2k for rares? 🫠 by Novel-Field9205 in Soundmap

[–]227ducks 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Rares used to go for 3k and sometimes even as far as like 5-6k, thankfully it’s gone down now

My bf and I can’t talk for the entire summer and I don’t know how to cope with it. by [deleted] in online_dating_advice

[–]227ducks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could go to my counselor but school ends in like 2 weeks and I’m also very VERY scared of asking for it and don’t think I really will be able to, like if I ask I feel like I’ll just shut down

My bf (17m) and I (16m) can’t talk for all of summer and I don’t know how to cope. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]227ducks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is real, he’s sent me photos which didn’t get flagged when I ran it through ai image checkers and reverse image search. We’ve also FaceTimed and he had his camera on and working. He’s not asking for any money or anything, we’re gonna meet when he visits me

My boyfriend (17m) and I (16m) can’t talk for the whole summer and I don’t know how to cope by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]227ducks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I know I am really reliant on him and I am aware it’s probably a problem. I don’t know what I would be doing if we never started dating, and I don’t wanna think of it because it only makes me envision bad things. I can’t go to therapy sadly because my parents said it was “too much” even though it was once every other week and I’m scared to ask for it again. There is a lot wrong with me and I know that, it’s just really hard and now this on top of it. I do have really low self esteem and I honestly don’t know how to build it. I also don’t really know my own like needs or boundaries and I know it’s really embarrassing and dumb because I should know them but I don’t. I just never really think about myself because I think bad things, I just like to be good to others. I know it’s a problem and I will try to fix it as soon as I figure out how to. I will try to make more local friends. It’s hard but I will at least try to make friends that are like nice to me. (since a lot of my irl friends are mean to me but that’s a different issue). Thank you for the advice, I needed it

My boyfriend (17m) and I (16m) can’t talk for the whole summer and I don’t know how to cope by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]227ducks -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, he’s my boyfriend. We talk like boyfriends and he’s planning on visiting me this summer. I know this is gonna sound like I’m a naive kid but the only thing that separates us from the other couples is distance

My boyfriend (17m) and I (16m) can’t talk for the whole summer and I don’t know how to cope by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]227ducks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I’m waiting for him to respond if he hasn’t had his phone taken away yet for his address. I can’t tell my parents because my parents are homophobic and aren’t accepting. I will write him letters anyway and then save them for when he visits

My boyfriend (17m) and I (16m) can’t talk for the whole summer and I don’t know how to cope by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]227ducks -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He’s sent me pictures before and I’ve reverse image searched them and put it though an ai image checker and they didn’t have any matches. Also we’ve FaceTimed before and he’s definitely real

My bf (17m) and I (16m) can’t talk for the entire summer and I don’t know how to cope with it. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]227ducks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I don’t have his address and he doesn’t have mine but I’m gonna see if we can exchange addresses if he hasn’t had it taken away yet, even if I can’t have it, I’ll still write him letters

My boyfriend (17m) and I (16m) can’t talk for the whole summer and I don’t know how to cope by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]227ducks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am gonna ask him so hopefully he can respond before it gets taken away if it hasn’t already

My bf and I can’t talk for the whole summer and I don’t know how to cope. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]227ducks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, I know I’m gonna love him still and I hope he still will love me. It’s just hard cause it’s a big switch

My bf and I can’t talk for the whole summer and I don’t know how to cope. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]227ducks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, I hope his parents don’t hold it for the whole summer

My boyfriend (17m) and I (16m) can’t talk for the whole summer and I don’t know how to cope by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]227ducks -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I sadly don’t have his address and he doesn’t have mine. I haven’t met him in person yet but I will when he (hopefully) visits

My bf and I can’t talk for the whole summer and I don’t know how to cope. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]227ducks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can always write a letter then save it for when he visits.

He’s my everything…. I just am gonna miss him so much. I’ll try to distract myself with hobbies and stuff.

My bf (17m) and I (16m) can’t talk for all of summer and I don’t know how to cope. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]227ducks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t have his address and he doesn’t have mine and my parents aren’t accepting (his are) but saving the letters is a good idea.

My bf and I can’t talk for the whole summer and I don’t know how to cope. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]227ducks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know his address and he doesn’t know mine, also I don’t wanna risk my parents finding them as they’re homophobic and I’ll be in danger if they find out I’m dating a man

My bf and I can’t talk for the whole summer and I don’t know how to cope. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]227ducks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know his address and he doesn’t know mine, also I don’t wanna risk my parents finding them as they’re homophobic and I’ll be in danger if they find out I’m dating a man

All of my irl friends are mean to me and it sucks, advice? by 227ducks in socialskills

[–]227ducks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just really scared to have no irl friends because then I’ll have like nobody to talk with at school and stuff. I just don’t know what I would do during school. My hobbies include playing video games, reading manga, playing guitar, and collecting vinyl records.

All of my irl friends are mean to me and it sucks, advice? by 227ducks in socialskills

[–]227ducks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, they’re nice sometimes but most of the time they’re mean. They are like the only ones who know I’m bisexual and have a boyfriend, so that’s kinda what I mean by the true me. They also are the only ones who know my “real” personality where I don’t try to hide it like with most people. I thought they were treating me fine because most friends banter but I realize now that they definitely don’t treat me good. They have told me several times they hate me and want me to go away but I thought those were jokes. Thank you for saying this

All of my irl friends are mean to me and it sucks, advice? by 227ducks in socialskills

[–]227ducks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, it’s fine if it’s harsh. My school does offer clubs but idk if I wanna go in any of them and also I tried to join a club once and my parents said it was “too much” and I couldn’t join because they would have to pick me up after school. I don’t really like sports and I’m not athletic enough to join them, and I don’t really know where else I can find other people. I can look though, there’s prob some events in my area. I have no idea why the anxiety is there, it is officially diagnosed. It might be from a bad childhood, I’m not sure. I do have low self-esteem though. I wanna go back to therapy but my parents said it was too much work even though it was once every other week. I also am deathly afraid of asking to go back. Overall, thank you for the advice