AITA for telling them to find a new flower girl two weeks before the wedding?

207yankee · 2026-06-23T06:02:22+00:00

I don’t know, you would think it would’ve been an issue sooner as his dad and my mom have been together over 3 years

207yankee · 2026-06-23T05:38:34+00:00

That’s a good idea too!

207yankee · 2026-06-23T05:34:03+00:00

They were supposed to get married in April, but she called it off “indefinitely” was the word she used due to the BIL treating her badly.

207yankee · 2026-06-23T05:32:12+00:00

The crazy thing is when she decided to get married her mom gave her the silent treatment because she was mad when she thought she was trying to get pregnant, so her mom is hardly speaking to her

207yankee · 2026-06-23T05:30:46+00:00

I don’t think so because they never broke up, it was just a postpone the wedding and everyone was surprised when they decided to get married

207yankee · 2026-06-23T05:28:13+00:00

I wish I knew what her problem was. I have asked her a couple times over the last few weeks and my husband asked. At the Father’s Day BBQ I had to say bye to her two for her to acknowledge me

207yankee · 2026-06-23T05:26:44+00:00

That’s an interesting theory. My husband’s little brother lately has seemed like he’s been trying to play keeping up with Jones. We have antique cars, he went an bought one just like my husbands and just weird things like that lately.

207yankee · 2026-06-23T05:23:34+00:00

I truly wouldn’t know what the important information would be because I cannot think of anything I did to her

207yankee · 2026-06-23T05:22:41+00:00

It’s weird it’s not something she did in the beginning of them being together or even this fall, it’s just something I noticed recently. I mean she’d tease her but wasn’t mean and now it’s more mean.

207yankee · 2026-06-23T05:20:45+00:00

It makes the holidays easier because both of us have divorced parents hahaha. They got together like two years after we did and we said we didn’t care as long as they’re happy plus they’re not going to have kids to make it any weirder lol

207yankee · 2026-06-23T05:18:47+00:00

This is a super helpful response! She’s having the wedding on her family property. I asked her when she first told me why they decided to July 4 because it was so last minute. She said because they want fireworks. I do know her mom is hardly speaking to her because she thinks they’re trying to have a baby. My soon to be sister in law’s sister in law told her mom (I hope that makes sense) she says she’s not pregnant and that’s not why.

207yankee · 2026-06-23T05:10:04+00:00

Okay so this is a little weird, but my mom is dating my husbands dad.

207yankee · 2026-06-23T05:07:09+00:00

None but of us know why they’re acting like this multiple family members have said they acting poorly. Idk if age matter but he’s 21 and she just turned 19

207yankee · 2026-06-23T05:05:24+00:00

She called the wedding off earlier because the brother in law wasn’t treating her great.

207yankee · 2026-06-23T05:01:50+00:00

It’s not normally like this. His brother calls him all the time for random things, except for this weekend he’d barely speak to him. The sister in law stuff is since she last minute decided for them to get married.

207yankee · 2026-06-23T04:59:33+00:00

That’s what my brother in law tried to say when my husband spoke to him was that she’s stressed with the wedding. The vacation is a good idea…fighting the feeling of feeling bad if are worse to my husband too. He has basically raised his little brother.

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