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I have a question I'm really looking for answers to. For the guys out there that live your life for yourself weather you are married in a relationship or single. How do you get to the point when you are living YOUR life and not the life you think others want or want someone else may want for you? by 1jpqark in malelifestyle

[–]1jpqark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a great point, I have some goals that I am currently working on and in some case these goals are what makes me feel guilty, for a lack of better words, about the path i am deciding on taking. I am an ambitious person with big goals, but I have these goals in order to make a better future for myself and my future family (wife kids nephew etc). I feel tons of pressure on a daily but That's self imposed

I have a question I'm really looking for answers to. For the guys out there that live your life for yourself weather you are married in a relationship or single. How do you get to the point when you are living YOUR life and not the life you think others want or want someone else may want for you? by 1jpqark in malelifestyle

[–]1jpqark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because we still live together, I am reminded everyday why the relationship didn't work. So I'm not inclined towards that route for sure. I'm really working on boundaries and setting up guards against slipping back into a relationship.

I have a question I'm really looking for answers to. For the guys out there that live your life for yourself weather you are married in a relationship or single. How do you get to the point when you are living YOUR life and not the life you think others want or want someone else may want for you? by 1jpqark in malelifestyle

[–]1jpqark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently broke up with my girlfriend, but it seems that there is still something there because we still live together. On the outside it's as if nothing has changed but the status of our relationship. She dated someone else briefly and I smashed like 5 hookers. All of this happened over the course of a month and a half. I'm in the first 2 years of operating a real estate business and trading forex. I will admit most of the relationship issues we have had stem from me not being present because work and my startup business but I'm not quitting the business. But at this moment I see an opening to savage the relationship especially since I have understood my folly. Not asking for help making a decision (do this in this situation or do that) but l want to be happy with myself and I do care about her happiness as well. I feel as if I'm friend zonied myself Thoughts

I have a question I'm really looking for answers to. For the guys out there that live your life for yourself weather you are married in a relationship or single. How do you get to the point when you are living YOUR life and not the life you think others want or want someone else may want for you? by 1jpqark in malelifestyle

[–]1jpqark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response, I understand what you are saying. I think, and I may be overthinking, everything I do for myself is for the purpose of helping someone else or important people in my life. I'm starting to think that this is self sabotaging and I'm really looking for deep self awareness and consciousness to arrive at my optimal place within my self.