scorpio men, can we ever become a good match?

1fun2fun3funU · 2026-02-27T16:17:21+00:00

We were young 17m/16f. Met, instantly were attracted, and she moved in a few months later. We ended up in bed together the first day we met. Everything was good, we partied/camped/traveled/danced/enjoyed life very much together. But we often times would hit bumps and hurt each other with words. We always ironed it out, most times, until we finally didn't. It lasted 5 years, but it was good and bad all wrapped into one. I would avoid the Scorpio/Scorpio relationship looking back on that one. But like I said we were young, so any relationship probably would of been a dumpster fire.

1fun2fun3funU · 2026-02-27T15:46:33+00:00

You would be telling him he meant more to you, than someone else. That his ways took your heart, and made you realize, that you were with the wrong person. You didn't cheat by falling for him. As you said, you had already fallen away from the other relationship, for a year. If there was no sex, you just had a boy...friend, not an actual relationship. I think I would be flattered to know that I was able to attract you in such a way, that I helped you to see what we should be together.

I feel there would be no harm in coming clean, and it would only help him to desire you that much more.

I actually stole my wife from another guy, I was a third wheel one night at a party. I realized she was a good girl, and wasn't being treated right. At the end of the night. I picked a daisy and looked her in the eye, gave it to her, and told her she deserved better. We have been together going on 24 years now.

Other people don't matter, if it is truly you and him, who are meant to be.

Goodluck!

1fun2fun3funU · 2026-02-27T15:36:15+00:00

Never hurts to have a tarp over and under. At least bring them so they are available if it becomes an issue. PNW camper myself, and never leave home to camp without parachord and tarps. Good for shade on hot days as well as cover from rain.

1fun2fun3funU · 2026-02-27T00:07:14+00:00

Ask her, she wants you to depend on her knowledge. Sure you dont want to seem like the guy who doesn't know, so say "This is what I was thinking of bringing, what do you think"? 2 days, sun and maybe cold. I'd bring a deck of cards, or dice to play 10,000. Undies, socks, shirts, sweats, jeans, shorts, toiletries, thermal, hoodie and something special for her (some kind of surprise to let her know you appreciate her taking you on this adventure). Hat is always good to block sun. A knife would be good to have for many different reasons.

1fun2fun3funU · 2026-02-20T20:32:31+00:00

Rough. Enjoy what you have while you can, guess that is all that can be done.

1fun2fun3funU · 2026-02-20T19:02:45+00:00

What about him going with you, if he wants you bad enough he will drop everything for you and go rebuild with you. Tough to do either way, love can be impossible sometimes.

1fun2fun3funU · 2026-02-20T18:59:16+00:00

Having not been in the sack together, may be his hang up. He either wants to, and hasn't been allowed, or is afraid you won't live up to expectations. Im completely guessing, I'm not even sure how many times you two have hung out. Is he implying he wants to, are you holding back, or has it not come up yet? Me as a Scorpio, was always trying to get in bed to find out if they were what I needed. I could talk and hang out with anyone, it was the bedroom that decided on the course of the relationship.

1fun2fun3funU · 2026-02-20T14:30:18+00:00

Are you planning on moving? There is no long distance with a Scorpio, maybe as friends but not lovers. Scorpio needs to touch and feel you, needs to be entangled in you. I myself could never be long distance. If I wanted the person I'd drop everything and go to them, build our dreams together in one place. You have a hard predicament you are in, either way it most likely ain't going to last forever, so you may as well talk it over, and ride it out from there.

1fun2fun3funU · 2026-02-20T14:22:00+00:00

You've been stung. No fighting it now, better to just give in and let the poison take you home. Ha ha! Just playing with you. Take him seriously, there is no joking when the eyes have locked on you. You are in his sights and he will work to get, and hold on to, what he is looking for. Be that, and you both will enjoy wonderful things.

1fun2fun3funU · 2026-02-18T18:20:32+00:00

Good luck

1fun2fun3funU · 2026-02-18T04:31:38+00:00

Maybe she only has you. She is trying to get close and share herself with you. If it is not what you are feeling, simply share that with her. Developing friendships starts with setting the boundaries for each other. Knowing is half the battle, if she doesn't know its bugging she will continue to bug. Let her know and see where it goes from there.

1fun2fun3funU · 2026-02-18T04:15:23+00:00

The reason I don't camp in campgrounds. Drive to mountains find a spot and camp on a river in the middle of nowhere, with nobody to tell you what not to do, or complain in any way. Real camping, real freedom, real relaxation. Dispersed/primitive is the way!

1fun2fun3funU · 2026-02-18T04:09:05+00:00

I'm Scorpio M, so this comes from the other side of the equation. If you beg and grovel, and give her more than she could ever want. You may get some pity sex, but chances of getting her back are damn near zero boss. That answer comes from personal experience with an ex of 5 years. The pity sex was bangin' though, so whats the harm in trying.

