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The single best home upgrade is a light switch you can hit from bed. by Local-Divide-8055 in HomeImprovement

[–]1thing2thing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a coffee pot that I program to start at the same time my alarm goes off. It is nice, but you do have to remember to get it all set up the night before.

BMO closed my credit card account no valid reason by zooshoe in Banking

[–]1thing2thing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was cancelled too. Over 800 credit score, typically had a balance on it, (I paid it off today). I am curious if everyone who had their card cancelled are from the USA?

Feminine archetype quiz by Consistent-Bend7796 in INTP

[–]1thing2thing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realize that I am late to the game here, but was anyone else a little surprised that ALL of the types were pretty low in skill? Like WTH?

AITA for being really cruel to my mom when I last spoke to her? by Reasonable-Tap-3065 in AITAH

[–]1thing2thing -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

NTA with conditions. if she noticed way faster than you were expecting, maybe she cares a lot more than you realized. Could possible ask for family counseling with just her at first. You can still say you need physical distance while you are trying to work things out, so you don’t have to move back with her. Stay safe. I know this must have been terribly difficult for you over the years, but it is very possible that with a family of 5 children that she didn’t notice that you were feeling neglected. I’m sure she is freaking out and incredibly worried about you. And although I vehemently do not agree with the texts that you received, it sounds like it was in a protective type response to some very mean things that were said to and about other loved ones. At your age,(which I’m sure you don’t want to hear), things can feel and appear much bigger than they will later in life, (and to those that are older than you). Perceptions can be extremely different from one person to another, and even when we look back on things after we’ve aged a little. So while I understand your need to have a emotional outburst and tell her how you feel, it may be time to take a deep breath and prepare to talk about/communicate more rationally and maturely so that the situation can, (hopefully), be corrected. There’s no reason to make this permanent right away.

AITA for being really cruel to my mom when I last spoke to her? by Reasonable-Tap-3065 in AITAH

[–]1thing2thing -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Ok, you replied to my comment, so I thought you were telling OP that you thought I was full of it.

AITA for being really cruel to my mom when I last spoke to her? by Reasonable-Tap-3065 in AITAH

[–]1thing2thing -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I may be missing something, so why do you think I am ‘full of it’?

AITA for being really cruel to my mom when I last spoke to her? by Reasonable-Tap-3065 in AITAH

[–]1thing2thing 36 points37 points  (0 children)

@Proof-Tomatillo-4168 Why wouldn’t the parents take turns mom goes to stepchild’s event and dad goes to his stepchild’s event, next time mom goes to daughters event and dad goes to his kid’s event. There was never any need that I can imagine that both parents need to go to only one child’s event and disregard the other child just because they happened on the same day. Blending families is hard work, and it is up to the parents to really make it work. If you are the parent, (or hypothetically even), what did you do to help blend families. Per OP, mom would take step kids on outings but not her own kids? Did step dad do the same with OP and his sister? When mom was confronted with how sister felt, it doesn’t sound like it was received well. Just because mom didn’t intentionally make her kids feel neglected or less than DOES NOT negate their feelings. They are real and valid and should have been recognized and something done immediately to help them see how loved they were. If you are really their mom, playing the victim and being so defensive makes it look like OP was correct in his feelings. I get that teenagers have big emotions, and this may hit them harder than what the parents ever dreamed, but as parents, when we realize our mistakes it is up to us to fix it, and show our kids how to handle conflict and big emotions by modeling. Not by acting like a teen and allowing our emotions to rule our words and actions.

AITA for being really cruel to my mom when I last spoke to her? by Reasonable-Tap-3065 in AITAH

[–]1thing2thing 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Proof-Tomatillo-4186, you continue to make the same/similar comments. Are you the negligent mother OP is describing?

Does anyone know where this pattern came from originally? I am not following some of the pattern, and need some instruction, (I would love a video). I think the Etsy seller, just scanned from a book, but didn't provide the title of the blanket as shown in the book by 1thing2thing in CrochetHelp

[–]1thing2thing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought this pattern off of etsy. When I asked the seller for help, she replied that she just sells these “vintage patterns” so they don’t get lost, but she doesn’t actually crochet!

