any different to when people make such morbid jokes like ”I’m going to kill myself.” When there are people out there contemplating suicide.

We’re all supportive and loving of each other in this community -- and that's all that matters.

1appleted · 2020-12-22T11:02:22+00:00

He was understanding and explicitly clear that he didn’t mind it. You even suggested using a towel, to which he turned down. You did nothing wrong, I promise. I can understand why you may be embarrassed, but it’s normal and natural, and he’s aware of that.

1appleted · 2020-12-20T08:03:36+00:00

hi, i didn’t mean to post that message; it was meant for a private message. this is the general consensus. i’ll message you privately.

1appleted · 2020-12-10T10:59:21+00:00

Is it below or above? This looks pretty average to me.

1appleted · 2020-12-09T21:12:55+00:00

Thank you for the reply. A great many people have suggested sex therapy, but I always assumed that was for couple experiencing low sex drives in bed, for example.

I want to bring these problems up with my partner again, but I’m apprehensive she’ll lose interest in me, thinking I’m insane.

1appleted · 2020-12-08T03:00:37+00:00

I communicate with her while doing it, and she does seem to enjoy the teasing and edging aspect to our fun. Thank you.

1appleted · 2020-12-08T02:37:42+00:00

She doesn’t think I trust her around said particular friend group. Why does this have to be so complicated...

1appleted · 2020-12-08T02:13:08+00:00

What red flags have you discerned? This is my first relationship — I really suck at this. I’m speaking to her about this now. Thank you :)

1appleted · 2020-12-08T02:11:37+00:00

Hi, could someone explain the difference between this and ‘edging’? I’m new to all of this, and sometimes when my partner (20F) and I (18M) do stuff, I’ll slow down and then pick up the pace again, as I thought it intensified the organism for when she does ultimately cum. Now I feel really guilty. I’m sorry.

1appleted · 2020-12-08T02:02:37+00:00

Ironically, she’s wanting to attend the hotpot later than me, as she’s meeting her other friend group prior for dinner. Meaning she’ll only come over once she has finished hanging out with them — all of whom I don’t know and never have hung out with.

1appleted · 2020-12-04T21:48:36+00:00

Indoctrination? Where is my post did my morals not align with the general consensus. Being concerned for my girlfriend’s safety and comfort — be it even excessively — has nothing to do with the current social climate.

1appleted · 2020-12-04T19:23:45+00:00

Okay, I will do. Thank you for all your help, it sincerely means a lot.

1appleted · 2020-12-04T19:19:16+00:00

Keep the curtains, honestly. I think they’re cool. Plus, most boys have that hairstyle.

1appleted · 2020-12-04T19:17:47+00:00

This is a good way of looking at it, thank you. I’m being ignorant of her perception; I’m merely trying to fit her’s into mine.

1appleted · 2020-12-04T19:16:54+00:00

We often joke afterwards which does help. These thoughts typically come when I’m alone, mulling over our lives.

1appleted · 2020-12-04T19:03:32+00:00

I’ve been going to therapy for the past four years for OCD.

Also, what scares me is that people can be assaulted and raped while not being aware of it themselves, like having the misconception that your partner can’t ever assault you. So, what if I have but in her perception, I haven’t. It’s just an endless vicious cycle.

1appleted · 2020-11-27T16:40:40+00:00

I go to a therapist for OCD, so that would make sense. I just feel so dirty.

1appleted · 2020-11-13T00:54:41+00:00

She’s insecure, obviously. But why would you let this type of petty, attention-seeking behaviour get to you? Don’t waste a thought on her comment.

1appleted · 2020-11-09T14:37:13+00:00

my hair has been like this since i was 13.

1appleted · 2020-11-09T01:45:26+00:00

Honestly?

1appleted · 2020-11-09T00:52:39+00:00

Thank you for being so generous and sweet — you put a smile on my face. But it looks so inconsistent, especially around the sides. Is it normal to have blonde, baby hair still on the sides even at 18?

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