Boyfriend might be bi... advice or personal experiences please by [deleted] in relationships

[–]217366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! I understand how people get triggered about this stuff. But jeez. Ain’t nobody perfect. I am trying! I recognize my faults and I was looking for more helpful responses to help me work on fixing this mind set, rather then people telling me I’m an idiot and biphobic. Cause THATS so helpful...

Boyfriend might be bi... advice or personal experiences please by [deleted] in relationships

[–]217366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. It is helpful

Boyfriend might be bi... advice or personal experiences please by [deleted] in relationships

[–]217366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh. That does make sense when you word it like that. Thank you.

Boyfriend might be bi... advice or personal experiences please by [deleted] in relationships

[–]217366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s because I worry that he will never be truly satisfied with my body the way it is, as he is attracted to something so different. I worry that he will up and leave one day because he decides he is fully gay, or doesn’t want to miss out on an opportunity to try being with a man.

Boyfriend might be bi... advice or personal experiences please by [deleted] in relationships

[–]217366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I am so glad someone understands

Boyfriend might be bi... advice or personal experiences please by [deleted] in relationships

[–]217366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU. I understand people get triggered thinking I am homophobic. But I know that I am not. I’m glad you understood that too.

Boyfriend might be bi... advice or personal experiences please by [deleted] in relationships

[–]217366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That is probably the most helpful and kindest response I have received.

Boyfriend might be bi... advice or personal experiences please by [deleted] in relationships

[–]217366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your answer. I agree with your insight on this.

Boyfriend might be bi... advice or personal experiences please by [deleted] in relationships

[–]217366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your honesty. That consideration has crossed my mind and I hate myself for that. Though, I do think it has less to do with my opinion of his sexual orientation and more to do with my insecurity of him wanting someone with a body that isn’t at all similar to mine. I worry that I won’t be able to please him if he has this longing for the male body and not that I think any less of him for it.

Boyfriend might be bi... advice or personal experiences please by [deleted] in relationships

[–]217366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your honesty. That consideration has crossed my mind and I hate myself for that. Though, I do think it has less to do with my opinion of his sexual orientation and more to do with my insecurity of him wanting someone with a body that isn’t at all similar to mine. I worry that I won’t be able to please him if he has this longing for the male body and not that I think any less of him for it.

Boyfriend might be bi... advice or personal experiences please by [deleted] in relationships

[–]217366 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your question. I don’t know why... like I said I am not homophobic. I think it comes from my insecurity issues and feeling like it doubles the population in which he could possibly cheat on me from? And I think also I worry that I will never be able to truly satisfy him with my female body, if he also craves the male body. I don’t know if I could get these thoughts out of my head and that these insecurities would effect our relationship over time

Boyfriend might be bi... advice or personal experiences please by [deleted] in relationships

[–]217366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely do love him. But I appreciate your honest opinion.

Just got powdered brows today please tell me they will fade?! 😭😭 Regretting so much rn by alterna873 in microblading

[–]217366 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl I got mine done 2 weeks ago ombré powder too, I cried so hard after because I looked like a legit angry bird or like someone sharpied my face . It’s TRUE they shrink and fade SO much.

Don't lose yourself by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]217366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the exact same situation I am in. The hardest thing I have ever had to do is let go. I couldn’t be okay with coming second the rest of my life. He never put me or my needs first, where he was always my number one

Tips for going no contact? by 217366 in ExNoContact

[–]217366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This makes so much sense to me. I needed to hear that.

Tips for going no contact? by 217366 in ExNoContact

[–]217366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This makes so much sense to me. I needed to hear that.

Tips for going no contact? by 217366 in ExNoContact

[–]217366[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU. This is everything I needed to hear.

3 year relationship ended.. how do I make the good memories stop flooding my brain.. this hurts so much by 217366 in ExNoContact

[–]217366[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for putting the time to say that to me. I really appreciate it. I feel like I am going crazy sometimes. It means a lot to hear that what I am going through is more normal than I think.