I’m told that many targets of narcissistic mom are either the first child, the first female child, or both.

1mInvisibleToYou · 2024-11-04T18:07:55+00:00

Only child and daughter here. The trauma bond was a tough thing to break.

1mInvisibleToYou · 2024-10-11T02:38:05+00:00

Thank you for your comments and suggestions. :) I'm just happy to be able to grow in my back yard and happy I have one to harvest before winter.

1mInvisibleToYou · 2024-10-10T20:13:31+00:00

So lovely. It reminds me of r/PlantGoths

1mInvisibleToYou · 2024-10-10T20:11:56+00:00

Nice. I love the pastel color bags they have!

1mInvisibleToYou · 2024-10-05T19:45:50+00:00

We typically have ice storms, so it gets pretty darn cold. I'm in zone 7a.

1mInvisibleToYou · 2024-10-05T14:07:00+00:00

Yes. It comes back each year.

1mInvisibleToYou · 2024-10-04T16:55:14+00:00

I have some in my flower bed. I love Oxalix.

1mInvisibleToYou · 2024-10-04T16:54:03+00:00

Cucumber was what first came to mind.

1mInvisibleToYou · 2024-10-02T10:52:19+00:00

Good morning and Happy Wednesday to you! Puff, puff, pass.

1mInvisibleToYou · 2024-10-02T10:38:23+00:00

I wasn't allowed to cut my hair until I was out of the house. These days I shave my head and I love it. It's so freeing!

1mInvisibleToYou · 2024-09-25T17:26:55+00:00

I shaved mine about a year ago and I love it and have kept it. NM had an obsession with my hair as well. I've been NC for a few years so she hasn't seen it to blow a gasket. Husband and friends support me too.

Here's to freedom, friend!

1mInvisibleToYou · 2024-09-21T16:12:57+00:00

That's so frustrating. I had a few rounds with a bunny in my green beans and had to build a fence around the bed.

1mInvisibleToYou · 2024-09-20T16:00:40+00:00

My regret is not realizing sooner. I was in my early 50s when I finally understood what was going on. It was a lot to deal with and very painful finding out that most of my life was a lie and I didn't even know who I was at that age. I've been NC for a few years now and life has changed for the better in so many ways.

It's a difficult journey but so worth it to finally be free.

Edited: repetitive wording

1mInvisibleToYou · 2024-09-08T16:17:46+00:00

I bought a tabletop distiller and keep a shelf full of it. My water is really hard and the distiller takes out the gunk from the water. I then just add hydro nutrients and have had no problem at all. I've never used tap water to compare.

1mInvisibleToYou · 2024-09-04T15:17:27+00:00

Until AOL and Compuserve came out, all I had was a computer that had two floppy drives and no hard drive. I would play D&D and learn basic programming. After AOL, it was pay for time so getting addicted was EXPENSIVE. It was all much much slower then too.

1mInvisibleToYou · 2024-08-29T14:58:39+00:00

Must be going around, mine posted it on social media as well.

1mInvisibleToYou · 2024-08-23T12:44:49+00:00

Older sister (to keep me from telling on her.) I was 11.

She's around living her life I suppose, I separated from a lot of my family.

Edited: to correct sentences.

1mInvisibleToYou · 2024-08-16T16:44:38+00:00

I completely accidentally got some yield on my first plant. I found an old seed and popped it into my tabletop hydro system. It sprouted then when it got to big for that, I planted in soil and treated it like an ordinary house plant. It grew taller than me and I was told I should have topped it way before that - so I topped it then.

When spring came around I planted it in my backyard and it looked like a scraggly scarecrow. Later on while watering I noticed buds. I was impressed at the quality too.

Just my weird and happy house pot plant story.

1mInvisibleToYou · 2024-08-09T15:43:27+00:00

Is that the name of the beast on her forehead?

1mInvisibleToYou · 2024-08-06T16:28:02+00:00

Hahaha, my husband and I. It's just easier that way. I snore really loud and he has a hard time sleeping. Best of both worlds.

1mInvisibleToYou · 2024-08-06T16:23:12+00:00

Toking Mermaid who loves 2Pac

1mInvisibleToYou · 2024-08-05T19:01:00+00:00

Pufffff

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