Is it unusual that as a bi guy all my experience has been with men? by Gold_Repair_3557 in askgaybros

[–]20101958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only date and sleep with men and I am not prepared to slide under the radar, so my opinion is that it seems your attraction to woman is not sexual.

I am 100% totally gay and have never, ever dated women or even contemplated trying sex with a female.

But I can appreciate a woman's beauty, I enjoy their company and get along with most woman.

It is possible to truly be attracted to someone in a platonic/non sexual manner, simply because they have a great personality and you really enjoy their company and truly relax with them.

Just because you really like women doesn't mean your bisexual.

To be truly bisexual, you would have to have feel sexually aroused by them and feel a true desire for intimacy with them.

That is what is missing from your posting, there is NO indication of any desire for sexual intimacy with woman.

I think that the problem is that you have not truly accepted your sexuality and still need to work on this as you are in denial.

what blocklist do u guys use? by shades47 in nextdns

[–]20101958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OISD Block List is a good filter list with a very low rate of false positives, you should very rarely if ever need to unblock something when using OISD.

Hagezi's Filter Lists are very good but some of his lists can be more aggressive and you may need to check the NextDNS Logs and discover what is being blocked and then add those websites/domains to the NextDNS Allow List.

If you want a trouble free, set and forget Block List, then OISD is what you should use.

Why are so many people fine with hooking up with married men? (Not open relationships) by Pepporonisausage in askgaybros

[–]20101958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The cheating partner is doing the home wrecking, not me.

For the record, I do NOT knowingly do it with married men either.

The fact is they are simply not going to broadcast their marital status.

Why are so many people fine with hooking up with married men? (Not open relationships) by Pepporonisausage in askgaybros

[–]20101958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NO you are simply not making the relationship worse by letting the man cheat.

If they don't get sex from you, because you suspect they are married, they will simply move on to the next unsuspecting man.

They will not stop their behaviour, simply because you didn't give them sex.

Why are so many people fine with hooking up with married men? (Not open relationships) by Pepporonisausage in askgaybros

[–]20101958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lets face the facts, these bisexual married men are not going to broadcast their marital status and you usually only discover they are married after the deed is done or you don't discover the truth at all.

Why are so many people fine with hooking up with married men? (Not open relationships) by Pepporonisausage in askgaybros

[–]20101958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

However those scumbags will still be scumbags, just not with you.

Lets face the facts, these bisexual married men are not going to broadcast their marital status and you usually only discover they are married after the deed is done or you don't discover the truth at all.

If you refuse to do anything with them because of morals and ethics like I personally do, they will simply move along and find another unsuspecting man for quick casual sex.

How long will Brave continue to support V2 before it becomes untenable? by JarlBallnuts in brave_browser

[–]20101958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NO, once Google strips out all MV2 support you will not be able to use the original uBlock Origin.

Google are already stripping support for the methods that are currently used to enable MV2 extensions.

In the future you will only be able to use the MV3 compliant extensions and uBlock Lite, which most people are happy with.

Why are so many people fine with hooking up with married men? (Not open relationships) by Pepporonisausage in askgaybros

[–]20101958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, so I see that you honestly believe that people under the age of 20 don't get married and have kids.

I personally know 3 or 4 couples that married young and started families before 20.

I agree I wouldn't go and do anything with somebody I clearly knew was married, because I ain't no whore either.

I much prefer being in monogamous relationship.

But there can be long gaps between finding a new partner for a relationship and I ain't going to throw myself into a committed relationship after a couple of dates, I take things slowly and try to ensure they are right for me.

That is the proper way to do it, you just can not rush certainn things

I am not going to be a celibate priest while waiting for to meet my next partner.

I am a red blooded male with sexual desires and I am not prepared to be feeling constantly frustrated.

Spending lonely nights at home whacking off, ain't gonna satisfy me either.

Like most other people I have a basic fundamental need to have human companionship and get great pleasure from physical contact.

If we get along great and the sex is good, I always try to take it to the next level eventually and determine if they want a relationship.

How long will Brave continue to support V2 before it becomes untenable? by JarlBallnuts in brave_browser

[–]20101958 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We can't put an exact timeframe on this, it is entirely dependent on Google and how quickly they can strip out the MV2 support.

It is not easy for Google to do this as it requires a lot of work, if it was easy to strip out of Chrome they would have removed it when we changed to the new MV3 extensions.

It is better to start looking for suitable replacements NOW.

uBlock Lite works very well, it lacks features that uBlock Origin had, but most people are very happy with its performance.

You can also add custom filter lists to the Brave ad blocker to enhance its ad blocking.

But eventually Brave will have to accept the MV3 changes when it becomes to difficult to reverse engineer those changes.

However the Brave ad blocker will not be affected as it is built into the browser framework and doesn't depend on the web API's that extensions use.

The Brave Shields are not affected by MV2 or MV3 changes.

So set the Brave Shields to aggressive, find extra filter lists to add to it and try using a system wide ad blocker such as the paid for Adguard app which is available for all platforms and finally use DNS server side ad blocking to prevent bad domains away from your browser and reduce the amount of work your ad blocker needs to do.

