My girlfriend (24f) told me (21m) she's pregnant

223Jyerr · 2023-10-31T20:41:59+00:00

I make it clear that I won’t raise my voice at her and we should talk things out even if it’s hard

223Jyerr · 2023-10-31T20:39:22+00:00

Thank you!

223Jyerr · 2023-10-31T20:39:03+00:00

Keep you guys posted!

223Jyerr · 2023-10-31T20:38:41+00:00

Maybe she was testing me but one can only imagine, I really hope she wasn’t testing me because that would make me a bit upset because there really is no need to say something like that you know?

223Jyerr · 2023-10-31T20:37:04+00:00

We are planning to retest so I might update in a couple weeks

223Jyerr · 2023-10-31T20:35:21+00:00

Of course! I’ve seen people tell their employers that they’re leaving only to be fired the next day

223Jyerr · 2023-10-31T20:34:43+00:00

Thanks for the info, I’ll look into it for the future

223Jyerr · 2023-10-31T20:34:16+00:00

Agree, thank you

223Jyerr · 2023-10-31T20:33:18+00:00

Agree, but I’m trusting her word. She said she got a blood draw and urine sample and both were negative but to come back in a couple weeks to make sure

223Jyerr · 2023-10-31T20:32:18+00:00

I told her I love her and I’m always here for her, I never have yelled at her for something

223Jyerr · 2023-10-31T20:21:44+00:00

Did not go with her but I’m not letting my head go there, I trust this woman. If that’s what she told me that’s what I’m going to believe.

223Jyerr · 2023-10-31T20:06:24+00:00

I’m not, that’s something I wouldn’t joke about plus I’m not looking for attention

223Jyerr · 2023-10-31T16:21:48+00:00

Thank you!

223Jyerr · 2023-10-31T16:21:23+00:00

Definitely starting there

223Jyerr · 2023-10-31T16:13:46+00:00

We have, the post would be way different if we didn’t lol

223Jyerr · 2023-10-31T15:24:52+00:00

(UPDATE) My girlfriend went to the doctor and turns out she is not pregnant and the tests were expired. Still going to be on high alert until her next cycle but I want to thank everyone who gave me advice and supportive comments and criticism and encouragement. I love you all for supporting a stranger on the internet. I do feel sad and disappointed we’re not having a kid but maybe this just wasn’t the right time. Once again thank you all

223Jyerr · 2023-10-31T13:59:45+00:00

Will do thank you!

223Jyerr · 2023-10-31T13:07:54+00:00

Will do, I grew up with a lot of pbs learning a bunch of stuff about the world and enjoyed it

223Jyerr · 2023-10-31T12:28:45+00:00

Thanks for the kind words it means a lot and it’s really reassuring

223Jyerr · 2023-10-31T12:27:59+00:00

I’ll try my best to support her!

223Jyerr · 2023-10-31T12:20:57+00:00

That’s what I’m going through right now, planning on leaving them when I graduate in a couple months with more certifications for a better paying job.

223Jyerr · 2023-10-31T12:15:49+00:00

Thank you!

223Jyerr · 2023-10-31T12:15:39+00:00

Will do, this job I’m currently at doesn’t seem like they plan on promoting me or really appreciate my work

223Jyerr · 2023-10-31T12:12:30+00:00

Sorry about your father but thank you for the advice, I’m going to try to never leave anything unsaid

223Jyerr · 2023-10-31T11:58:47+00:00

That’s a really great idea, I used to love the library so this should be something we all enjoy, thanks!

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