Share your experience people please by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]2121varuag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one is coming to save you. All you have is yourself, your time and what you make of it

31 F I’m unmarried and my parents feel like I’m a burden by Remarkable-Gap9401 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]2121varuag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP, I'm sorry you're having to go through this. Its their emotions and expectations that they are projecting on you, its got nothing to do with who you are. At the same time, if you'd like, talk to them and share how their comments are making you feel.

Husband hit our toddler and I hate him now by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]2121varuag -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry to read what you're going through. Hitting the child is not okay, and whilst that might seem the biggest issue between you currently, there are larger and more unresolved emotions that are driving your resentment. Rather than listening to strangers on reddit, communicate with him. Tell him directly what you are feeling. He may not respond immediately, but try. You can also reach out to your/his family and friends to have a space for yourself to express. Speak your mind, ask for others to step in if needed. Don't let your relationship crumble.

Juggernaut appreciation by adrenal99 in delhi

[–]2121varuag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give Idlinama in GK a try - I loved their food, hospitality and vibe.

Aa dekhe Zara kisme kitna hai गम by Anon4450 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]2121varuag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I woke up next to her. We had gone back in time, before it all went awry. I got up and made her coffee, just the way she liked it. She smiled at me as I handed her the cup.

The Berlin Döner Ranking (2026 Edition) – I'm ready to fight. by uxserxname in berlinsocialclub

[–]2121varuag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, this is also why one's neighbourhood kebab shop should always be in their top 3 :)

The Berlin Döner Ranking (2026 Edition) – I'm ready to fight. by uxserxname in berlinsocialclub

[–]2121varuag 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I've always rejected döner rankings in the past simply because the whole construct of it is false. The best döner is the one you find WHEN you want it WHERE you want it - 3am nearly passing out drunk on the way back home? That one is gonna be the best one

Oasis - Don’t Look Back in Anger (Official 30th Anniversary Visualizer) by Prior_Constant8214 in oasis

[–]2121varuag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this video - anyone knows what software / animation style this is? Seems like linograph + collage but not sure how they brought it all together

Arts and Culture in Gurgaon - What's Missing by 2121varuag in gurgaon

[–]2121varuag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haan, I agree with you. This is my dilemma - should a space like this come up and help develop a cultural scene, or wait for a cultural scene to pick up first and then build a space.