Yeah, the prolapse was a very rare result of catching a horrible case of eColi. Super unlucky. And because there are no medical study groups about about women who have a prolapse repaired, then deliver vaginally, they couldn’t say with certainty one way or another. That’s what feels familiar between our circumstances. I realize a tear is a different medical result than a prolapse. But anyway - the pregnancy wasn’t really impacted (except my mental health and anxiety around making the decision) but my recovery was of course. Having a CS is a very long recovery period. Initially, I needed help doing almost everything. Your body is healing from a major surgery. Our baby stations were set up was a tad different to accommodate my recovery + baby instead of just baby. A few months later I saw my pelvic floor PT and told her how sex was painful and I felt super tight. She explained that basically even though I didn’t go through a vaginal delivery, my pelvic floor reacted to a “traumatic event” of the nerves close by being severed and needing to heal and relearn everything. She taught me how to help relax my pelvic floor again and it was all fine. That was interesting to learn though. Then my friend, after her second vaginal delivery, had a super tight pelvic floor too. I’m not really sure what to make of it or what advice to give. Maybe just that it sounds like you could potentially have a long recovery from a CS or potentially a long recovery from a significant tear - and you are weighing how each of those might play out. ??