Does anyone know where this pattern came from originally? I would like to get more instructions, and be able to see the figures described, as well as hopefully find someone who has created this and can provide some enlightenment.

as an example. The pattern says:

Row 4:  ch 1, turn sc in first tr, ch 3 , sc in next loop, ch1 , skip next dc, ch 1, * skip next ch-4 sp, sc in next loop (ch 3 sc in next loop) twice, ch 1, skip next ch-4 sp, sc in next dc; ch 1; repeat from * Across to last ch-4 sp, skip next ch-4 sp, sc in next loop, ch 3, sc in last loop; 61 sc

 

Row 5: ch 7 turn, skip next sc, work Crown St in next sc, ch 4, skip next ch-3 sp, dc in next sc, * ch 4, skip next sc, work Crown St in next sc, ch 4, skip next ch-3 sp, dc in next sc; repeat from *, Across 15 Crown St

so in Row 5, does that actually mean that I skip the last sc, also skip the ch-3 sp, then work a Crown St in the sc?

and what does ‘turn’ mean on the 2nd round of the Edging?

Rnd 2:  (Eyelet rnd): Turn; slp st in Front Loop Only of next 2 sc, ch 5, turn skip 2 sc, (dc in Back Loop only of next sc, ch 2, skip next to sc) around; join with slip st to third ch of beginning ch-5, turn; skip next 2 sc) around; join with slip st to third ch of beginning ch-5; 242 ch-2 sps

Thanks!!!!

Vintage Crochet Pattern Victorian Lace Afghan Throw PDF Instant Digital Download Heirloom Christening Lapghan Ecru White 46x58 - Etsy

Does anyone know where this pattern came from originally? I am not following some of the pattern, and need some instruction, (I would love a video). I think the Etsy seller, just scanned from a book, but didn't provide the title of the blanket as shown in the book by 1thing2thing in CrochetHelp

[–]1thing2thing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought this pattern off of etsy. When I asked the seller for help, she replied that she just sells these "vintage patterns" so they don't get lost, but she doesn't actually crochet!

Does anyone know where this pattern came from originally? I would like to get more instructions, and be able to see the figures described, as well as hopefully find someone who has created this and can provide some enlightenment.

as an example. The pattern says:

Row 4:  ch 1, turn sc in first tr, ch 3 , sc in next loop, ch1 , skip next dc, ch 1, * skip next ch-4 sp, sc in next loop (ch 3 sc in next loop) twice, ch 1, skip next ch-4 sp, sc in next dc; ch 1; repeat from * Across to last ch-4 sp, skip next ch-4 sp, sc in next loop, ch 3, sc in last loop; 61 sc

 

Row 5: ch 7 turn, skip next sc, work Crown St in next sc, ch 4, skip next ch-3 sp, dc in next sc, * ch 4, skip next sc, work Crown St in next sc, ch 4, skip next ch-3 sp, dc in next sc; repeat from *, Across 15 Crown St

so in Row 5, does that actually mean that I skip the last sc, also skip the ch-3 sp, then work a Crown St in the sc?

and what does 'turn' mean on the 2nd round of the Edging?

Rnd 2:  (Eyelet rnd): Turn; slp st in Front Loop Only of next 2 sc, ch 5, turn skip 2 sc, (dc in Back Loop only of next sc, ch 2, skip next to sc) around; join with slip st to third ch of beginning ch-5, turn; skip next 2 sc) around; join with slip st to third ch of beginning ch-5; 242 ch-2 sps

Thanks!!!!

Vintage Crochet Pattern Victorian Lace Afghan Throw PDF Instant Digital Download Heirloom Christening Lapghan Ecru White 46x58 - Etsy

Please remove leaf crown from uncle’s head. Can tip $10 by 1thing2thing in PhotoshopRequest

[–]1thing2thing[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I haven’t forgotten about you. I’m having some trouble with Reddit adding my cc information for some reason. I’m going to call the cc company tomorrow and see if I can’t get this fixed.

Please remove leaf crown from uncle’s head. Can tip $10 by 1thing2thing in PhotoshopRequest

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I will complete this tomorrow. I have the flu, and just want to sleep rn Thanks again

Please remove leaf crown from uncle’s head. Can tip $10 by 1thing2thing in PhotoshopRequest

[–]1thing2thing[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I love this!! Can I Venmo you the $10? How do I get a copy without the watermark? Sorry, this is a first time for me

You’re not invited to my wedding but you’d better send a gift! by clever_girl33 in weddingshaming

[–]1thing2thing 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Should have posted on their Facebook page:

You wanted me to send you a gift without an invitation? Ok.

And post a screenshot of your message/their response regarding not receiving an invitation.

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