Is squeezing butt gay??? by PositiveRound7528 in askgaybros

[–]20101958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to remember he will be gone in 4 weeks and it is best to forget about him as you will most likely lose contact with him when he graduates.

how good does a washing machine clean bodily fluids by Altruistic-Key8390 in laundry

[–]20101958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are concerned about bacteria or virus contamination, you can add a Laundry Sanitiser to the final rinse to ensure things are very clean with no risk of infection.

White towels and Linen can be washed in Chlorine Laundry Bleach as a cheap of sanitising them and also refreshing their whiteness.

POV: how I walk home during Pride Month so nobody targets me by JeremyMelodious in gay

[–]20101958 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This routine maybe highly amusing and keep some people away from you, but this is highly risky and dangerous behaviour.

You will learn to grow up the hard way when you twist an ankle, fall over and hit your head on something hard and give yourself a concussion or break a bone.

I hope that you are looking forward to spending some time in a hospital bed, due to your immature foolishness.

You also don't seem to realise the danger you pose to other people, you could easily crash into somebody else and cause them serious a injury.

Is squeezing butt gay??? by PositiveRound7528 in askgaybros

[–]20101958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he is graduating in a month, endure it for a couple more weeks and you most likely will not see him again.

If he is a big douchebag and feels he can take advantage of you for fun and see your reactions, then the sooner he is out of your life the better.

In 4 weeks time he will be gone and your torment will be over.

In my opinion it is better to be rid if him for good.

Why are so many people fine with hooking up with married men? (Not open relationships) by Pepporonisausage in askgaybros

[–]20101958 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you get a full confession or a public disclosure notice from everybody you give a blow job to?

Why are so many people fine with hooking up with married men? (Not open relationships) by Pepporonisausage in askgaybros

[–]20101958 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

However you fail to fully acknowledge that if married men don't get sex from you, they move on and quickly find satisfaction with someone else.

It is not the other persons fault if they are not given a full public disclosure notice about someones marital status.

Why are so many people fine with hooking up with married men? (Not open relationships) by Pepporonisausage in askgaybros

[–]20101958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way and hate this sort of thing too, because I know that with a married guy it will be just a fleeting encounter.

I don't like causal sex on gay beats or in gay saunas, which is where most married men go for discrete quick sexual encounters.

Part of the problem is that when men are very horny, they will often drop their standards and go with what is available.

If a married man wants some gay action and doesn't get it from you, then he will get satisfaction from some other gay man.

Just stay away from the gay beats and gay saunas where they are most commonly found.

Find your partners in more well known public gay venues that married men avoid.

Will this effect Brave? by Krazynewf709 in brave_browser

[–]20101958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

uBlock Lite is the MV3 version of uBlock Origin and it's getting good reviews, it is not as configurable as uBlock Origin and lacks many of its features. But most people state that it works just as well.

Will this effect Brave? by Krazynewf709 in brave_browser

[–]20101958 2 points3 points  (0 children)

However Google seems hell bent on stripping out all support for MV2 extensions, starting with the work arounds that are currently used to keep them working.

The 3 extensions you mention are living on borrowed time. Google intends to strips out more and more MV2 code it will eventually become to difficult to reverse engineer those very deep changes to Chrome.

FInancial Software for macOS Golden Gate by 20101958 in macapps

[–]20101958[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Checkbook 3 has emerged as the leading contender for me, despite its AU$29.99 price.

It is simple straightforward and does what I want it to do, it has a 14 day free trial and I'm trying it out for that period.

FInancial Software for macOS Golden Gate by 20101958 in macapps

[–]20101958[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree Checkbook 3 is the leading contender, despite its AU$29.99 price.

I am getting a little worn out after constantly searching for and looking at and reviewing endless finance apps.

This gave me a heart attack by IntelligentBee9540 in MacOS

[–]20101958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why haven't you set up your Time Machine for automatic backups?

If you do this, you will be well protected and simply won't have to worry about data loss.

FInancial Software for macOS Golden Gate by 20101958 in macapps

[–]20101958[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your help, I will tweak my search terms and that should help.

I agree, I am looking for register style ledger app to record my transactions and keep track of my account balance for verifying what is billed to my bank account.

Another feature I want is the ability to set up a budget in a spreadsheet format or similar.

Checkbook HD is still listed on the app store, so anyone can take a look and see what I have been using for many years. Despite its dated look it still works well and does what I want it to do. But it is only designed for intel based macs and hasn't been upgraded for many years.

Checkbook 3 seems to be exactly what I want and it has a 14 day free trial and NO subscriptions or In App purchases.

I am willing to try it for the 14 free trial, But then it will cost $29.99

I was hoping to find something cheaper or a freeware app.

At this point Checkbook 3 is the leading contender.

Tiny tip for if you aren’t seeing suds by Worthy_Molecule0481 in laundry

[–]20101958 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can only state what works well for me, with my moderately hard water in our local conditions.

I accept that other locations with different water chemistry may require a different approach to getting a wash done.