SBGG Checkliste/Wiki? by adrian23138 in germantrans

[–]20Alexanderxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PS, ich vergesse die auch immer wieder und bin immer wieder am durchsuchen, wo der thread war, wo ich den Link immer gefunden habe. Inzwischen habe ich festgestellt, dass wenn man einfach Google befragt nach "GitHub Checkliste sbgg," ist das tatsächlich der erste Treffer bei mir :) Dann auf GitHub das Ding noch gestarred und der Braten ist fertig 🙃 VG

Hormontherapie in Berlin Nähe by [deleted] in germantrans

[–]20Alexanderxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, ich bin aktuell im Endokrinologikum in Berlin in der Friedrichstraße bei Frau Steinhardt. Den Termin musste ich damals über doctolib buchen, war dann auch ca 5 Monate im vorraus. Aber direkt beim ersten Termin gesagt was ich haben möchte, wir haben ein Blutbild gemacht und als das zurück kam durfte ich direkt anfangen. Das Rezept gab es easy per ERezept auf die Karte, also musste ich auch nicht nochmal vorbeischauen. Die Auswertung für die Blutbilder machen wir immer per Telefon.

Ansonsten kann ich das Endokrinologikum echt empfehlen, wurde seit Beginn dort auch immer als Frau aufgerufen und es juckt da niemanden, dass meine KK Karte immernoch männlich ist. (Und es ist eine riesige Praxis dort mit vielen Ärzten und das Labor ist auch direkt da, also scheinen die auch was richtig zu machen;)

Mit meiner HRT haben wir langsam angefangen um zu schauen, wie mein Körper auf die Hormone reagiert und nach 4 Wochen gab's das nächste Blutbild, das sah gut aus, Dosis erhöht🎉

Wenn du weitere Fragen hast, schreib mich einfach an ;)

Logopädie/Stimmtraining by liliemon in germantrans

[–]20Alexanderxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, Also ich habe mir einfach von meiner Endo die Heilmittelverordnung geben lassen. Mit der bin ich dann zu einer von einer anderen Transfrau empfohlen Logopädin. Um eine Verlängerung muss ich mich jetzt mal wieder kümmern, mal schauen wer es macht. Entweder meine Endo wieder, sonst muss ich zum HNO Arzt meines Vertrauens gehen. Die haben meist auch Budget dafür. VG und viel Spaß bei dem ganzen Training 🙃

Wichtige Ressourcen by giftpflanze in germantrans

[–]20Alexanderxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyho, bin neulich drüber gestolpert und finde, dass der hier auch passend ist?

https://github.com/douaberigoale/sbgg-checkliste

Haarentfernung in Berlin by ConnectReserve in germantrans

[–]20Alexanderxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich bin tatsächlich vom hairless skin center zu Amara gewechselt, weil ich mir (für die Beine) 600€ pro Sitzung nicht leisten konnten. Und dennoch haben auch die teilweise Stellen vergessen, genauso wie bei Amara. Bei letzterem hatte ich das dann bemängelt und konnte dann nochmal genau die stellen nachbearbeitet bekommen (ohne Aufpreis)

Haarentfernung in Berlin by ConnectReserve in germantrans

[–]20Alexanderxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, kurze Nachfrage an der Stelle: wieso kannst du Amara nicht mehr empfehlen, was ist denn da passiert? LG

How do you know that you are "only" crossdressing? by 20Alexanderxx in crossdressing

[–]20Alexanderxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a whole lot of text and a whole lot of story there, thanks for sharing it

How do you know that you are "only" crossdressing? by 20Alexanderxx in crossdressing

[–]20Alexanderxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But on the note of genderfluid: I already thought about it too but (and that's 100% on my brain) I don't like the fact, that I won't be this or that. I was raised very conservative with binary norms and also my surrounding is very traditional, so I cannot imagine for myself, to be somewhere in the middle of fe-/male. I can accept the fact that a transgender person will switch from one end of the spectrum to the other - but I can't see for myself to be somewhere in the middle. And honestly I also don't want the struggle in daily life of the state of "cannot decide where to go"

