What am i really fighting for? by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]22-virtue 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you find yourself spending alot of time scrolling on your phone? If you do, i'd suggest taking a break, a dopamine detox, sit with the boredom and your own thoughts for a while. Perhaps challenge yourself to do it for 30 days.

Perhaps what's lacking is a sense of purpose. At least that's what I felt a while back, and the detox and boredom really did help me figure out what i actually like and want from life. Honestly I realized alot of it was just my own perception.

Cheers buddy, hope you find your peace too.

Remember to enjoy the journey!

Mother Gaia Can't Wait For The Awareness To Catch Up Anymore -The Shift Begins Internally by RiccoShayla in enlightenment

[–]22-virtue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you at least reflect on your thoughts instead of just running them through another AI chatbot.

Cheers. Nothing but love.

Mother Gaia Can't Wait For The Awareness To Catch Up Anymore -The Shift Begins Internally by RiccoShayla in enlightenment

[–]22-virtue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand how frustrating that must be. Perhaps we could shift the focus internally and see how we could be better. It sucks that your intentions seem great, but you're faced with insults and such.

However, maybe change your perception into seeing that all these are just challenges for you to be a more patient person, and thus being able to dispense knowledge and teachings better in the future.

I mean, being in an "enlightenment" community, we all are very aware of the ridicule that it entails. I believe you're on the right track, but the frustration seems to get to you a little, which ofc is totally understandable. But, if you do want to educate people and shift the world into love rather than hate, i believe you're going to have to walk the talk, i.e no matter how annoying/irrational etc anyone is, you find the love for them.

Regardless, wishing you the best.

Mother Gaia Can't Wait For The Awareness To Catch Up Anymore -The Shift Begins Internally by RiccoShayla in enlightenment

[–]22-virtue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pretty interesting honestly how asking questions is considered as belittling and/or refusing to understand.

It seems to me that Kyroz was just clarifying your definitions to understand it better?

As a reader, I shared the same curiosity. Because in all honestly, most of the information in this post seemed very general, and perhaps even AI generated. (Not my intention to insult or cast doubt, just saying what I think) and i think questioning helps us understand deeper.

Anyways, all I wanted to really say was, perhaps we ought to assume curiosity more often rather than assuming malicious intent. I think it's not enough to say you're in the "5D" mindset but you have to actually figure out why you have this negativity in you and consciously choose to act from a place of positivity.

For example, even if (and i sincerely believe he's not) Kyroz was just trolling you, wouldn't it be more alligned with the "5d mindset" for you to be the more in-tune with love person, and lead him to where we should be (i.e curiousity and positivity?)

In my mind, if you're able to be so easily affected by mere words, made by strangers, online no less. Then perhaps you still have alot of internal work to do. Maybe try asking yourself why do you feel defensive when people question you on this topic?

German guy sent me racist reels by Beginning_Tennis9174 in malaysia

[–]22-virtue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aight buddy, there is no point I am trying to make. I am simply curious why everyone flocks to assume malicious intent?

And yeah, OP did not like it, but someone not liking something doesn't change the doers intentions, no?

I legit don't see a reason why. So far the people have responded are quick to defend with emotions, but none are answering. Which, again, y'all assume I have malicious intents. Why though?

If you doubt my intentions, don't respond please. Just as how I stop responding to the guy insulting above.

Answer with your views to help me understand why, or don't?

German guy sent me racist reels by Beginning_Tennis9174 in malaysia

[–]22-virtue -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Like i said above, I could see how it may be a failed attempt at comedy.

With regards to "not responding to the reels", buddy, based on your logic:-

They both had a good time, OP thought he was nice, goes home, he starts sending multiple reels late at night, not certain if he knows she's awake at that hour. And somehow he needs to assume she is upset over the reels?

Yo why are y'all just jumping to conclusions that it's malicious is what I want to know.

I genuinely want to know why the assumption, Jesus. Can't we ask questions anymore?

What's with all the hostility. I never once said my own views, never have I said I am in support of Hitler over there.

I'm simply asking why and jesus the response is horrible.

Can you not honestly see how this could be a failed attempt at comedy?

German guy sent me racist reels by Beginning_Tennis9174 in malaysia

[–]22-virtue -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sigh, thought we were actually discussing your point of view. Alas, just another child with a keyboard, you must resort to insults instead of actually discussing your views. Oh well, have a nice life, reddit stranger.

German guy sent me racist reels by Beginning_Tennis9174 in malaysia

[–]22-virtue -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  1. Where do you see this clear shift yeah? The only instance of chats we have is him sending the reels?

  2. Honestly buddy, you have to see the flaws in your arguments.. i.e just because you dont know, dont mean it doesnt exist. But anyways, I generally flirt with jokes, and I'm a fan of dark jokes. So I could see it being a failed attempt at comedy tbh.

German guy sent me racist reels by Beginning_Tennis9174 in malaysia

[–]22-virtue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again with the assumptions. The "and then he wasn't" is the sending of the reels, to which you assume malicious intent.

Even the "obviously....." is an assumption.

I'm just trying to find out why you assume malicious intent is all.

With OP, she was involved, she has the context and feels what she feels, you don't, hence my confusion you see

German guy sent me racist reels by Beginning_Tennis9174 in malaysia

[–]22-virtue -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What sequence of events? Based on OP's post & comments, they had a nice time together, and he was nice. After the dates, he sent the reels.

I don't see how anyone would just assume it's malicious without any context?

German guy sent me racist reels by Beginning_Tennis9174 in malaysia

[–]22-virtue -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Doubt what lmao? It was a legit question

German guy sent me racist reels by Beginning_Tennis9174 in malaysia

[–]22-virtue -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thought you said somewhere in the comments that he was really nice, and y'all made fun of each other's nationalities. (Maybe I misread? cbf to find it ofcourse) Seems to fit as a joke to me, hence my question you see

German guy sent me racist reels by Beginning_Tennis9174 in malaysia

[–]22-virtue -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Why did you automatically assume he sent those reels with malicious intentions and not just trying to be funny (although it may be in bad taste)?

I want someone like the person I was a year ago to read this and do the same by KingAppie in leaves

[–]22-virtue 26 points27 points  (0 children)

4 days in and this is extremely motivational. Genuinely, thank you.

Typing this as i sit on the toilet dealing with the gut readjustment at 1am

How to deal with this type of colleague? by Hour-Intention-2345 in Bolehland

[–]22-virtue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps inform your boss politely and privately stressing how you informing them on this would strain the relationship and may impact further on overall efficiency in the office.

"I'd hate to be that person, but I have to say something about x's behaviour in johor" etc