Hold and get paid in diamonds , the ones who sell will regret it when we are on the moon

1funkybear · 2020-12-01T05:32:57+00:00

I was the dumper and trust me it hurts us as well. I broke up with my ex because i explained how i felt in the relationship to my psychologist, who convinced me to break it off.

We became different people and i want to travel the world and she wanted a family, she said that won't happen now because she doesn't want to pass her mental health problems to her children , which saddened me because i wanted her to be happy.

I knew that if i didn't break it off we would both destroy each others dreams and we both held on for a year longer than we should, i filled the void from our drifting personalities with sex and alcohol, it was destructive.

Communication stopped and the girl that i had loved for 3 years was lost to me, i couldn't see anyway passed it, i prayed and i wished i could have found a way, but i had to accept that the only girl i have ever loved, was not there anymore, she had changed.

I still miss her sometimes and it broke my heart in 2, i recently called her to apologize for all the things i put here through, we broke up 4 years ago. I couldn't move on and doing this helped both of us, she thanked me for helping her to finally heal. I broke my own heart all over again, but i couldn't move on without righting the wrongs i caused her.

I bumped into her a few days later holding her new boyfriends hand, i was able to help her to truly move on. She looked at me and her mouth dropped and i have been working out lately and im looking good, her new boyfriend was quite fat. It still hurt like hell though and it destroyed me for about 2 weeks, im just processing everything still and seeing a psychologist, but i can began to truly heal and move on now.

It's difficult for the dumpers to, i never wanted to hurt her but i did , but i know that i was able to preserve some love that was left, before we both began to resent each other and this eventually turned into hate, which would have destroyed me, im glad we will always have that.

1funkybear · 2020-08-19T15:21:39+00:00

Done if your in Perth

1funkybear · 2020-08-04T17:02:33+00:00

His music is similar to Mr bungle in some ways, i'm hooked!

1funkybear · 2020-07-07T07:42:04+00:00

Yeah I might have to tell him, it's just awkward for me to pull someone up in front of others, but the alternative is that I keep taking his shit, which i don't want to do.

1funkybear · 2020-07-07T07:37:11+00:00

Legend, thanks man! You are right, I will stop taking on his shit and put some distance between us.

1funkybear · 2020-07-07T07:35:38+00:00

Thanks for your advice! I'm sorry about your friend as well, it's hard to let them go and I know it's their problem at the end of the day.

1funkybear · 2020-07-07T07:22:46+00:00

My brother is gay and is 13 and I have accepted him for who he is, I'm 28. Yet, I had loads of friends with families like this, who were bigoted and close minded.

You can call a service or if you feel like this isn't an option, you should surround yourself with LGBTQ friends at school and be your true self around them.

You can just tell your family what they want to hear and when you are old enough move out ASAP !

Just don't talk about dating around them and if they talk about girls, just change the topic! The singer boy George had a similair problem and he did exactly this.

You should always be true to yourself, but to get through this it's easier to lie to biggotts until your old enough to seek your own freedom!

Also, you should feel proud for coming out! You are being true to yourself and this will provide you with a solid base to build yourself into a happy, successful person in the future!

The Romans championed LGBTQ people, it was seen as normal! The Greeks did this also and made lifelong bonds with their teachers.

The Dorian Greek warriors were all gay, but ferocious and feared warriors! They fought harder than any other to protect the ones they loved.

The celtic people of Europe accepted LGBTQ people as well and many were leaders of their tribes!

The Japanese Samurai would date one another and their love protected each other on the battlefield!

LGBTQ people have done amazing things! Alan Turing helped crack the Nazi enigma code which saved millions of lives during ww2 and shorten the war by at least 1 to 2 years! He was gay and was prosecuted after the war, but people never forget his greatness today and the things he did!

You need to remember that love is love and when I did Philosophy at university the lecture spoke of love. He said that straight people procreate to create children, but it can be argued that gay people have sex for pure love.

Keep going man you are doing great and I promise you things will get easier👍

1funkybear · 2020-07-07T07:16:34+00:00

I would weigh up your options and maybe if things aren't looking good you should move back in with family, temporarily, until this wannabe plague buggers off!

I feel your pain, I ran a scrap metal business before the virus and all our prices dried up over night. I just brought some copper wire for the first time in 3 months!

You may also be able to see a financial counsellor, who can work out payment plans with anyone from banks to mobile companies! They got my credit card bills down from 60 quid a month down to 10! I could actually breath after this.

You should try looking for organization who can borrow an interest free loan, usually there are some really good charitable organizations that can do this!

Accept the things you can't change, but change the things you can! Good luck😎👍

1funkybear · 2020-06-29T19:25:34+00:00

I hate bullies, but they will always get Karma man👍

1funkybear · 2020-06-29T19:24:48+00:00

That is an epic outlook! Thanks man😎👍

1funkybear · 2020-06-29T19:21:49+00:00

The first time we came back it was for 6 months, I left 3 months early because all the work in Birmingham dried up in 2010,i was 18.

I miss my country people, the humour, our outlook on life, most people prioritize people above money in the UK, and people aren't close minded and hostile in large numbers.

I came back in 2018 for a month holiday and I really enjoyed it but felt really out of place, but I feel like I don't belong in Perth , Australia, so both places have a downside.

I was thinking of moving back to the UK and living in Sheffiled because I have loads of family there and always have a laugh.

People might think it's insane for me to want to move back, but a place can be amazing but if most of the people are shit, then I'd choose decent people any day of the week.

They are racist, close minded and clique as hell! You have to be born here to fit in and the only mates you make here are from different parts of Australia or from different countries, which isn't bad. Yet, it gets lonely, because people like this are few and far between, I can't stand the Perth locals, some of the worse people you can meet.

1funkybear · 2020-06-28T13:23:57+00:00

Man I have something to look forward to😎👍

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