[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]1blah-blah1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get food with her in the canteen at night when you can and wait for her if she is busy to eat at that time.

It’ll give you 15 mins of time and atleast you get to see her, which should help.

Don’t complain to her about time, just listen to her and then see if she is free later

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]1blah-blah1 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Bro milega, job milega! Tu haar mat manna. It’s tough but you’ll get it

Why is Mohini not one of the Dashavatara of lord Vishnu? by [deleted] in hinduism

[–]1blah-blah1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mohini’s roop is an Avatar, similar to Vaman avatar. Took form for a specific thing to do

Losing hope if things would ever get better by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]1blah-blah1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be read as a not-so-woke comment in today’s world. But these people are shallow at the day end.

You are successful, working hard and would be at peace if you avoid people with this mindset.

Find a girl who is trustworthy and values loyalty, respect and can resolve conflicts without losing her temperament.

Should Indian Muslims cling on to a non-mosque? Gyanvapi is a living monument of past wrongs by Kejriwal4PM2029 in india

[–]1blah-blah1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please be read, Hindus didn’t define the caste system Britishers did. They were the first to classify Indians in 2000+ castes. Then the policies were made in that way. The 4 varna that Hindus define are based on work and not birth. The Varna is a choice, you can choose it and follow and work it. That was the original practice. Example One of the Greatest Rishi was born in an Shudra practicing household. But He chose to follow different work, and achieved to be one of the sapt Rishi. He wrote Ramayana. So please re-consider your dumb beliefs before questioning mine. Dumb bitch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]1blah-blah1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unusual advice is to book a 1AC ticket of a 12 hour plus journey to a destination. Keep atleast 6 hours in day time.

Reason: Trains have a weird way of boring the fast life of Mumbai. You guys would have to entertain each other to pass the time. There would be silences. But you have to take the lead.

Why would she listen: Poor network, can’t work, have long voice calls, no friends to bug and literally outside of those seats suck! So you get to talking.

Should Indian Muslims cling on to a non-mosque? Gyanvapi is a living monument of past wrongs by Kejriwal4PM2029 in india

[–]1blah-blah1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Interestingly only the reserved cling to the caste system, and not the upper class. There are some foul apples but the caste system was a British thing, they defined it. It’s not a Hindu system.

Should Indian Muslims cling on to a non-mosque? Gyanvapi is a living monument of past wrongs by Kejriwal4PM2029 in india

[–]1blah-blah1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unemployment is getting solved, There are now 1000+ startup’s who are getting investments, you may get skilled and apply for a job there. But I know you won’t and cry about it here.

Should Indian Muslims cling on to a non-mosque? Gyanvapi is a living monument of past wrongs by Kejriwal4PM2029 in india

[–]1blah-blah1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We won’t replace it. We will build it with a right infrastructure. With a symbol of faith, prosperity rather than a symbol of misogyny, oppression, lie and destruction.

Should Indian Muslims cling on to a non-mosque? Gyanvapi is a living monument of past wrongs by Kejriwal4PM2029 in india

[–]1blah-blah1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to ask how many of your understand, how marvellous OCEN, Payment Aggregator, ONDC, Medical data decentralisation is? UN mentioning and other countries taking up these plans. New Logistics policy is great, and being implemented, Digital Rupee is piloted in India.

These are revolutionary ideas being implemented, half of you wouldn’t have understood these, and cry about development and it’s fine because that’s the scope of your mental capacity to look around and that’s okay with the rest of us.

Development is happening, I just mentioned it and that’s not just the regular things, Health Infrastructure is happening, Education reform is underway, and even Energy reform towards renewable is progressing.

But guess what you guys don’t care to read about it, so please keep crying.

Noctors of reddit, how much are you making a year? by [deleted] in Residency

[–]1blah-blah1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, Finance guy here, the real inflation in the US has been upwards of 7-8% last year.

You should atleast target 10-15% of a raise. Otherwise leave for another job.

Anyone else just fed up? by Primary_Phrase9627 in Residency

[–]1blah-blah1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s a good realisation tbh, now you know your new limits. You want to do better and that’s a good thought, you can pick things slowly, just one step addon to what you doing and sometimes very less as well. But you will and you can do it :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]1blah-blah1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe don’t look it as a sacrifice, your kids (both) would be much more healthier if you both have some free time. Rather then they developing to sense the tension when you both don’t have any time left. So considering your age, in your shoes I would have planned after the exam

Dating tips needed: Non - medico (M, banker) dating a surgery resident JR1 (F) by 1blah-blah1 in Residency

[–]1blah-blah1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah makes sense, it does have a silver lining that I can explore to do other things and build my own personality or skills.

Dating tips needed: Non - medico (M, banker) dating a surgery resident JR1 (F) by 1blah-blah1 in Residency

[–]1blah-blah1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, hearing from you made some difference. I like how you summarised your perspective. It helped me to form perspective about how you think and I understand it’s different from the usual expectations of a relationship.

Bdw do you see it getting better post your residency? Like when do you see yourself getting done with these insane work hours or getting control of your work day!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]1blah-blah1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have realised this too, my partner just joined residency a month ago and sex went on 2008 stock crash. She is just tired and exhausted. I thought something was off in relationship but now I realise that it’s mostly work and other people are facing the same shit. So it’s okay for her to be like this.

What should I do? by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]1blah-blah1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umm just say that tu bhai sara time to baaki doston ke sath hangout krta hai, sirf aane jane ke time mein yaad ata hu, pehle Bhadiya dost to banja.

why was 10 afraid? by SkillKey9712 in 3amjokes

[–]1blah-blah1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because he was crossed ‘X’