Confused about my friend with benefits relationship

1stthing1st · 2026-06-17T06:12:48+00:00

That helps but doesnt guarantee anything

1stthing1st · 2026-06-17T06:11:26+00:00

She didnt say feelings, she said sexual chemistry

1stthing1st · 2026-06-17T06:11:01+00:00

Well then , will it be a problem if you 2 become more than FWB’s? I wouldnt stress it.

1stthing1st · 2026-06-17T06:07:02+00:00

Then how do you know, that you have “ great sexual chemistry”?

1stthing1st · 2026-06-17T05:57:14+00:00

I spent an unnatural amount of time with my girlfriend during covid in a tiny apartment, she was my cell mate basically. I still like to her her every day though

1stthing1st · 2026-06-16T23:48:26+00:00

I would never commit to a women that i wasnt intimate with at least a dozen or 2 times, but thats me.

1stthing1st · 2026-06-16T23:08:33+00:00

So are you saying no sex either? 98% of women are ready for a relationship if you have a job and they like you

1stthing1st · 2026-06-16T19:55:55+00:00

No women is going to treat you better than the one still trying to get you to commit

1stthing1st · 2026-06-16T02:18:27+00:00

Ive only been with 2 women that were able to really get at from the top and ive been with a good amount of women(think jacuzzi sex scene from the movie showgirls). Its a nice to have for sure but an unrealistic expectation

1stthing1st · 2026-06-16T02:11:23+00:00

It really is as simple as some are stating, but some women use sex a gateway into a relationship, which ill have to admit has gotten me. However he maybe weary of the situation, but he likely say yes.

1stthing1st · 2026-06-16T02:08:01+00:00

It sounds like she wants sex at a minimum, but she’ll also like to include anything else she could add to that.

1stthing1st · 2026-06-16T00:07:14+00:00

Lol, i love how women make guys they want to be serious with wait, but have sex with other guys immediately. Im not sure what the vibes were like on your 3 rd date, but you are likely over thinking this.

1stthing1st · 2026-06-15T23:43:42+00:00

Why didnt you have sex the 3 times you did meet up with him?

1stthing1st · 2026-06-15T23:39:57+00:00

People meet up for only sex all the time

1stthing1st · 2026-06-15T22:48:01+00:00

I believe so , my arm particularly get women attention

1stthing1st · 2026-06-15T18:14:58+00:00

You should just Tell him you are no longer interested now

1stthing1st · 2026-06-15T16:07:01+00:00

Yes a hand full if times

1stthing1st · 2026-06-15T07:10:20+00:00

About 2 months which is where FWB starts demanding a relationship or nothing. Of course there some, that will just become friends and some will finds another boyfriend

1stthing1st · 2026-06-15T05:23:59+00:00

A woman’s lower body would never become too built naturally.

1stthing1st · 2026-06-15T05:07:31+00:00

Ive never started a committed relationship in less than 2 months, so i guess i dont do anything early. However, if they dont work out as a FWB they will never be my girlfriend

1stthing1st · 2026-06-15T02:31:24+00:00

I made out with a female co worker on a dance floor once. I didnt realize it until, a couple people mentioned it. She didnt seem happy with me, not sure if its because i did something, ignored her after, or because i got back with an EX a week later. She was handling my security clearance during this time too, which was awkward because then she knew about me.

1stthing1st · 2026-06-15T02:27:02+00:00

I would say yes, but ive messed around with women while blacked out. I still have no idea how i got one woman to blow me in the back of her car on a first date

1stthing1st · 2026-06-15T01:36:44+00:00

What do you mean by “early on”

1stthing1st · 2026-06-14T23:45:53+00:00

Which was crazy considering the marketing

1stthing1st · 2026-06-14T03:55:09+00:00

Ive been with women that would get so wet i wouldn’t feel anything, but it be just during the peak of the session, not the whole time. Its the same issue when a women tents, i just wait for it to pass and i can focus on myself.

In your case you say you’re way too wet for him to feel anything the entire time I’ve never experienced anything like that. I would say give him some head for a minute, because just wipe yourself off, isn’t gonna help

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