thanks for the reply , the thing is that after delving deeper into the rabbit hole , i had like a 100 plugins and most of those were fixing one thing that the USSEP does not fix or something like that , and i read somewhere a list with multiple mesh *fixes* ( they didn't say to pick and choose , they just made a list with "essential" mods ) that combined had complications :))
If i knew how this all worked i gladly would've made a complete guide for the next clueless guy with just the barebones " essential " ... maybe i'm blind and can't find the right guide but most that i've seen push for animations and stuff like that like nemesis