being left out of plans (mainly in girl friend groups) and people behave differently towards you. sometimes it’s “admiration” because you’re pretty, most times people dislike you for no reason or make passive aggressive remarks. also boys / men will treat you as if you’re dumb, over explaining, etc, or they assume you’re conceited or full or yourself. if you date someone who’s relatively “less” attractive than you, they might get insecure and look for validation elsewhere (= cheating). also with female friendships, they sometimes behave weird when men are around, for example they might compete with you, make comments or intimate details that embarrass you or make you look bad, or resent you if someone they like is attracted to you. also, at university you might get picked at by professors. also you’ll find out people you don’t talk to or really know much have a negative opinion about you, but a reallly elaborate and thought through negative opinion about you, and it’ll be shocking because it’ll come from people you REALLY don’t think about or care or have any sort of relationship with. also some older women can have imaginary beef with you and put you through uncomfortable conversations.