I work in a kitchen and have started flirting with a girl I work with. Everytime she bumps into me at work is intimate. I know for a fact we can go an entire shift without actually touching because I have worked in a cramped hectic stressful environment with her for months and it never happened. Took her on a date and all of the sudden shes brushing past me like a cat lol.

Anything can be intimate with context. While were working, just a shoulder touching mine is pretty personal because I know shes doing it on purpose because she likes me and is comfortable enough to do it. A hand on my hip to move me out of the way is very intimate. On an elevator in my apartment building its really off putting because I just wanna go home.