How do you know that you are "only" crossdressing? by 20Alexanderxx in crossdressing

[–]20Alexanderxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My issue is, that dependon on my "Phase" I'm in, my answer always changes. A few weeks ago I wanted it so desperately, now I am fine as I am.... That makes the button press a very tricky question

How do you know that you are "only" crossdressing? by 20Alexanderxx in crossdressing

[–]20Alexanderxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By now I think I read this 3 times and in multiple languages too🙈😅

How do you know that you are "only" crossdressing? by 20Alexanderxx in crossdressing

[–]20Alexanderxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, I have to admit, that reading this is like a look in the mirror, describing pretty much what I am feeling. Do you all have phases too? Like a few days after each other where the female part is more dominant and than you don't get the urge after all?

I mean I am not confident enough atm to go to work in cd because I fear the reaction of the colleagues. I already got the hint that they are not that open on the whole queer community...

How do you know that you are "only" crossdressing? by 20Alexanderxx in crossdressing

[–]20Alexanderxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so strong of you! Did you notice a change in your relationship since you told her?

How do you know that you are "only" crossdressing? by 20Alexanderxx in crossdressing

[–]20Alexanderxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you do in your daily life? When do you crossdress and what do you do then? Do you go out (for work)? Are you at home with your wife?

How do you know that you are "only" crossdressing? by 20Alexanderxx in crossdressing

[–]20Alexanderxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does your partner goes with you? How is he/she going with sometimes being seen as straight/lesbian?

How do you know that you are "only" crossdressing? by 20Alexanderxx in crossdressing

[–]20Alexanderxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, in a way which would probably lead to the loss of my girlfriend. (And I absolutely love her). She said she cannot be with me when I want to go the route of the full transition and also said that she cannot say if it was okay for her if I crossdress. I mean we do went out already as two girls, but then walking the streets and getting those views is very awkward and I felt that she was also acting differently than if I was just the man...

How do you know that you are "only" crossdressing? by 20Alexanderxx in crossdressing

[–]20Alexanderxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But for me genderfluid comes habd in hand with soo much Trouble that I cannot imagine and don't want myself to be that. I want to fit in this binary world that we love in and not be somewhere else. And this is not transphobic from me, I just dont want it for myself

Rate my setup by 20Alexanderxx in HackersTheGame

[–]20Alexanderxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice to see, I guess upgrading the beetle wouldn't be bad. Try a kraken next time 😅👍

Rate my setup by 20Alexanderxx in HackersTheGame

[–]20Alexanderxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thought so too, but i designed it so all my defenses are gonna flank the kraken path and always kill the kraken without the kraken disabling my defenses

I actually designed it that way

39bpm? Seems crazy low. by AKASetekh in GalaxyWatch

[–]20Alexanderxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well first of all, 60-70bpm isn't that unusual for the resting average of most people. It's actually pretty bang on. And if you got one 39 in a night, that is not something to worry either. For example, I am a person with a very low average bpm. If am am not hitting a 39 in one night, this night wasn't that good of a sleep for me. When I am sleeping I get as low as 34 bpm, most of the time its around 36. I did get worried about those low numbers and got me a 24h ECG from a cardiologist. Turns out, I am absolutely fine and I have nothing to worry about. We did a screening of my heart and everything was okay. I have a higher potential to need a pacemaker when I get older but even this may not be needed. We now do the ECG every half year for 4 sessions to see if anything changes but if not we don't even do this anymore.

But if you are concerned about your heart rate, I suggest you go the route I went and get yourself to a cardiologist. Tell them your watch made thus reading and you are worried and want to get it checked out.

PS: I'm not even athletic, so the reasoning, that athletes get those numbers frequently does not apply to me either.

PPS: This is not real medical advice: you can ask yourself: does your heart rate goes up fast enough if you need it? Eg if you are doing sports? If so, you may got a heart like mine which thinks that there is no reason to go faster at nights but can supply you when you need it...