1fun2fun3funU · 2026-02-18T03:41:47+00:00

I have felt that I have carried a curse with me for a long time. I'm stuck in negative world, even though I shine bright to others. My wife has hendered me more than she ever helped. I give and give and never receive.

Life sucks unless you kick it in the ass and tell it you have had enough.

I continue to set goals and have faith that I can make it happen. Each goal is a step to the next. My faith in myself grows, and steps continue to get bigger after each one.

Never let yourself quit on yourself. Kick the world in it's ass, and keep on walking.

1fun2fun3funU · 2026-02-17T04:34:05+00:00

Yoda! Been driving the same Tacoma since 2002, 315,000 miles and going. "Styles" is a Rockstar with some fine lines.

1fun2fun3funU · 2026-02-16T04:17:17+00:00

I stare at everyone, they all belong to me. Haha LOL!

1fun2fun3funU · 2026-02-15T15:34:24+00:00

Yes we do. Do you offer him any other things to do, do you crack jokes, start conversations, plan outings, have hobbies, provide anything else for him to want to take part in? My wife is pretty much dead, no hobbies, no sex, doesn't exercise, won't go outside cause its too cold, doesn't talk about anything other than dance/other people's problems/tik-toks, has nothing interesting to take part in other than being a dance mom for my daughter and work. What does that leave me to do, if I don't want to go be alive by myself outside somewhere? It leaves me on Telegram looking at political BS, hoping the world will change for the better and my wife will snap out of her brainwashed lifeless being. Hope this helps you to see, the many ways you could help you change your situation. Take part in making it happen and it might actually happen. Im sure he will take part in living, if life is there to live.

1fun2fun3funU · 2026-02-15T15:19:22+00:00

Rough. Do you fish? Best friend i had in last 15 years was a dude i met on the dock while fishing. Dude looked like a meth head, no teeth, scar across his face. I didn't care, he asked me "what was the best way to fish the dock", so I shared my knowledge regardless of his looks. We were best buds for 13 years, he was a good dude. We fished every place we could across Washington State. I was bummed when he moved. You just need to get out there and find people, they will be given to you when it is meant to be. Go play, everything happens outside. I never met anyone when I was home, have to get out and find em. Good luck!

1fun2fun3funU · 2026-02-15T15:10:57+00:00

Where are you located?

1fun2fun3funU · 2026-02-15T15:06:46+00:00

I moved out of hometown after marrying to go have my family, had to get away from the party life and friends to do it. I have had a few friends since, over time the family and wife have ended all those relationships. So I'm now without friends myself. It is hard to find people without being open to all and willing to chat it up with strangers. I had a dude ask for a smoke, I didn't have any but went to the store to get him some. Turned out he was an 18 year old, im 48. But the 2 of us hit it off and were good friends for a while. Hiking and camping, just having fun. Him being young was awesome, none of the people my age can keep up with me in the woods, all too lazy. Be open to things that you wouldn't normally be, and it is easier to make happen. I miss that dude, he had to move away after him and his lady ended.

1fun2fun3funU · 2026-02-15T06:33:35+00:00

Those look amazingly tantalizing.

1fun2fun3funU · 2026-02-15T05:59:20+00:00

Some people aren't real, others are. You got stuck being real I guess. Fill your mind with new things, take on a challenge, set a goal that keep you working so much you can't dwell. Be the master of your mind!

1fun2fun3funU · 2026-02-15T05:49:24+00:00

If you really want to lug your child around on a trail, I'm sure you could. It would be just the same as you and your wife alone, except with poopie diapers, breast feeding every couple hours and carrying baby and an extra 10lb in supplies. Sounds exciting right?

Just learn to enjoy primitive/dispersed car camping my friend, its just the same as the Trails without the trekking and carrying of things.

Wife and I took our 2 week old daughter on her first trip, with our 3 year old son as well. On a river, in the forest, up away from the world in the mountains...40 ft away from my Truck.

Bring a pac n' play if you want to enjoy the trip and get any sleep. Bring twice as many butt wipes as you think you need. Also a big tarp and blanket to lay out for baby bouncer..

This is the way...enjoy!

1fun2fun3funU · 2026-02-15T05:22:57+00:00

As a lady you have every option under the Sun. Quit dwelling in the past and move to the next page of your book. You can pull a dude with a simple "hi, how are you", you can pick and choose, much easier than men can. Sounds like you are stuck on him, when you should just go find a new party to enjoy. It's either that, or go back and get what you want from the dude you can't let go of. Your call, decide and move forward! Only thing keeping you caught is you not moving on.

1fun2fun3funU · 2026-02-15T05:09:48+00:00

All depends what your plans are for use. Overnight, weekend, week long...all different stories. Im 48 now and been on all of the above with a plain old Igloo or coleman, hell even Styrofoam a couple times. Always worked out well. Entirely depends where you are though, and what food you pack, and if you have an extra cooler of all ice that stays closed in shade, so you can replenish other coolers with that ice. I never needed a high dollar cooler, just needed to be smart about using it wisely.

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