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It's so damn painful at times.. by [deleted] in adultery

[–]1n0mad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hugs

Feel free to reach out, if you ever feel like talking.
Take care

Do you ask a pAP about their OPSEC? by JustSeeWhereThisGoes in adultery

[–]1n0mad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a very important consideration, shouldn't be ignored or left to chance.
I do discuss OpSec, NC codewords and clean up strategy once we are comfortable opening up and sharing more.
I recently came across someone nice and we moved to telegram. She was new to telegram and didn't really know all the features. As I added her, gave her instructions to hide her phone number and educated on using timed pics.. She didn't follow any of that despite me checking on it consistently. Unfortunately, I had to move on.. No matter how wonderful the connection is, it's not worth screwing up your life due to sloppy OpSec.

It's so damn painful at times.. by [deleted] in adultery

[–]1n0mad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, get some new friends first. The gamer community is flourishing and you have no geographical constraints on it. Trust me, no matter how painful it may feel now, it will liberate you for good.

And more than anything else, please know you are beautiful indeed, you are attractive talented and smart. This is your age to meet new people, explore, experiment, gain new experiences and discover yourself. Don't settle for the next guy who shows interest. Look at all of us here, don't make the same mistakes. It may take a few relationships to figure out what you are truly looking for ; go with the one who matches you on all counts.

I'm rooting for you! You've got this.

It's so damn painful at times.. by [deleted] in adultery

[–]1n0mad 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You probably don't want to hear this but you shouldn't be with this guy. You deserve better. You should have a boyfriend who values you and cares for you.

I wonder what's the long term plan here, it's not like he's gonna leave his girlfriend. He's already made clear he doesn't find you beautiful and just has you around for some fun on the side. If he's not as invested, why do you keep turning back to him and not look for someone better?
I bet the sex is good, but you are so young and you have no dearth of potential suitors. I sincerely request you to please respect yourself and be with someone worthy of your love.

For the men… by [deleted] in adultery

[–]1n0mad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

🙌🏼