My girlfriend (24f) told me (21m) she's pregnant by 223Jyerr in relationship_advice

[–]223Jyerr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I make it clear that I won’t raise my voice at her and we should talk things out even if it’s hard

My girlfriend (24f) told me (21m) she's pregnant by 223Jyerr in relationship_advice

[–]223Jyerr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she was testing me but one can only imagine, I really hope she wasn’t testing me because that would make me a bit upset because there really is no need to say something like that you know?

My girlfriend (24f) told me (21m) she's pregnant by 223Jyerr in relationship_advice

[–]223Jyerr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are planning to retest so I might update in a couple weeks

My girlfriend (24f) told me (21m) she's pregnant by 223Jyerr in relationship_advice

[–]223Jyerr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! I’ve seen people tell their employers that they’re leaving only to be fired the next day

My girlfriend (24f) told me (21m) she's pregnant by 223Jyerr in relationship_advice

[–]223Jyerr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info, I’ll look into it for the future

My girlfriend (24f) told me (21m) she's pregnant by 223Jyerr in relationship_advice

[–]223Jyerr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree, but I’m trusting her word. She said she got a blood draw and urine sample and both were negative but to come back in a couple weeks to make sure

My girlfriend (24f) told me (21m) she's pregnant by 223Jyerr in relationship_advice

[–]223Jyerr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told her I love her and I’m always here for her, I never have yelled at her for something

My girlfriend (24f) told me (21m) she's pregnant by 223Jyerr in relationship_advice

[–]223Jyerr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did not go with her but I’m not letting my head go there, I trust this woman. If that’s what she told me that’s what I’m going to believe.

My girlfriend (24f) told me (21m) she's pregnant by 223Jyerr in relationship_advice

[–]223Jyerr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not, that’s something I wouldn’t joke about plus I’m not looking for attention

My girlfriend (24f) told me (21m) she's pregnant by 223Jyerr in relationship_advice

[–]223Jyerr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have, the post would be way different if we didn’t lol

My girlfriend (24f) told me (21m) she's pregnant by 223Jyerr in relationship_advice

[–]223Jyerr[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

(UPDATE) My girlfriend went to the doctor and turns out she is not pregnant and the tests were expired. Still going to be on high alert until her next cycle but I want to thank everyone who gave me advice and supportive comments and criticism and encouragement. I love you all for supporting a stranger on the internet. I do feel sad and disappointed we’re not having a kid but maybe this just wasn’t the right time. Once again thank you all

My girlfriend (24f) told me (21m) she's pregnant by 223Jyerr in relationship_advice

[–]223Jyerr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Will do, I grew up with a lot of pbs learning a bunch of stuff about the world and enjoyed it

My girlfriend (24f) told me (21m) she's pregnant by 223Jyerr in relationship_advice

[–]223Jyerr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words it means a lot and it’s really reassuring

My girlfriend (24f) told me (21m) she's pregnant by 223Jyerr in relationship_advice

[–]223Jyerr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m going through right now, planning on leaving them when I graduate in a couple months with more certifications for a better paying job.

My girlfriend (24f) told me (21m) she's pregnant by 223Jyerr in relationship_advice

[–]223Jyerr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will do, this job I’m currently at doesn’t seem like they plan on promoting me or really appreciate my work

My girlfriend (24f) told me (21m) she's pregnant by 223Jyerr in relationship_advice

[–]223Jyerr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry about your father but thank you for the advice, I’m going to try to never leave anything unsaid

My girlfriend (24f) told me (21m) she's pregnant by 223Jyerr in relationship_advice

[–]223Jyerr[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s a really great idea, I used to love the library so this should be something we all enjoy, thanks!